He's with another girl, how can I beat her and win his heart?
Q. He is with another girl and I'm in love with him. How can I beat her and get his heart?...
A. 12 July 2009: sadly you can't, tell him how you feel privatley, back off and give him space and hope he feels the same and comes to you
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Not sure how to approach a girl I like for a date?
Q. Ok so here's my problem i met this girl at a carnival she's a cheerleader so she was working the dunk booth and i stayed there almost the intire day talking to her and afterwards we went for a walk. I found out she's a senior in high school and i'm ...
A. 22 June 2009: dont let a 2 year age gap put you off, its about the persons attitude not age.
ok so she's the older cool one who can drive...just play it cool yourself..give her a call and ask if she would like to go see a movie, be slightly cheeky and say you'... (read in full...)
I'm concerned about my girlfriends sexual past, we broke up. Have I done the right thing?
Q. I recently broke up with my girl because of things she has disclosed to me about her sexual past. I know that may sound immature but it wasnt just the fact that I had thoughts of the guys she told me about her having sex with. The situation ...
A. 22 June 2009: ok..so it sounds like she used to have 'casual' sex wether you can accept her past is entirely up to you and your morals... personally her hanging out with men who have asked her for sex whilst they know she is in a relationship with you i find ... (read in full...)
Finding inner peace without God..advise please!
Q. It is a spiritual question, and I hope I can get some opinion. I'm not a religious person on this point, but I wish to reach out for some spiritual answers and help. It is difficult ,as I can't pray to a God I don;t believe in on this point. I ...
A. 28 December 2008: im not religious but i do some form of personal meditation.
i sit cross legged feet up in a classic meditation pose, i also have chiming balls which i gently move in my palms.
i sit eyes closed in a quiet house and try to think of nothing... (read in full...)
I am not the only one who thinks that it is degrading to discuss your sexual experiences with your partner/husband?
Q. Hello everyone! I've got a question for the ladies here: do you tell your partners that you masturbate? What is their attitude? Is this topic off limits? The reason for me asking is oh my gosh here we come - my mother has gone through my thing...
A. 8 December 2008: nothing wrong with a experimental and fun sex life as long as it works for you
you need to set your own standards and rules for yourself in life.
and yes i feel its ok to share things like masturbating with your partner....how are you supposed... (read in full...)
I'm having a hard time not getting upset over his online flirting.
Q. theres this guy i have been with for 13 years, and i really love him. We are having problems right now and I really want things to work out with us. He Flirts alot online! and it drives me crazy. He lies about everything, to the girls he flirts ...
A. 8 December 2008: this angers me so much.....this guy seems so lucky to have such a sensitive caring girlfriend as you and he wastes his time talking to absolute strangers....ask him why he doesnt spend his time talking to you? and if he cant answer that really ... (read in full...)
I was having sex with a guy then it all went wrong...
Q. hi I went to have sex with a very gorgeous guy, it was going all ok, and then it went very wrong.. he put the condom on... and we started having sex... then he stopped.. and he started having problems with keeping it going and gettin the condom on ...
A. 17 October 2008: no this is not your fault so don't blame yourself
he was probably just very nervous and lost his erection.... (read in full...)
What do I get my French Teacher for a year end present?
Q. I'm a teenager in my last year at high school. In the first three years for french i had this amazing french teacher who really inspired me into learning. She was probably my fave teacher as she always let me off if i didn't have my homework...
A. 18 June 2008: how about a really pretty pencil pot for her to use in the classroom... (read in full...)
What do girls find attractive in a guy?
Q. what do girls/women find attractive in a guy? I'm going out all day with mates including lots of girls so its my time to shine. Any ideas what girls like? I know being funny is one. Thanks...
A. 15 June 2008: personally me and several of my friends find confidence..but not cockyness attractive.... (read in full...)
Do I take him back or keep my guard up?
Q. I need help! my ex bf and I havent talked for 7 months and hes now contacting me again. He claims he changed and stuff. He was really bad and idk what to or believe anymore. He said he grew up and changed....my parents hate him for the way he previ...
