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writes:i have a bf and he is amazing. he is shorter than me by a whole lot. i really like him but everyone tells me to break up with him becase of his height. what do i do Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008): I think you should stay woth him.So what,if everyone says
you should break up with him.It's not their relationship.
If he makes YOU HAPPY,then NO ONE ELSE should matter.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (2 June 2008):
 The tall and short of it is love.
Tall people have been found to be attracted to short people.
Opposite attracts and their personalities complement each other.
Live your life your way or live by others.
The choice is yours.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 June 2008): Height shouldn't be an issue if you two match in every other way (personality, etc.)
Remember also that you're at the age where most girls are taller than most boys. Obviously this doesn't stay the case, so don't worry... chances are he'll "grow" out of the problem eventually :)
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reader, think  +, writes (2 June 2008):
it doesnt matter what others think if you love him.
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reader, I'mheretohelpyou +, writes (2 June 2008):
 I got this one in the bag. I have a crush on this boy, he's 5'0, I'm 5'5 and some people tell me that he's WAY too short for me. I just say, "he may be a midget, but he's a SEXY MIDGET!!!!
PEACE!!!!!
(SHORT BOYS AND TALL GIRLS RULE!!!! Regular people aren't cool):):):):):):):)!!!!!!!!
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reader, honkifuluvnicole +, writes (2 June 2008):
 That's pretty lame that you would listen to your friends about breaking up with a guy in whom you really like, just because he is a little shorter than you!
Listen to your heart and forget about everyone else's opinions. They are just shallow.
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reader, Beautiful_Nightmare92 +, writes (2 June 2008):
 if you really like him then there should be nothing wrong with that!
its your life and not your friends dont worry about them!
just ignore them dont listen to what they have to say!
so good luck!
and dont lose a guy that you think is amazing just because of the stuff your friends say!
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reader, ohflyingfish +, writes (2 June 2008):
 First - You're the one who is dating him, not everyone else, they wouldn't know how amazing he is, so they can only judge by appearance. If you do decide to break up with him, make that decision base on your opinion of him, not everybody else's opinion. If YOU believe that his height is a problem that really bothers you in this relationship, then do rethink your situation.
Second - I agree with lolo89 that height shouldn't be a main issue in the relationship. You should be dating him because you like to be around him and all. Height does not make the man, his personality does.
Third - Give some credit to your man! If you're having a problem with his height, imagine what courage he needed to decide to ask out and date a girl with your stature! :] He obviously thinks that you're worth it.
Good luck!
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reader, lolo89 +, writes (1 June 2008):
 ignore them height shouldnt be an issue
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