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Do you think he is cheating?

Q.   First, my husband works on the pipeline, so he is gone for 3 weeks and then home for 3 weeks. This time, he worked for 8 weeks so he's been gone since july. We talk on the phone every night so I thought everything was fine, he was just working 16 hr ...

A.   26 September 2012:  sounds fishy to me , maybe he is cheating on you. I hope he does come to his senses. thou how long have you been married to eachother , 30's sounds young for midlife crisis. does he treat you diferently? no matter what his problem is , he has a ... (read in full...)

7 year itch. Why would she leave without even talking to me and telling me what was wrong?

Q.   I am still a little confused about why my wife left me. She says she left because I was having an affair with a friend of mine, which I wasn't and she knew this, we have been together for 7 years, always have been able to talk, but in the last few...

A.   19 September 2012: there could have been a lots of reasons maybe it had nothing to do with you. she was wrong to just leave like that, she should have explained even if she didnt want things to work between you guys atleast you would have known. I hope that she would ... (read in full...)

Do you think my wife has forgotten what losing her virginity felt like?

Q.   My wife lost her virginity to one man (had sex just once before me) and I have been fucking her three times a week for over twenty years. Has she forgotten about that first experience by now or will she always remember how it felt the first ti...

A.   19 September 2012: you are still wondering about her first time could be coz your just fucking her three times a week for 20 years now how about you start making love to her atleast once a week , even you'll forget her first time. ... (read in full...)

Regarding her expenses, what should I do?

Q.   I really need all the advice I can get regarding my relationship. First off I'm lesbian, and my girlfriend and I have been together a little over two years. I love her and am in love with her. My love language is being there emotionally, physically, ...

A.   31 August 2012: I read your story and what i came up with is that , this woman is making you pay for the love she returns which is not what you would like. Yes i understand you want to shower your lover with gifts and all, i would do the same but i will not let her ... (read in full...)

Can any bisexual women give me advice on how to make the physical side of this relationship work?

Q.   Hello, I am 5 months into my first relationship, I am 21, and this relationship is with a girl. I always presumed myself to be straight, but then I never really had reason to question or doubt myself- the only time I did was when friends would tr...

A.   3 August 2012: i am not bi but fully lesbian and you problem is not as bad as you think or not at all bad. i have the same thing i dont get there, as my girl but i do , it just takes way longer . so i say just remember the thing you do before you are pleasureing ... (read in full...)

Text How do you know when to let go and move on from a relationship?

Q.   How do you know when to let go and move on from a relationship or when to stay with it and move forward? Lots of positives in the relationship, but there are trust issues and I'm learning that we don't communicate well- I don't think he "fights ...

A.   27 July 2012: I thought the main thing in any relationship is was trust and communication , and you dont have both. those positives has to be HUGE for you to stay. ... (read in full...)

Is she cheating on me?

Q.   I have been with my gf for almost 9 years. Like everyone else we have ups and down but I caught her in a lie several months ago and have been suspicious ever since.she signed up for a website and I just happened to find it. I confronted her and she ...

A.   27 July 2012: Dude the signs are off the chart . you both need to take a break from eachother. ... (read in full...)

Should I be with my husband knowing he belongs somewhere else?

Q.   pls help be4 i make a mistake im madly in love with this man my husband and i been trying to make this right from the shock of his cheating that was found out 2 weeks after we got married he was still sleeping with his ex. i have tryed to heal ...

A.   27 July 2012: I dont like the fact that he threatened you. somthing not right . i agree with one of the answers here that he should have just come out clean ratter then defensive . I say you love this man so dont him ask to choose, I say in very kind and stright ... (read in full...)

We broke up a month and a half ago and she wont let me see my kids. I need advice!

Q.   will my girlfreind and i broke up a month and a half ago..we have kids..shes started sseing a guy rite after we seperated..i still help her out with our kids..and lately shes wont let me see my kids..its been a week tht i haven't seen my kids i ...

A.   24 July 2012: no not all weman are like her so move on faster then others. in her case she moved faster. i say forget about her if she does still love, you she will come back , but do go see a lawyer for your kids she cant keep your kids away from you. you should ... (read in full...)

Should I let the relationship go to protect my heart? I'm really confused.

Q.   I have been best friends with my (ex) fiance for almost 10 years, dating in a long distant relationship for a year and a half and engaged for almost 6 months. We recently took a vacation together and he was on his phone and tablet the whole time, ...

A.   10 July 2012: Let it go . If he is treating you like that now, what will be happening after you get married. I say let it go is not worth it. ... (read in full...)

When is it too late for true love?

