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writes:Okay. I Will Try Not To Write An Essay. I’ve Been With This Guy For Like 7 Months He’s Really Nice And I Love Him. But He’s Way Older Than Me, I’m Not Going To Tell You How Old He Is But He’s Way Older Than Me. Im 13 But I Told Him I’m 14; I Am 14 In The Next 3 Months Though. Anyway That’s Not The Problem. My Vagina Has Unpleasant Smells… Sometimes. I’m A Virgin And I Do Bathe Like Everyday. It Doesn’t Smell Very Very Bad But If You Go Close It Has This Weird Smell. My Boyfriend Goes Down On Me, He Doesn’t Say Anything, He’s A Bit Shy As Me But I’m Shyer. (If That Makes Sense). I’ve Tried To Use Different Soaps But You Can Still Smell The Weird Smell As Well As The Nice Soap Smell. It’s Really Embarrassing. Please Advice. xxxx
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reader, lorencx +, writes (5 June 2014):
Hey im 13 and I also have the same problem it smells kinda fishy down there I didnsome research and it said sometimes this hapoens because you dont wipe down there from front to back you should not whipe from back to front it brings the bacteria from the back onto your v and you need to drink alot of water and eat yogurt and try this remedie bathe in a bath sith about 1 cup fullnof baking soda it did not work for me -.- but it might work for you and I told my mom and im going to go get checked on friday butnim really uncomfortable with them looking down there because I shaved down there because a website said the odor is caused by the hair so I shaved and nope that wasent the problem but yea anyways go get checked tell your mom or something hope I helped
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 April 2009): your period might sometimes give off a horrible stink
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reader, humanoid777 +, writes (24 November 2008):
Apparently none of these people seem to remember jr. high and high school. Everyone I new was having sex or trying to get it, regardless of partner age. Do not be ashamed of any choices that you make, but always try to position your self to make wise decisions. Learn from the mistakes we made growing up but live your own life and maintain a positive image of sex.
As far as the smell, I don't think you need to worry. As a man I know what to expect when going down there. It's all part of the fun and excitement. I have even asked girls if their smell is stronger when they become wet and they said yes. So, it's natural sweety. However, it is your BOYFRIEND'S RESPONSIBILITY to keep both of you safe.
Present him with a condom at ALL TIMES if he doesn't have one of his own. Understand? If he isn't willing to wear one, do not allow him access to your body AT ALL! Understand? You don't know where he stix that thing, okay.
So, find solutions instead of avoidance; explore your sexual world and enjoy rich feelings. Just remember, same as getting on a roller-coaster, you want to have fun but you must always remember... Safety First.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 January 2008): ok sweetheart hate to break it to you but if you are only 13 years old and you are even close to having SEX or even having sexual intercourse with a man that is a hell of alot older than you then you need a rude awakening. I dont want to be the one to yell at you but listen this guy KNOWS better i am damn sure if he is that much older and you you are 13 sweetie DONT lie about your age either, im sure if you told him you were thirteen he still wouldnt mind this guy has to be sick and twisted in the head if he is that much old then you and is dating you in the first place. about the problem some smells are normal if you are aound the time of your period then yes it may smell a little also if you sweat alot and dont clean yourself after he makes moves on you or gets you aroused, im sure if you clean daily but dont scrub your self like u got a bad itch or something just rinse it and even after you sweat and have intercourse the smell will subside and you will also prevent having vaginal infections. after about a week if this doesnt go away you should go see a doctor for help. you need to think about it and STAY as safe as possible AND have him wear a condom CAUSE SWEETIE THERES SHIT THAT AJAX cant wash off.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 April 2007): i don't know about the smell thing but i'nm 14 and i'm with a guy thats rly older than me but my mum doesn't know, just thought i would tell you so u knew u wernt on ur own
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 April 2007): I agree with all the other people that advise you to see a doctor. It can be a simple or not so simple problem. I guess is that it's nothing really bad, but should not be left untreated.Please see a doctor.
