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writes:Hello everyone. I'm 16 and have been with my girlfriend who's 17 for a couple of months now. She's a little more experienced than me, as i've never been in a same sex relationship before. Every time we have sex, she makes me cum, either by going down on me or using her fingers. I'm starting to feel quite inadequate, and to be honest, just want to make her scream. Please does anyone have any tips? We don't use toys as she doesn't like them, so does anyone have any instructions/tips to help me drive her crazy?thank you guys! anything would be appreciated. Reply to this Question
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reader, howcomehoney  +, writes (4 December 2008):
 Do you know what she likes? Do you talk about sex together? Do you know what turns her on? It's not always the same thing for everyone: example, some women absolutely love having their clitorises massaged, others are too sensitive down there and don't like it at all. What works for you may not necessarily work for her, just because you are two different people.
Find out what she likes! Ask her about her fantasies. When you make love to her, stay aware of her reactions. It's easy to tell when a women likes something and when she doesn't. When you get a good reaction out of her, keep doing what you were doing. It's too personal to be able to say something like "Start this way, then move two centimetres to the left, continue for thirty seconds and you will have a surefire orgasm". Everyone is different, you just have to find out all about her, all about what she wants and what she imagines and what excites her. Have fun finding out!
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reader, Lost_Soul85 +, writes (4 December 2008):
start off slow by kissing her, running your hands all over her. Alter the intensity of your kisses as you start to undress and remember to kiss / tongue her neck, shoulders, face, ear lobes (thats a good one to tease). This should set the mood just right. Move with her, respond to each other, take time to kiss and explore all of each other and ALWAYS vocalise - ask her if she likes what your doing, tell her how beautiful she is, how good she smells, look deep into her eyes (some people find kissing with your eyes on each other a little weird but I find it can be quite spiritual and bonding).
Foreplay is the key because it builds up the desire and want to take it further. Be confident, you are together because there is a mutual attraction - remember there isn't a tick box of things to achieve during sex, its there to be enjoyed.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 December 2008): well she doesnt like toys but you can pleasure her with other things such as dress up in a sexy outfit one time and lick her puzzy while squeezzing her nips at the same time lick all over no matter what!! fingers also play a good role teaze her until she is begging for pleasure!
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