Issues with being bi sexual.
Q. So I'll try and keep this one as short as possible. So I've had a few relationships in my 24 years. A 9 month relationship with a guy, a 3 year relationship with a woman, a 3 month courtship with a woman and then well I was single for 18 mo...
A. 9 April 2010: its not commitment thats the issue. I'd never cheat on him and I can see myself being with him and him making me happy, he does make me happy so so much. much more happy than my ex girlfriend made me in the whole 3 years we were together. I did ... (read in full...)
Sex tips for 2 females wanting to get randy!
Q. I'm a female who is going to be "going down" on another girl soon, but I'm really worried I won't do it right, does anyone have any tips (from males and females is cool)....
A. 10 April 2009: Just imagine your eating an ice cream / lolly pop - push your fingers in when she starts getting really into it, use your fingers to work the spongy bit inside the top of her vagina.
Like I said, imagine her clit is a melting ice cream. ... (read in full...)
Appetite problem, please help?
Q. hey..i just wanted to ask umm like lately i havent had the appetite to eat..and i am very skinny..every morning..my stomach hurts and want eat because i cant..i just wanted to know what that means?..but like i dont have sex so i know i cant be ...
A. 19 February 2009: Yes do tell your mum and dad. Are you stressed or feeling depressed? Sometimes that can really affect peoples appetites - I know it does mine. When I split up with my ex 6 months ago I basically didn't eat for a month; not because I didn'... (read in full...)
How do I please my girlfriend?
Q. Hello everyone. I'm 16 and have been with my girlfriend who's 17 for a couple of months now. She's a little more experienced than me, as i've never been in a same sex relationship before. Every time we have sex, she makes me cum, either by going ...
A. 4 December 2008: start off slow by kissing her, running your hands all over her. Alter the intensity of your kisses as you start to undress and remember to kiss / tongue her neck, shoulders, face, ear lobes (thats a good one to tease). This should set the mood ... (read in full...)
How can I truly let go?
Q. my boyfriend of a year just dumped me. he has another girlfriend, but i find it hard to let go. i still call text and do everything i know i'm not suppose to, problem is i love him and all this is a shock to me. i hardly go out i dont have a of ...
A. 18 November 2008: Hmmmmmm. I found myself in a similar situation a couple of months ago. That initial change is tough, not just because of the heartbreak but also through the massive change in routine. Its hard to break the habit of texting and calling someone ... (read in full...)
How can I change my life around ?
Q. Can anyone suggest ways in which I can improve my life ? My life at the moment is empty and all I seem to do is exist. I have no social life, friends, girfriend or anything positive to look forward to. Im a descent looking guy (apparently) and...
A. 5 November 2008: Hmmmmmm, a good place to make new friends is at college. If you are not in education why don't you try a short course at your local college (night school or a part time day course). It would provide a solid foundation on which to build up your ... (read in full...)
Husband having sex with other men...but he tells me...am I crazy?
Q. My husband and I have been married for 25 years and we have 3 great college-age children. We have a great relationship and a good marriage. Recently he has started having sex with older men. He says its just "sex" and he is not gay. He wants me ...
A. 24 October 2008: Not wanting to sound blunt, but it sounds pretty gay to me. He's having sex with men, how is that not gay?
Erm, I would let him know that your not entirely comfortable with the situation... are you two maintaining sexual relations?
If it w... (read in full...)
He was a bad boyfriend - what makes him think he'd be any better as a friend?
Q. Could someone please tell me why my ex boyfriend is so keen on being friends? We broke up one year ago- after I found out he'd been lying to me and seeing other women. He calls several times a day, calls when he has good news. I just don't see the ...
A. 21 October 2008: Well from personal experience I give a catagoric YES! My ex was constantly texting me, asking me to be her friend but the way I see it is: if someone has betrayed you and treated you badly, why should you reward their betrayal with friendship? Just ... (read in full...)
She's left me for a woman twice her age, an alcoholic and drug user, I've never felt so humiliated... help!
Q. Me and my ex always had a volatile relationship, for nearly 3 years we were on an emotional rollercoaster. Sometimes things were really really good, sometimes things were really really bad. About 3 months ago she met some people and started hang...
