How do I make my son my priority over my romantic relationship?
Q. This isn't your typical relationship question. I am currently involved with a man who treats my heart like a revolving door due to his own depression. I am madly in love with him and that won't change. My problem is my lack of self esteem that ...
A. 16 November 2010: My wife and I just had a discussion about a similar situation with a girlfriend of hers. Basically your in a cycle of needing the abuse to feel loved. My wifes friend has gone from relationship to relationship but the only ones that seem to last ... (read in full...)
Am I fat?
Q. im 5"3 nd weigh 130 pounds i have a flat tummy nd big breast for some men do you consider this fat? ...
A. 3 October 2010: honey number u are not fat and remember jealousy comes from big breasteses....basically lets put it this way your perfect to spin like a top or be picked up and literally manhandled...and your only fat if u think you are. Just tell yourself u are a ... (read in full...)
I don't want my friend hurt over this girl!
Q. Like my guy friend E has been dating this girl C for two months....I got the guts to tell him HE'S obsessed! He only hangs with her and no one else! He even stops texting when theyre hanging and he only talks about her! But everyone knows he will ...
A. 21 August 2010: quite frankly nothing. The harder you push the issue the easier your going to make it on c to create even more distance. This is one of those situations where all you can be there for him. Sometimes a guy just has to find out the hard way. You know ... (read in full...)
Wanting to date my sister's friend, but my sister wants me back with my ex...
Q. I have recently split up with my previous girlfriend since she grew to be controlling and possesive towards me, we had an arguement which ended up me leaving her. We are now friends which is'nt much an issue. BUT My sister and my previous part...
A. 12 August 2010: well u being happy should be your first concern. This could start a pattern of your sisters needs coming before yours and when it comes to your love life your needs have to come first. You have to tell your sister that you love her but you also have ... (read in full...)
Is there something wrong with me or it?
Q. My boyfriend and I fool around almost every time we see each other. He goes down and me and is fantastic! I go down on him and he won't stay hard. He insists that it feels awesome, but his penissays otherwise. He claims to just get really nervous ...
A. 21 July 2010: well the not nervous part is up to him...but u can try a few things...u could try before just rushin down there talk sexy or dirty to him.....work up his appitite...and this one seems to be one that for some reason people get weird about...ask him ... (read in full...)
To all the cheaters and heartbreakers out there; start being sincere and stop being deceptive because time waits for no-one!
Q. This is for most men,especially the cheaters and the heart breakers. Women are supposed to be loved not abused or get their heart broken. Men were made in the image of God and to hear how some men treat their wives,girlfriends,significant other or ...
A. 21 July 2010: i agree with what your saying...but just to add my two cents on what i think is there but should be said.....physical affairs are horrible...i believe my wife might of had one early last year...never enough proof to have her admit it but its in my ... (read in full...)
Is she cheating on me??
Q. Okay, so right before bed my gf and i text and she tells me shes going to bed usually sleep well and goodnight. 98 percent of the time.. well a couple days ago she was being all " ohh hunny bear, i hope you sleep well xoxo muah etc.. just really ...
A. 21 July 2010: i agree with that answer...but pretty much its all bad news for u. One way or another u have just been shown out of the inner circle. Dont confront unless u can nail her whatever it is because if u come with nothing but the phone thing and such she ... (read in full...)
What could it be that went so wrong for her not to tell me?
Q. Hi, I am going to try to make this short as much as I can I’ve known this 22 year-old girl since she was 16. We’ve always been good friends and I have always had a small crush on her. 3 years ago she moved a few states away with her family, we m...
A. 20 July 2010: my man im in the same boat. With my wife. With her being in a relationship were she lives and being in an emotional relationship with you could be the very thing thats she is torn about. Maybe she is pondering the thought of who to choose. Guilt im ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend is hanging around bad influences and now I'm paranoid he's cheating...!