I wish that you weren't having sex.You may not like this, but you are still a child, a baby. This man should NOT BE HAVING SEX WITH YOU. Maybe you love him, but it does not make it right.Maybe you should be like a child to him. What is wrong with him, I am sorry to say this and maybe some day you will understand why I said this, but THIS MAN IS SICK.............. I mean really sick. What would your parents think if they find out ??? You have to be careful that you don't have a sexual transmitted disease. What about HIV...aids ??? aren't you afraid of all these ??? My dear, I do not want to scare you here, I am only trying to make you aware of what can happen when you are having a sexual relationship with someone. Hope that you do get medical help soon. Take care
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2007): hi ive read all the other readers comments but what they havent advised you is to go to the docs to make sure that you havent picked up an std some std's smell and some dont so as a word of caution please get it checked it can be embarrassing but you could be looking at infertility (not having babies) if chlamidia is the cause if its vd that is going untreated it could be alot worse i dont mean to frighten you at all but you have said he is so nuch older than you and dont expect him to just f**k with you cause he is only f***ing with your mind if he is that much older he will know its against the law SO PLEASE DO YOURSELF A FAVOUR GET MEDICIAL ADVISE and in future always wear a condom you dont need to be another satistic in the single family department of the social services
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reader, xxxsoulsistaxxx  +, writes (19 April 2007):
 This really isn't a problem, it's just natural bodily smells. We all have them and whatever you do to clean it, it will never smell like roses! If he wants to go down on you, he knows what to expect so stop panicking and enjoy it.
Just carry on keeping yourself clean all the time and maybe before sex, have a quick clean before anything happens. As long as the smell only occurs when you're near to the vagina, it's no problem. It's only a problem if the smell follows you down the street! Eww!
You're still very young and probably not emotionally mature enough to handle this kind of relationship. You're getting used to your body and it's a confusing time as it is, you don't need to add sex worries to your list!
Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2007): By the way, there is a cure for this smell. Buy some grapefruit seed extract from a health food shop. DILUTE it as the instructions say and put it in a bottle that you can use to squirt it inside. It cures thrush and vaginosis harmlessly, but you should read about it yourself before you use it. It also cures sore cuts, athletes foot, dandruff and you can even purify drinking water with it. Stinky facecloths become fresh again, in fact I think it has been used in hospital laundries at times too. First, get yourself checked by a doctor. I can not believe that people replying seem to accept that you are having sex at 13 years old - tragic.
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reader, birdynumnums  +, writes (19 April 2007):
 Hi Honey,
It's alright to rinse yourself out with water, the inside of your vagina will replenish itself. Don't rinse inside your vagina with anything other than water. Using a mild soap around the general area and rinsing after helps too. If you don't do this after sex (and always pee after sex to prevent bladder infections), you will probably still smell like sex. I hope you are using a condom (this is the lecture part!) and one other form of birth control as well. If you still smell after all this, and it is a fishy smell, you need to see a Doctor. It is a bacterial infection that needs treatment. I hope that the person that you are sleeping with is not too much older, you are underage and this man could be taking advantage with you and he could be breaking the law if he is over 18. Please take good care of yourself and I hope this helped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2007): FIRST, you should be checked out by a doctor in case he has passed you a significant infection. Is it legal to have sex so early in the USA? In the UK he would get a criminal record and put on the register of paedophiles. So my message is giving you advice but I am also telling you that this relationship is wrong. You are too young to have and look after a baby, therefor you are too young to have sex. The law should guard you from men who try to have sex with children when they are not emotionally mature to comprehend the consequences.
There is no way that a nice, trustworthy caring man would have sex with a child like you. I am afraid that there is a whole lot more to him than you may know, which is why having unprotected sex with him is a terrible idea. Get to the doctor, who may well want to now how you are picking up such infections at the age of 13. You are not old enough to look after yourself like an adult, you should not have your childhood stolen from you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 April 2007): Well lets see your 14 so your going through a lot of changes and the smell is completley normal just take some baking soda into a bath and do this for three days and it will eventually go away..
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reader, macboy  +, writes (19 April 2007):
 I am a male, but I have heard that bad vaginal odour can be caused by infection or something.
I think there may be some kind of perfume you can use also.
Sorry, my knowledge on this topic is limited.
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reader, harshbutfair +, writes (19 April 2007):
 Ok I'm gonna cut to the chase because this is asked all the freakin time.
PUSSY SMELLS. Period.
Turned on (hot! wet!) PUSSY SMELLS EVEN MORE.
Pussy also varies in smell during the month, and it depends on how often you're fucking/bathing/sweating/whether the guy shoots inside you, etc. etc. etc..
All you're gonna do with excess "soaping" is give yourself a sore pussy and / or a yeast infection.
I'll leave it to someone more sanctimonious than myself to lecture you on underage sex.
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