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36-40,
anonymous
writes: I think my father and my brother are bisexuals / gays. They want to maintain some kind of emotional tie with me, though when i get close to them, they keep humiliating me and insulting me. Moreover, they kind of depend on each other for some kind of reassurance by having a relationship of love and hatred. At times, they fight with each other, humiliate each other, insult each other, whereas at other times, they behave like a very loving father-son. And they want me to be a part of this thing they share with each other, if not, i am of no value to them. I know for sure they are sick and don't want to end up in to their shackles. However, i sometimes do feel a need for acceptance by them, as i was so much protected since i was young. How do i get over this? Reply to this Question
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reader, macboy  +, writes (3 May 2007):
 They are immature and insecure about themselves.
If your father cannot maintain a close bond with you, then it could end up being very difficult for you to maintain close bonds with other guys.
Just being here and recognizing what is wrong, you have proved yourself more mature than them.
Don't let their insecuriity affect your life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 May 2007): they need to grow up and act like adults not spoilt children,and they should accept you for whom you are not what you are,so dont feel the need to be accepted by them its their loss
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