Q. ive been with my boyfriend for over 3 years. i have never worried about him cheating on me i have never really worried about much when he's out. Now he has started to hang out with an old friend of mine(and i know his dirty habits) and don't trust ...
A. 8 July 2010: hey how u doin...whenever a partner lies to u about where they have been or who there with its natural to get suspicious. But on the bright side it could be he is devoloping a drug problem or worse losing his feelings for u either u are goin to have ... (read in full...)
Guys: what does it mean when he shakes my hand?
Q. Theres this guy I have a small crush on at work. I've only been working there a few weeks, but we every once in awhile, I catch him glancing at me, then looking away. We've sort of played the flirty game of catching each others eyes for brief m...
A. 3 July 2010: well he was probably embarrassed that he saw someone from work first off. He might keep his personnal life and work life seperate. There is a possibility he likes you. Try to be his friend try to just hang out. Oh dont tell anyone from your job he ... (read in full...)
Jealous boyfriend won't connect with my son!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year and he just doesn't get me at all. I met him through my ex and it was great at 1st. I moved in with him after 5 months and left my home town and my children with their dad as there was access ...
A. 16 June 2010: im sorry to say but the symptoms u have described can really only be two things one is he is cheating on u because the sudden change in behavior the raging jealousy. If he can do it so can u so he initiates lock down. It also explains why he wont ... (read in full...)
Am I pregnant because my period was shorter?
Q. How do I know if i`m pregnant or not?If I just recently had my period last week on Monday but,ended on Thursday of last week and that was the same week that I started and for those four days it was normally.On Friday however I was bleeding some ...
A. 16 June 2010: first off i am a male but i am a father and husband and have a basic knowledge of how the plumbing works. If u have not had sex since your period it is highly highly unlikely u are pregnant i u are prego then your menstration cycle stops because the ... (read in full...)
Second date flake or genuine reason?
Q. So I met this guy online, we went out for a date, I was totally into him and I reckon he was into me. We went back to his had a bit of fun (nothing too serious). I was smitten. I texted him the following day telling him it was great to meet him, he ...
A. 16 June 2010: unfortunatly it can really only be one of three things. One dude is married and he had a little fun without any evidence. Aka freepass. The entire point of goin online and started chattin it up with u because he was bored, horney, took a bet, wanted ... (read in full...)
Sex Ed in school
Q. I am very annoyed every time a girl or boy gets on here and is afraid someone is pregnant and they don't know the facts because they didn't have sex ed. I went to a very liberal public school that taught very good sex ed, about STD's, how to stay to ...
A. 16 June 2010: good question...my son is but 19 months old but i have thought about this subject. I had sex ed in my middle school and it was very good it talked about a touchy subject. I know for me it gave me a heavy dose of reality. A much needed dose mind you. ... (read in full...)
Lost and in love...
Q. My boyfriend and i have been together for a year. We love each other and have been through a lot including break ups that are slowly getting more frequent. (this worries me) In the beginning he was completly enamored with me. I took his virgini...
A. 16 June 2010: i would say that if u truly love him and u know he truly loves u then this is a rough patch...and and stick it out....on the other hand it seems he has resentment for u doing whatever u did my best guess was guilt trips...and things said that would ... (read in full...)
What can I do to pass the time and distract myself until she gets back?
Q. I have been going out with my girlfriend for nearly 3 months and i have grown really close to her. She is going on this family vacation for almost 2 months and i have no idea what to do. She has just left and i already miss her. I find most of my ...
A. 16 June 2010: sounds to me like u love her so dont think there is any quick fix to get her out of your mind....and what can u do to pass the time. Do what u always do. If its work then its work if its being with friends do that. If its xbox live that will work ... (read in full...)
Do you think my friend is trying to set me up with her friend???
Q. Do you think my friend is trying to set me up with her friend, and should i meet up with him/them ?. She has said quite a few times that he really wants to meet me, and she said he is a nice guy, and that he is six years older than me. She has just ...