A. 2 June 2008: ive seen so many of my friends go through the same thing and several of them have taken the guy back just to be hurt again, trust your gut instinct this guy is bad news
you also need to build your confidence back up and learn to trust guys aga... (read in full...)
I denounced him so he was expelled for sexual harassment - but I will see him again in school next year! I'm scared!
Q. I'm going to the 8th grade in 3 months.There's this boy that's gonna be in the 8th grade with me again.The problem is,he's a pervert.He touched me some ways that made me so sick and scared.I didn't do anything to him when he did it cause hardly ...
A. 2 June 2008: this boy was very wrong to do that, you need to talk to your parents about this and then hopefully your teachers.
dont be frightened of this boy, stand up and speak out and dont stop till you get help. you can do it
best of luck
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Everyone tells me to break up with him because of his height, what to do?
Q. i have a bf and he is amazing. he is shorter than me by a whole lot. i really like him but everyone tells me to break up with him becase of his height. what do i do ...
A. 1 June 2008: ignore them height shouldnt be an issue... (read in full...)
He cheated on me!!
Q. hey, i am 13 years old and i have been having problems with getting over my ex who is 16 years old... he cheated on me with a girl his age. my bff thinks its because i wasnt giving him what he "needed" if you know what i mean. is there any way ...
A. 1 June 2008: if you cant say the word sex you definately shouldnt be having it.
look for someone your own age who loves you for you
good luck... (read in full...)
She manipulated and backstabbed me!!
Q. My ex best friend is about to have a baby. I'm also going to have one. Our friendship came to a drastic conclusion after several fights. But I still have these ridiculous dreams where she makes me feel guilty. I know I did some things to upset her, ...
A. 1 June 2008: this would be very stupid,
you say you are going to have a baby, concentrate on this.
ignore poisionous people like her and enjoy your pregnancy and be a good mom.... (read in full...)
How can I get over feeling so lovesick?
Q. I'm having a crush with this girl for over 3 years now, but 4 months ago I learned she moved on by dating another guy for 5 months already. So I tried to forget about her, but everything I did at this point kept reminding me of her. I can hardly ...
A. 1 June 2008: this is tough i know, but it will get better..give yourself time and space find someone new move on and then you'll look back and she wont seem so wonderfull... (read in full...)
How can he break up with me and then change his mind in 1 week! I'm confused!
Q. 19 years old and my bf dumped me. I feel so lonely and I miss him as I really did like him and was beguining to have deep feelings for him. Most of all I am just confused about whether or not the break up was a good idea or not. Apparanr...
A. 28 March 2008: i hate to say this but it sounds as if this boy was just looking for sex..and when you didnt give in he broke up with you and started to look elsewhere...now he's asking for you back..maybe he thinks you'll be deperate to have him back and give into ... (read in full...)
Feel like she's loving me less...help!
Q. I feel like my girlfriend of a year and a half is slowly starting to love me less. How can I fix this?...
A. 28 March 2008: well the only real way to tell if she still loves you is to ask,
if she says yes...she might feel some of the intial spark you had at the begining of your relationship is fading, this is natural but there are little things you can do to bring it... (read in full...)
I have some problems and I need to talk..can you help?
Q. Hi, I'm worried and anxious all the time over a range of problems i seem to have at the moment and they are... i have just graduated from university and i went to a pretty prestigeous university for my degree but come out of uni with a great re...
A. 13 December 2007: hi,
it seems you have too much to cope with, go easy on yourself.
you don't say what uni degree you have? but you do say no doors are opening, well in the past ive found doors dont open themselves you have to it. makesure you research all you... (read in full...)
Saw my ex but didn't talk to him. Should I make the effort,next time I see him?
Q. Hi i saw my ex boyfriend for the first time since we split last night down the pub and i really wanted to talk to him but was to scared,he was the one who wanted to split he said he did not feel the same and that we should stay mates. but the thing ...
A. 13 December 2007: This guy has told you the truth and therefore spilt up with you. Just accept his feelings, and move on.
it does sound like you still like him, but you need to get over him focus on yourself for a bit.
and he said you to should be friends..mayb... (read in full...)
