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30-35,
anonymous
writes: I've heard of a clean break. Its not possible in this case. What do u do when you've already agreed to be someones friend and you know that they care for you? And if she says she doesn't know where her feelings for me went, how do I get them back? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, lsickle +, writes (16 June 2010):
If its been said once its been said a thousand times. The only person you can change is yourself. Think to your relationship with her. But....keep it in the I dont focous on the things that she did to bother u or drive u crazy or u thought was plain nuts. Keep it in the I...think of what she was telling you about what made her uncomfortable or what u did to drive her crazy or how or why arguments would happen. If you can show her you can change and you are willing and able to change...which is difficult. There may be a shot down the road to rekindle that loving feeling. But then again there is the chance that she has changed to a point were there is nothing you can do. Either way actions speak louder then words
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