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writes:...hi, im 16 years old, and i was wondering...i am not circumcised, but when i get an erection my foreskin does not slide back over the head, and when i try to pull it back it hurts. is there anything wrong with my penis? do i need to be circumcised?also, all my life i have been atracted to girls, but for the last year or so i have been interested in other lads. i now know that i am gay, but is such a quick change in sexual preferance normal?thank you for your help :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 July 2007): Don't sweat it. I had the same problem pulling back my foreskin when I was 16, it passed. I love being uncircumcised, and be proud of who you are.
As for the whole being sexuality thing, I'm not touching it. All I'll say is all will become clear with time. It did for me. Turns out I am gay. Best of luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2007): avoid getting circumcised as it is not necessary, only as a last resort. if your doctor suggests it first then maybe thats because its a bit of an aussie thing. seriously the forskin is well fun and its removal will be noticable and not necissarilly positive for you.
maybe your bisexual-try a bit of every pie and see what flavour floats your boat. could be that you just have a pent up need to get those urges out.either way dont right off women. as my friend put it, to exorcise your demons why not suck it and see(pun from an old advert for vitamins), you'll know pretty quickly if its just a wank fantasy
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 July 2007): Your foreskin will probbaly come back comfortably within the next year or so. Mine never came back until I was about your age - it just all of a sudden happened one day.You may well have been gay all your life you just didn't realise it until more recently.
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reader, macboy +, writes (29 June 2007):
 Firstly, Circumcision isn't necessary.
Go see your GP and tell him your problem.
He will prescribe you a steriod-based cream.
Basically, you put on the cream and stretch the skin maybe twice a day, and it should grow enough so you can pull it back.
And, don't worry about your sexuality.
Many guys your age are confused about those things.
Don't automatically jump to the conclusion that you are gay.
Though there is nothing wrong with it; its best not to label yourself until you are more psychologically aware of who you are.
Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 June 2007): Circumcision is a bit drastic. See a doctor and ask if there is some sort of alternative. It maybe something as simple as needing to be stretched a little at a time. Pull it back a little and then stop when it hurts. Over time it should be able to do it on it's own without pain.
As for the quick change are you only attracted to men now? If you are still interested in women it could be that you're bi-sexual. I've never heard of such a quick change from liking one group to liking the opposite group.
Hope this was helpful, take care.
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