I'm scared to death to let him go...
Q. Hey girls. My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over three years and everything has been great up until... the end of november 08. He got to know this girl Katie* who I have known since childhood. adn they hit it off and had a little bit of ...
A. 26 February 2009: No problem, any time.
Good-luck, Hope it all works out for you.... (read in full...)
On V-day I got my boyfriend having sex with my sister
Q. My boyfriend told me not to come over to his place on Valentine's day because he said he wasn't feeling well and didn't want me to get sick. But I forget my phone there and I needed it so I went there anyway. I went get there (he give me a house ...
A. 26 February 2009: It's good you don't have to speak to him, and he isn't trying to get in contact, takes that worry off your back. Just tell your sister that you really do not want to speak to her ever again, and try and block her out off your life completely. She ... (read in full...)
I'm scared to death to let him go...
Q. Hey girls. My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over three years and everything has been great up until... the end of november 08. He got to know this girl Katie* who I have known since childhood. adn they hit it off and had a little bit of ...
A. 26 February 2009: Well, Sounds like you will just have to go along with it. If you really do love him, I suppose you have
no choice but to go with the flow. If it's going OK at the moment, then just don't bring the subject up. Wait and see what happens, and if he d... (read in full...)
Insecure when GF doesn't show me attention. Change or breakup?
Q. I am in a relationship where I feel my girlfriend has all the control. She is 21, and I am 24, we have been dating for 2 months. I feel like I love her, but its hard to be happy when I realize that I am soo needy in this relationship. My last ...
A. 25 February 2009: I was in the same situation as you were. I ended it. Isn't it strange, the way, even though they seem to not be giving you attention, they are never the one to end it? She will realise and regret what she did to you. In relationships, it's all about ... (read in full...)
First time handjob advice, please??
Q. My question is quite simple, how do you give a good handjob? I'm in a new relationship but never done one and I want to feel confident about being able to do it properly. Girls and Guys please give me some tips! :)...
A. 25 February 2009: Holding the penis hard helps a lot, and doing it fast. Boys will generally aid you, as they know how they like it. Don't worry, you wont be able to do it very well at first, but will get better with practise. Every boy likes it differently to.. so ... (read in full...)
How can I crush his majorly oversized ego?
Q. I met this guy through a friend and we drank together. We ended up kissing and he kept groping me and shoved my hand down his pants. I knew that I shouldn't have sex with him because I feel that he has been around so I left. I hung out with him a ...
A. 25 February 2009: If you do go to a party, pretend to want to do stuff with him, but stay sober, to make sure you don't let it happen. He will feel all pumped up and proud that he managed to pull, but then reject him last second. Deflate his ego right down. I dislike ... (read in full...)
I'm scared to death to let him go...
Q. Hey girls. My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over three years and everything has been great up until... the end of november 08. He got to know this girl Katie* who I have known since childhood. adn they hit it off and had a little bit of ...
A. 25 February 2009: Hmm. So he and Katie isn't working out. Ask him if he will stop having the open relationship, if he denies you that, then he doesn't deserve you. Don't let him just get his way, you need to have a say as well.... (read in full...)
What's wrong with my girlfriend and why is she being so distant?
Q. Ok so I've been dating this girl for almost a year and just within the past few weeks she has seemed very distant she keeps making excuses about not kissing and stuff like that. What's wrong?...
A. 25 February 2009: Find out if she is having issues at home/ problems with other people. Her head might just be thinking of something else, or she might be trying to work something out. Just ask her what the problem is, and if its anything to do with you.
G... (read in full...)
How can you tell if you're being used or not?
Q. Well this is what happens when you get bored in astronomy class... but anyway I have been thinking a lot lately. I met a girl a few weeks ago, I hung out with her for about 4 hours the first time we met and things just clicked immediately and one ...
A. 25 February 2009: Need to add more to it. We can't tell what you think you are being used for.
If you clicked with her, and you both got on really well, there can't be a problem. Just meet up more and see if you still get on after a couple of weeks/ a month.
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His arguing makes me feel so insecure.... what should I do for the best here?
Q. I'm with someone who I've been off and one for over four years but we're back into a relationship and things have been pretty great but we keep arguing and I'm feeling insecure, it seems like I'm the bad guy when I just ask for an explanation.. I'm ...