My wife says no sex until I loose weight! Am I wrong to be thinking I shouldn't have to lose weight to save my marriage?
Q. my wife married met me, married me, and great sex with me, i was a big man when she met me....now we've been married for 5 years and fot the last few years, she dosnt want to have sex with me anymore becasue of my weight, she says i need to lose ...
A. 13 December 2007: Maybe she is worried for you health and just wants to see you happier and this is the only way she thinks you'll lose weight?
If not...Ive always believed good sex is more to do with an emoitionall connection to the other person not just their bo... (read in full...)
Two women, one big choice!
Q. Hi there, It's the old story: two women, who to choose? Just want some perspective. I met a girl Rachel (28) in June this year online. She is a pretty girl. We talked on MSN for a month or so and on the phone. She said that she wasn't ready fo...
A. 13 December 2007: to me it really doesn't sound like your so keen on Samantha otherwise you would'nt have kept in contact with rachel.
Rachel messed up..but it looks like she wants to put it right now, it sounds like she really likes you..(the calls, coffee, ... (read in full...)
My ex has walked out of a long distance relationship with me after 2 years, supposedly because of distance, and now she's walked into another one!! Help me..
Q. Hello. it's Andy, and I'm not happy.. Tonight I finally checked my ex's profile on her facebook, after not doing so for some time. Turns out. she's going out with a guy who she used to go to college with. I'm a little taken back by this. What's ...
A. 13 December 2007: you really feel for this girl i understand.
but she has moved on you have to accept it, also for her not to tell you (if she knows how you still feel) is really hurtfull and cowardly.
But maybe she is lonely, if you have recentaly broken... (read in full...)
Should I try to work this out and trust him or not??
Q. Well heres the deal, me and my long distance bf are on a break, was his idea. He says he still loves me and i still love him but on his profile on bebo he is talkin to all these girls and askin for msn addys and meetin up with an old ex and ignorin ...
A. 12 December 2007: hi,
it seems to me that this boy is your boyfriend when it suits him.
You need someone thats there a 100% not when they feel like it, don't go back to him the relationship less than you deserve.
move on and look for someone who you can rely... (read in full...)
I do see a future with this girl but feel like having a gf is holding me back.
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 3.5 years now. We began dating in my Sr year of high school; she is a year younger than me. We now attend different colleges that are about 6 hours apart driving so we do not get to see each other too often. ...
A. 12 December 2007: hi,
i know you love this girl but you have to tell her that you need to break up.
its hard but you really have to put yourself first and your sports are apart of that, so they have to come before her.
It seems to me like you've already made... (read in full...)
Please advise , would really appreciate it
Q. I'm ready to be in a relationship. What am i doing wrong which is inhibiting me from being in one ? I'm 18 and live in London with an active social life, going to university and previously went to a mixed school. I think I am quite attrac...
A. 12 December 2007: Hi, It sounds like your doing everything right to find someone with your good social life. Don't feel you have to date people because they are there or available. Its no good pushing yourself to get involved with someone just to have a bf. Wait ... (read in full...)
Hot to stop the teasing.
Q. What if you are really good friends with the boy you like and he likes you and your whole class knows and some people tease you about it how do you hang out with him with out all the teasing...
A. 12 December 2007: Just think of it this way, people usually tease because they're jealous, its a way of being horrible without upsetting anyone too much. Just ingore them they'll give up. If you really can't stand it though ask them why they haven't got anythi... (read in full...)
I don't think my grandmother likes me.
Q. I know this may not sound a big deal, but recently my cousin told me that my gran hasn't liked me for the past few years. However recently was starting to think i was "ok" because my cousin "must have a good influence on me". This has reall...
A. 12 December 2007: Hi, Im sure your grandmother likes you all equally, Has she ever 'signaled' that she disliked you? EG. bought your cousins stuff and not you, taken them out and not you? Also are you sure your cousin is telling the truth? where did they find ther... (read in full...)
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