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writes:hi im 57 male and havnt had sex in the last 4 weeks.i and my female partner have been on holiday in u/k for last 2 weeks and 3 times we have had sex and my partner came and i havnt.i am always up for it but it seems once my partner cums i seem to loose my stiffness.(i have also treid to relief myself after sex by hand but it stills go limp even with wifes help) i love my partner who is a great wife but what has happened to me. we have been together almost 30yr and now this is happening to me.we have always enjoyed a great sex life but im still young and dont want to lose my sex appeal just yet.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (16 June 2010):
It's likely to be a mixture of age and stress. The good news is that it can be solved, but I think it's best if you go to a doctor. That way illness and such can be ruled out. It could be that because it happened once, you're worrying about in your mind and it's happening again. But as I said, it's well worth speaking to a doctor so you can have a check up.
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reader, lsickle  +, writes (16 June 2010):
first are u still sexually attracted to your wife. If so then you should see a doctor. Maybe there is blockage enlargwd prostate who knows im not a doc but hey it could be a medical problem. If u are no longer turned on by your wife then thats something your goin to have deal with. The last thing could be that its mental. I.E. Stress, as you stated maybe deep down u have felt u have lost your sex appeal and that can certainly mess with your libido. It could be age and what i mean by that either u feel like u are getting old or your lookin and he number sixty in the window and it scares the hell outta ya. Thats what i can speculate from your question. One other note is there an underlying emotion u have with your self or about yur spouse...
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