A. 29 August 2008: Cheers for the kind words. I'm really feeling a ton better, feel like I've aged a 100 years over the last 2 days but that might be a good thing. I known now not to trust someone so flippant and changeable with my heart. I truly gave mine to heart ... (read in full...)
My husband only eats carbs and doesn't care about his health!
Q. my husband only eats carbs like pizza twice a week, pasta with chicken in red souce, english muffins, chocolates, he only drinks cramberry juice which with a lot of effort I changed him to light cramberry juice no vegetables and no fruits he dosen't ...
A. 3 August 2008: You could try scaring him into better health. Arrange a check up at the doctors or with a nutrionist, get him to explain his lifestyle and let them do the rest.
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Once we were inseparable, how did it turn out to be this bad in the end?
Q. Oke.. I broke up with my boyfriend a couple of weeks ago.. We have decided to stay friends.. but he just isn't being a good friend.. Whenever he calls me.. He normally talks about sex.. and sometimes even wants me to "talk dirty" with him, ...
A. 5 June 2008: You know I'm in the exact same situation right now... you know I think the best thing is to cut all contact for at least a month (I'm gonna go for 3 months). Delete his mobile number and maybe drop him a letter and ask him to stay away from you for ... (read in full...)
My sister is a recovering alcoholic and seeing drinkers upsets me
Q. I need some advice. My sister is a recovering alcoholic. She hasn't had anything to drink in a long time and is doing really well. But because she went through a lot of trauma and saw negative side effects from alcohol I abstain from alcohol. My ...
A. 18 May 2008: Hehe, I know where your coming from with that to! All I can say is it takes a little bit of time and understanding... when I used to have my 'moments' (as I call them) my girlfriend used to to really resent it cos she thought I was 'having a mardy.' ... (read in full...)
My sister is a recovering alcoholic and seeing drinkers upsets me
Q. I need some advice. My sister is a recovering alcoholic. She hasn't had anything to drink in a long time and is doing really well. But because she went through a lot of trauma and saw negative side effects from alcohol I abstain from alcohol. My ...
A. 18 May 2008: I understand where your coming from, my uncle was an out and out alcoholic - a trait that appears to be common in my family. I myself have a weakness when it comes to alcohol and often find myself getting upset when my girlfriend drinks alot.
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How to restrict him from using his drugs without appearing possessive?
Q. My boyfriend and i have both use drugs in our past. I have recently stopped but just because i got bored and burnt out. He on the other hand likes to use them on rare occasion i do not wish to restrict him but sometimes i do worry. how do i handle ...
A. 2 March 2008: What kind of drugs are you talking about? Me and my partner used to love drugs a bit too much, to the point we were both snorting grams of cocaine every night. This was incredibly destructive and brought bad things into the relationship. ... (read in full...)
Talking to them doesn't help.
Q. I think my flatmates hate me. I've made such an effort, but they are always so rude. The main problm is with two guys (I am a girl at uni). They are always so rude and selfish. They are always so rude to me, like always teasing me and shouting at ...
A. 8 December 2007: It sounds like the people you live with are total morons. My home situation is far from perfect, I live in a houseshare like you and I would say that I am disliked by most of the people I live with. The way they treat me does not broach the terr... (read in full...)
I had a same sex dream, I loved it but its against my morals, is this wrong?
Q. I am 100% straight female, but last night I had a disturbing dream...I was about to go girl-on-girl in my room in my bed! And I was actually turned on by it which was the weird thing. My beliefs teach me that homosexuality is wrong and I would never ...
A. 5 November 2007: Hmmmm, speaking from personal experience dreams are usually best left to the realms of the vague or complex.
Let me explain. You could treat this dream as sympton of the overactive mind, firing out random images it has stored (from your day to d... (read in full...)
Should I cut my losses and leave?
Q. Please take the time to read this for I truly am I lost soul. I have been in an on/off relationship with a girl for two years now, circumstances prevented us from being together at first but we have been now we have been official for a year. A...
A. 17 October 2007: Well, thanks for the responses - they made me feel alot better about the whole situation and gave me the balls to pluck up a bit of courage!
We have decided to take a break from each other, which has currently lasted 2 days and I have to say, its... (read in full...)
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