Q.   At what age do you think its too late for true love? ...

A.   13 June 2012: It's never to late for true love.... (read in full...)

Still a Virgin at 28 years old and I want to get rid of it.

Q.   I'm an attractive educated female and I'm about to turn 29 years old and I haven't had sex yet. Don't get me wrong, I've done everything but get penetrated. I was waiting till marriage but I have no prospects and I don't want this to be a problem ...

A.   29 May 2012: wow it is a nice thing to hear that you are still a virgin, which doesnt happen much. you havent found that one love , which may just come in at anytime right, but then times flys too. :) you could just wait as you said you want him to love and ... (read in full...)

I'm a lesbian, then what's with my feelings for this man?

Q.   Hi aunts and uncles. I'm in a bit of a crazy dilemma here. First off, I'm a 29 year old lesbian woman, holder of a PhD in Electrical Engineering. So I'm not an idiot. I also don't want kids, so I'm not really worried about my age. Since I was a ...

A.   22 May 2012: you are still single , you dont have to worry about anything . As you explained in you massage how you explored with your first, i say explore again what is to lose friendship well if he is that good of a friend he'll still be around. keep things ... (read in full...)

Her mother has heard my wife is escorting, how should she discuss this her mother?

Q.   my wife has been working as an escort since 2009 and is quite satisfied with what she does. it causes no problems in our marriage. we are financially stable now and invest 75 percent of everything she makes. she pays her taxes and even lists her ...

A.   17 May 2012: I dont see why she would talk to the mother she is a grown ass married woman , what she does is her and her husband in that case your business. Mother should stay out of it thou on offense to her, i dont think there is a good or nice way to tell ... (read in full...)

Sagittarian Dragon and Leo Rat: A Crush Story. Has anyone ever been in a slightly similar situation?

Q.   Has anyone ever experienced an attraction to another person that has gone on for years, and no matter how hard you try, the chemistry between you and this person never goes away. So here's my crushing issue...without giving too many details....

A.   14 May 2012: I think there is a very good reason you feel what you feel towards this person and been a dragon you will not settle till you find that reason. Not so sure about sagittarius gragon but all have some traits of the dragon. I am a gemini fire dragon. I ... (read in full...)

I want my dad to come to my graduation but not his wife and kids

Q.   So first thing, I haven't spoken to my father or that side of my family for almost 8 years now, after my dad kicked me out of his house when I was 14 (I lived with my mother after that - they were divorced). I'm graduating this Saturday from co...

A.   7 May 2012: so why ask your dad to come now when you havent spoken to him in over 8 years , how does your mom feel about this you havent said anything about her , she was there for you when your dad kicked you out , so your mom should be getting all the credit ... (read in full...)

If a man is in a committed relationship, why would he take a ladies number?

Q.   If a man is in a long-term committed relationship, and goes out to a bar with his friends, if he chats with a lady and she gives him her phone number, shouldn't he say "no thanks, I have a girlfriend" instead of putting the number in his pocket? ...

A.   6 May 2012: i dont think it's a big deal that he kept the number . Maybe he didnt want to hurt her feeling. Now if he uses the number it's a totally different thing. You dont trust him to give you a stright answers so wait and see , just dont invest to much ... (read in full...)

What is the best way to get divorce without a lawyer?

Q.   I can’t take my husband anymore he uses my parents as a tool. Anytime he wants to hurt me he disrespects them, not in front of them. I talked to him tonight and said that I will leave he said that is fine and do whatever you want. He doesn’t think ...

A.   16 April 2012: You'll be fine which state you are in . without a lawer may work as you said you dont want anything from him. you have to do all the work thou going to the court and all, and there is free help out there that you can use . check on line you'll fine ... (read in full...)

Why would she ask me my sexual orientation?

Q.   Please comment despite the length pls. So I'm not out to everyone that I'm lesbian so at work maybe two people may know. Anyways there's this female that I noticed last month or so who has very beautiful hazel eyes with a nice creamy skin ...

A.   1 April 2012: i hear you , yea no 3somes thats not a good idea well i say dont get emotionally involoved .May be she is bi and wants to have fun . I have a friend like that, that how we met. thou i was up front that no guys and no threesome i like you and yes ... (read in full...)

I feel worthless as a wife because I can't offer him more!

Q.   Before I dated my husband I use to date only woman . But there was something about him that caught my eye and my heart. I started dating him and I got in a serious relationship with him and we marry. Things between us was good and we were even ...

A.   30 March 2012: I read all the comments, yes there are a couple good ones and others seems like they dont even know what they talking about and one of them telling you how to be a wife. god bless her poor soul, seems like shes inslaved in her own marriage . HE knew ... (read in full...)

