I'm almost 21 yrs old and have not had sex yet, I really don't know what I'm doing wrong. Please help.
Q. I'm almost 21 years old and have not had sex yet. my longest relationship was about 3 months back in high school when i was 16. i really dont know what the hell i'm doing. i'm not gay lets get that out of the way. I just feel sometimes too nerv...
A. 24 June 2008: "You could also get a checkup of hormone levels. My boyfriend used to have low libido before I met him and it was due to a benignant brain tumor. He was treated... and it worked... too much sometimes lol."
I agree with that answer and it appli... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is pregnant, we already have 4 kids and I can't handle any more! She won't agree to abortion, any advice?
Q. My girlfriends pregnant again... We already have 4 kids, she popped the first sprog out when she was 15, had to stay with her ever since, i dont wanna leave her but i cant handle any more kids! Its doin my nut in! She wont get rid of it either., ...
A. 23 June 2008: You made the choice in life to sleep with her. This is the path you have chosen, you are a father to several children and will have to deal with it. Be a good dad to your children, get a second job to make ends meet. I am going to save the lectures ... (read in full...)
Can you tell me how to squirt?
Q. I've always wanted to act sexy and one of the only things that all the men that i know say is sexy is to squirt when i'm having an orgasm! can you tell me how to squirt please! my boyfriend does not mind me not squirting but i would love to. and ...
A. 23 June 2008: Being "sexy" isn't about orgasms but the way a person presents themselves emotionally and psychologically. I never use the terminology "sexy" but to me, a sweet person is one I can express my feelings, thoughts and engage in meaningful debates with. ... (read in full...)
I have an extravagent crush on my teacher! Is he just playing me?
Q. Okay, you must get MANY of these but please just listen and help. I'm 17 and have the most extravagent crush on my teacher ever imaginable. I can't go a day without thinking about him and I genuinely believe this is way past infatuation. ...
A. 23 June 2008: Just stop thinking about him. Once you graduate school, he is out of your life. Do not get into a relationship with him or both of you will be in legal trouble. He's old enough to be your dad!... (read in full...)
Do I tell my friend I caught her daughter having sex while I was walking the dog?
Q. Ok bit of a strange question for you. Well recently I was walking my dog when I came upon my best friends daughter and her boyfriend (well I presume) having sex. Dont get me wrong, it wasnt like an open field, in all fairness it seemed quite a ...
A. 23 June 2008: You should tell her. If your friend says you are lying, say it's her choice to be in denial. That daughter needs to grow up and be responsible. Life isn't about partying or underage sex.... (read in full...)
I'm I going to be pressured to have sex from all these boys?
Q. i am nearly 14 and i am underpresser about having sex! there are soo many sexy lads that i know, and most of them have asked me out, i have only went out with 1 of them, and there is 9 more lads that have asked me out. the one i went out with said ...
A. 23 June 2008: You are too young to be dating and considering losing your virginity. Those boys are immature and just want to "get laid" as they call it. I remember what it was like being 14, so many immature boys that need to grow up and face the real world where ... (read in full...)
We used to have great sex but lately he has trouble in getting an erection. I'm worried, what can I do about this?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating over a year.We are young, I'm 19 he's 21. We are deeply in love. We don't fight about much except one thing. sex. We used to have great sex. The sex was always so great for the both of us...but lately something ...
A. 23 June 2008: If you two choose celibacy and realize there is more to a relationship than sex, you can move on and focus on all the other good qualities you two have. A celibate relationship is much happier and more meaningful. No more arguments about "sex" when ... (read in full...)
Did the older man that took my virginity just want me for sex?
Q. I am from a religious culture. Half a year ago, I lost my virginity to a man much older than me. I knew it was wrong but I couldn't resist the temptation. I loved him and I am still in love with him. I told him several times I was not ready and ...
A. 23 June 2008: Consider it a mistake and learn from that. There is a such thing as "second virginity" please keep that till marriage. If anyone asks, say you were tricked into losing your virginity but you are staying celibate till marriage. Also remember if a guy ... (read in full...)
I'm 15 and want a normal teenage life! Will a girl want to have sex with me?
Q. Ok well I'm 15 and basically I have no life:( I don't really have friends and i just want to live the normal teenage life. Everyone i no has the normal life. They go to parties they hook up with other people they drink. I want to be like that and ...
A. 23 June 2008: The other answers are good. Hello, were you paying attention in abstinence ed. class in school? Do you want to throw your life away when you get some young lady pregnant or die early from AIDS or alcohol?
Stay away from people who drink, mate, dr... (read in full...)
Do all men manipulate you when you are vulnerable?
Q. I have found in two long term relationships with men that as I get to know them and I start to talk more openly about my feelings and vulnerable aspects of my thoughts or personality they use those very things to either undermine me in an argument ...
