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writes:Hi all,Just a quick question that has been bothering me for some time now.Ive slept with around 12 girls, mixture or sober and drunken experiences as you would expect, but only one of these girls has ever been able to make me ejaculate.Has anybody ever had a similar experience or any advice to offer?Its not even like I'm worrying about it during for my stress level to go up and put me off, so I really have no clue why it is happening.Thankyou
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reader, dave1982  +, writes (12 December 2012):
hmm, sounds like you just aren't getting excited enough. If you don't masturbate much, you may actually want to do it at least a couple times a week to get things going. For me, sometimes women aren't "as tight" as I would prefer... It sounds horrible but it's an anatomy issue, not a sluttiness issue per se. Try Pubococcygeus muscle exercises for men. Most men don't know about these, but for women they are called "Kegels" and they are advised after having children to help tighten things up. But for men they give you some good control and help you please women - and yourself more thoroughly. It will probably help you since with strong PC muscles it's easier to just shoot one out "on demand".Best wishes!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe first girl, I genuinely liked, as in enough to want to be in a relationship and she was also my 'first time' and she did feel special for me.
However another of these girls Id say I was more attracted to, in terms of appearance, but Id of also liked a relationship with her, but nothing on that occasion (We slept together 3-4 times)
Most of the rest were just hookups, from nights out and that kinda thing. But a few Id known beforehand and een speaking to them for weeks/months.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2012): What was it about the one gal that you felt confident enough to allow yourself to ejaculate with?
Her personality? How long you knew her? Did you feel comfortable with her? Ever see her again? Was a 'fetish' involved?
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reader, Yos  +, writes (10 December 2012):
 Well, perhaps you are just not attracted to them? Perhaps you are ending up in bed with them because you think that's what you should be doing and they are coming onto you? After all, what guy wouldn't sleep with a girl that offers herself to him?
The answer is, ofc, a smart guy. Sleeping with someone just because you can is doing no one any favours.
Maybe hold off and wait until you REALLY are attracted to a girl. Then don't sleep with her too soon, but get to know her a bit and really like her for who she is. Then and only then, go for it.
In my experience that's when the sex becomes something amazing, on another level altogether. If it's about connecting with someone emotionally who you are really into, then orgasm is not even something you'll be thinking about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThankyou yos, that was an interesting read.
Anon, most were one off things, but a few maybe 3-4 were girls I had been speaking to beforehand and actually liked, but as stated, only one of them could make me climax everytime.
I dont think I masturbate excessively and a lot of the time I dont even use porn, so I am a litle confused lol Thanks for tbe help anyways guys
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2012):
I think it would depend on the relationship where you dating are they one night stands kinda thing?
I think it may be that your too busy thinking about it, it doesn't happen, therefore your creating what is termed as a negative cycle..
Try attaching emotional to the person your with, then having sex..
Hope this helps
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reader, franny1297 +, writes (10 December 2012):
 try lots of foreplay, while that, think of things that get you horny.
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reader, Yos +, writes (10 December 2012):
Do you masturbate to porn a lot? That could be a cause. The intensity / arousal of porn can be something you get adjusted to and a 'real girl' just won't do the job as a result. Strange but true. If you think it might be that check out 'delayed ejaculation' on the site www.yourbrainonporn.com
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reader, learnNlive +, writes (10 December 2012):
Maybe you should ask a doctor that question.
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