A. 16 June 2010: i personally have never been in that type of situation. But a penny for my thoughts the positive side first. Your girlfriend has hopefully known this unknown gentlemen for at least a little while so she knows what she is setting u up with. Maybe u ... (read in full...)
Do I stay with my wife and child or do I stay with her???
Q. I'm 23 year old and i managed to get my self married and its been 4 years. i have a little two year old girl, my wife was divorced when i met her and has 4 children of her own. she is also mania-co depressive so its very hard emotionally. i know i ...
A. 16 June 2010: first i dont know where u live but in the states there is a saying 15 wll get u twenty...(if u dont know this saying means messing with a 15 year old will get ya twenty years in the state penn) im sorry but im very civil and very respectful usually. ... (read in full...)
Unable to orgasm, help!
Q. hi im 57 male and havnt had sex in the last 4 weeks.i and my female partner have been on holiday in u/k for last 2 weeks and 3 times we have had sex and my partner came and i havnt.i am always up for it but it seems once my partner cums i seem to ...
A. 16 June 2010: first are u still sexually attracted to your wife. If so then you should see a doctor. Maybe there is blockage enlargwd prostate who knows im not a doc but hey it could be a medical problem. If u are no longer turned on by your wife then thats ... (read in full...)
Why did he even call me???
Q. My bf from long ago (24yrs) called me several months ago because he was having trouble in his marriage and wanted advice. I helped him suggesting books and such and then after several calls told him I didnt feel comfortable helping him thru...
A. 16 June 2010: im sorry but the biggest piece to this puzzle is the dont call me back on this number...not to be vulgar but the smell of BS is definetly in the air. First sets u up by giving u a sob story about marital problems. (now because i dont know the answer ... (read in full...)
How to get her to love me again?
Q. I've heard of a clean break. Its not possible in this case. What do u do when you've already agreed to be someones friend and you know that they care for you? And if she says she doesn't know where her feelings for me went, how do I get them bac...
A. 16 June 2010: If its been said once its been said a thousand times. The only person you can change is yourself. Think to your relationship with her. But....keep it in the I dont focous on the things that she did to bother u or drive u crazy or u thought was ... (read in full...)
I feel he's stifling me!
Q. I've been dating *Brandon for almost 2 years. He's quiet and sometimes open. We can tell each other everything but lately I haven't felt like i wanted to kiss him or be really affectionate. It doesn't seem like a big deal but he's always kissing me ...
A. 16 June 2010: You might not like what I have to say but here it goes. It seems like you are feeling crowded quite frankly. Everyone needs space but there is such a thing as too much space. You say your happy you love him he just needs to cool his jets i happen to ... (read in full...)
He wants to keep his female 'friend' in case we break up
Q. bf cheated on me with some online friends by cybering we are 18 and know each other in RL. At the time we were going through some fights and i have been mean to him in alot of ways the past months(i wasn't always like this)and pushed him over the...
A. 16 June 2010: well it sounds like he is very confused and angry and it seems like there are thoughts of betrayel on both parts. He doesnt seem to have much confidence in yur willingness to stay. But an emotional affair is just as bad as physical one. The only way ... (read in full...)
What should I do about this?
Q. Hi everyone, I've been battling with this for a while now and after reading a lot of replies to similar questions here, I decided that this is the best place for me to get advice. My boyfriend and I are both young (we're both 20) and we met...
A. 16 June 2010: i will start out with this...fool me once shame on you fool me twice shame on me. Now when the first incident happened he pretty much told you will not act in this manner again. First mistake was to allow there friendship to continue but thats ... (read in full...)
Could this be bad for our marriage?
Q. I am a 59 year old woman married for 28 years. When my husband developed health issues that affected his ability to get an erection I thought my sex life was over. He tried Viagra and and some other stuff and when nothing worked he started telling ...
A. 16 June 2010: Well I would say the biggest problem will be emotional attachment. Obviously you love your husband but unfortunatly say something like he completes me about the other man may very well end up hurting u in the end because you have to think if he ... (read in full...)
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