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anonymous
writes: I feel like my girlfriend of a year and a half is slowly starting to love me less. How can I fix this? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2008): I agree to the top answers you cant make someone love you if they dont. you can however show her the love you have for her without being obsessed with it ask her out on a date if you live together call her up tell her to put on something nice and you will pick her up at a certain time. you get ready somewhere else. you need to bring back that spark the excitment that was there in the beginning of the relastionship when you were both really excited to see each other.
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reader, lolo89 +, writes (28 March 2008):
well the only real way to tell if she still loves you is to ask,
if she says yes...she might feel some of the intial spark you had at the begining of your relationship is fading, this is natural but there are little things you can do to bring it back...
1. make sure you spend quality time talking to each other each day, give her advice on her problems
2. surprise her...send her cards flowers voicemail saying you love her
3. if you feel your sex life was better at the start of the relationship introduce new things...some sexy underwear..a blindfold
4. take her..out....i find the more the relationship goes on the more couples tend to stay in...take her on dates...resturants, dancing, even for a coffee.
hope this helps
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female
reader, Scarlett.K. +, writes (28 March 2008):
You can't. You can't make someone force themselves to love you, or a secret magic love potion. You could try being more intimate, doing small things she likes (ie. buying flowers..etc)...showing her you love her...etc. But, if she doesn't feel the same about you anymore, there's not much you can do.
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