Why would she ask me my sexual orientation?

Q.   Please comment despite the length pls. So I'm not out to everyone that I'm lesbian so at work maybe two people may know. Anyways there's this female that I noticed last month or so who has very beautiful hazel eyes with a nice creamy skin ...

A.   30 March 2012: she is giving you all the possible hint dude. she asked to make sure she was barking on the right tree, since you havent done anyting. girl if you want to be sure ask her right on. ... (read in full...)

At what age can your child play alone at the park?

Q.   How old do u think ur kid should be to play at the park alone with other kids if u live 6 house dwon from the park?...

A.   30 March 2012: omg i would never let my son go to the park by himself or with others kids. i will go with him even if the park was two blocks down. i live in cali , a 16 year old went missing two blocks away from her house on the way to school, now would you take ... (read in full...)

I want to spend my life with her, Please help!

Q.   where to begin.... i guess im really just looking for advice or even just to get things off my chest with an outside perspective. I guess i should tell you a bit about my situation. I met the woman of my dreams five years ago. we met on myspace.....

A.   30 March 2012: i think you can and will find someone nicer who will treat you rigt i wouldnt mind getting to know you , if only you were in cali. :) ... (read in full...)

I need a girlfriend, how do I find one?

Q.   I'm 22 and have only had 1 girlfriend. I run my own business and spend half my life working but feel something is missing.........a girlfriend!!! Where can I meet someone? I'm not in a place where you go out and see loads of gay women and I'm not ...

A.   30 March 2012: I say online , and in your case your friends, let them know you are looking for someone . they will help out you know how it goes, i know a friend who knows this gal who is looking for a date :) hey no harm in that, it may be a blind date but she ... (read in full...)

I just don't know what to think anymore!

Q.   Ok I had a child 3 years ago. Things didn't work out with his mother but shortly after we split up I fell madly in love with her cousin. Which is also my sons cousin. We have spent the last two years together and everything has been amazing. But we ...

A.   30 March 2012: You love her , she loves you . I say go for it let the people talk, they will evenually go way . you should go ahead enjoy your love and have kids I think your son will be happy to have brothers or sisters. Kids are not like adults they are open way ... (read in full...)

Why am I still feeling the way I am for her? Does she feel the same way for me?

Q.   Hello everyone! I'm not entirely sure of my question yet, it'll probably come to me as I explain my situation though. Bare with me, please. Anyways, this entire ordeal began about three years ago, summer time. I had made a friend at school, and w...

A.   7 February 2012: wow feel sorry for you. love does make you do weird things, but what is happening with you is not right. As you said you are sure about what you want, and want to go for it. It seems she is NOT where you are emotionally. As you said both your ... (read in full...)

I've developed feelings for my friend's 16 year old son, how can I make this go away?

Q.   Well here goes : i'm just 40 (look about 30-32-so i'm told)n seem to be having a mid-life crisis!! I've lost over 6 stone and feel great. Background: I'm married with 2 young children and a lovely caring husband who is the same age. Problem: ...

A.   31 August 2011: you have kids your self , put your self in your friends shoe, what would you feel and do if that was happening with your child. you'll know what you should do next.............. (read in full...)

How I can I work around my feelings so that I don't end up fired?

Q.   Hello, I started a new job a little over a month ago. I love it a lot and definitely do not want to have to quit. However, I am extremely attracted to one of my managers ( the one that hired me no less!!) Whenever she's around I can feel my hea...

A.   31 August 2011: i agree with personal12345 , if she likes you like that she will make a move, i am sure she will in the mean time you could find other things to do. ... (read in full...)

I am concerned that my GF is cheating on me with a male coworker. What can I do?

Q.   Im in a lesbian relationship of 2 and a half yrs. My girlfriend and I have been going through a lot of bs lately. She is my best friend we talk about everything. I havent been able to take her out lately due to financial issues. She has recently got ...

A.   9 April 2011: I agree with that the dude that you two need to talk very honestly to each other. if i had to put myself in your shoe, i would tell her ,i don't like it when she hides things from me, and what ever she is or not having with the guy , she needs to ... (read in full...)

How do I find out if they are into me for who I am or for my money?

Q.   Hi I'm bisexual. How can I find out if a woman or man's into me because of who I am or because I'm financially wealthy and is there a difference between women and mens thoughts about my financial weath and whether those thought effect his or her ...

A.   17 March 2011: i say learn from you past relationship, and i bet you have a true friend maybe she or he could help you. It is hard to say these days what people are after if it's not money then it's something else, will always be after something . well Wish you... (read in full...)

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