A. 23 June 2008: Some secrets are best left just that, a secret. If he is rude, ditch him and find another guy and don't tell him any secrets about you. Have a debate about anything, as long as it's not about you.... (read in full...)
What is the likelyhood of me being pregnant from this??
Q. Hey ... my b/f and I were naked, and he was on top of me - he pre-cummed, but it was on my mons pubis, a good 3 inches away from my vagina. I cleaned it up without letting it drip any further ... what is the likelihood of me getting pregnant from ...
A. 22 June 2008: Small chance of pregnancy, but why are you doing this stuff? Whatever happened to the values of celibacy and not being sexual?... (read in full...)
I've gotten involved with a co-worker, but she is married. I've fallen for her but this is getting nowhere!
Q. I've got into a really difficult situation. I've got involved with a woman I work with, but she's married. She says that she feels she's found someone she can spend the rest of her life with and I feel the same about her. But she's said she w...
A. 22 June 2008: Why not just be friends? If she cheats on her husband for you, she may cheat on you for another man and the game keeps going on. Please stay faithful, you married, stick to it! ... (read in full...)
My older sister did not end her cyber relation since she started seeing her present BF. I've always admired her and now this!
Q. I'm very, very dissapointed. My sister is 21. I'm 19. I've always kinda looked up to her, because she's much more mature than me and she's very respected, you know, she really has it going on. I've always admired her relationships too, because she...
A. 22 June 2008: Best thing is to let her live her life. But do tell her how important abstinence is. Cybering won't get her pregnant or STDs unlike the real thing. If they are just friends without anything physical, let it be.... (read in full...)
She doesn't believe in sex before marrige, how can I bring her around?
Q. Hi, I'm 19 and from the UK. I've been living in Banff, Canada for the summer and have met a girl that I really like who's a similar age. We've got with each other a few times and I've slept round her house after nights out and what have you......
A. 22 June 2008: How bout you respect her decision to abstain? I suggest you Google up the risks of sexual activity and realize how much merit celibacy carries. Almost everyone I know who had sex is pregnant, got a STD, got physically, psychologically or emotionally ... (read in full...)
A close friend is doing drugs. What should I do?
Q. okay. so here latley i found out that somebody im really close to is doing drugs. and i dont no what to do. cause i hate it and i want to tell them how i feel but im scared to cause i dont no what there reaction is going to be. should i tell them. ...
A. 22 June 2008: If it's hard drugs, show him the facts how harmful it is. If it's soft drugs, that is his choice, just tell him to keep his drugs to himself and away from you.... (read in full...)
Changes after the first sexual contact?
Q. After you have sex for the first time, do you keep wanting it more afterwords? I don't want it to affect my decisions, and I don't want to hurt anyone by doing it with them too early. So, how does doing it once change you? Sorry if I wasn't clear ...
A. 22 June 2008: Abstinence is a great idea that makes relationships grow closer together with a more intense emotional love that transcends the physical.... (read in full...)
I like my trainer, what do I do?
Q. I feel stupid for even saying this... I really like my trainer. I felt a really strong connection with him since I first met him, he really gets me. I'm obviously not going to make a move because it could turn extremely ugly, but there are ...
A. 22 June 2008: If he is single and close to your age, you can legally ask him out. Otherwise just be friends.... (read in full...)
What are the odds of being father to your own children?
Q. What are the odds of being father of your own children?. I've often been in amongst groups of men where the most handsome guy is constantly having sex with a steady stream of women, one night stands were often the women are married. Like many of my ...
A. 22 June 2008: I hear 50% of marriages are unfaithful and up to 70% of them end in divorce. This sad state of affairs is one big reason I want to live alone forever. No wife, no children, no sex even(not that im interested anyway)
It might become imperati... (read in full...)
My BF is a Christian and wants to abstain from penetrative sex...
Q. my boyfriend of 5 years, a christian and a deacon at our church, decided to abstain from sex about 4 years ago (within our relationship), but believes that oral sex is perfectly ok because there's no penetration. what do you think?...
A. 22 June 2008: Oral sex is third base. Less risky than intercourse or anal sex, 4th base. He is making the right choice abstaining, it's a healthy thing. Please realize there is so much more to a relationship than sex. Do you love him or lust for him?... (read in full...)
Lack of sexual desire the only criteria to be asexual? Many questions inside.
Q. Given that I can't agree(sometimes even argue) with most asexuals, I wanted to ask some questions. It doesn't seem that asexuals differ much from hetero/bi/homosexuals. Some of them do remain virgins, but others are sexually active and may even have ...
A. 22 June 2008: duskyrowe, I was never abused and I am not impotent. I was born nonsexual, no sexual orientation.
LazyGuy, I know no one is 100%, but the thing is alot of celibate people, closet homosexuals and low libido people are calling themselves "asexual... (read in full...)
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