A. 25 February 2009: If you are arguing, and it was a fresh start, then it doesn't look promising. If you start with someone, you shouldn't argue at all for at least 4 months, but bickering after that is fine, as you know your secure. Leave while your ahead if the ... (read in full...)
Help! The condom broke and period still not here!
Q. My fiance and I had sex about 11 days after the first day of my last period. The condom broke and it's been almost a month and I still haven't recieved my next period. I took a pregnancy test two times, the first only one line showed up and the ...
A. 25 February 2009: If you are engaged, then you must love each other a lot? Or weren't you planning on having kids. Would it be a bad thing if you did have a baby with him?... (read in full...)
My boyfriend leeches off me. What should I do?
Q. so my boyfriend and i have been together a long time. he still has no job. hes not really making much of an effort to find another one. I supply alot of our entertainment money. He never has a problem using my money. Sometimes he shells out a ...
A. 25 February 2009: Sounds like he is using you, I'm sorry to say. You cant let someone take your money, and not contribute. Money is what we rely on these days, and it sounds like he's just using you for a living, an alternative to a job. I know it's not easy to here, ... (read in full...)
I'm meeting his parents. Should I bring his mom flowers?
Q. Hi Cupiters! I am going to meet my boyfriend's parents this weekend! It's a dinner at his house. I was wondering should I bring the mom flowers, or is that too much? I just think it's polite. I mean I won't go as far as bringing a dish because I...
A. 25 February 2009: I don't think flowers are necessary, but always a nice thing to give. If you have only been together just over a month, I don't think you need to do anything to excessive.
Have fun!... (read in full...)
Is it okay to start getting affectionate with a friend "with benefits"?
Q. Heres a question. Is it fine to show a 'friend with benefits' affection outside the bedroom? Like holding hands, giving long hugs, saying I miss you etc or is it gonna freak him out thinking I'im asking for more? He gets uncomfortable talking ...
A. 25 February 2009: I have a friend that is a girl that I'm really close friends with. When I get girlfriends, I have to tell them not to get jealous of her, as I would never go out with her. But, like you, I'm close enough to tell her I'm going to miss her when I go ... (read in full...)
How can I ask him this? Please help!
Q. Well, the kids from our class are doing surveys about different things. Mines is about music. We have to give them to 10 different people who will take our surveys. I want to ask my crush if he wants to take mine. Tomorrow I will see him for ...
A. 25 February 2009: Make sure you give one of your close friends the quiz to, so he knows your not just giving them out, then give him one and ask him if he would fill it in for him. Don't give the quiz to any other boys, otherwise he might think he isn't special. G... (read in full...)
I'm scared to death to let him go...
Q. Hey girls. My boyfriend and I have been dating for just over three years and everything has been great up until... the end of november 08. He got to know this girl Katie* who I have known since childhood. adn they hit it off and had a little bit of ...
A. 25 February 2009: If he wants an open relationship I cant see him as being very nice. Unless you are extremely open minded, and never get jealous, he sounds like the wrong guy for you. I'm sorry, but I would end it. Your only supposed to have one partner, and not ... (read in full...)
How long before I can date again?
Q. I have been in a relationship for 2 years but things got sour and we broke up the other day. This was because first my mother wasn't supporting the relationship and she had banned me from seeing my boyfriend. The last time I saw him was in May last ...
A. 25 February 2009: After 2 years I would say a couple of months. Don't get involved in any dodgy rebound partners. I broke up with my girlfriend, and ended up with a girl that I didn't even like, which ended pretty quickly.
As he sounds like he is far away, then mayb... (read in full...)
Female to male anal
Q. In general do women tend to like or dislike the thought of a straight male liking Anal sex and do/would they like to give it?...
A. 25 February 2009: Everyone is different. You cant presume that your girlfriend/ partner would like the idea of it. You might have to see what sort of stuff they are into, and if they are open minded enough to do that sort of thing.... (read in full...)
How do I stop being taken for granted and seen for who I am?
Q. I'm a 23 year old female. I've been seeing a friend and occasionaly we makeout. But I feel he's started taking me for granted. I know I'm fulfiling some of his basic urges but I'm an attractive, intelligent girl (at the risk of sounding cocky). How ...
A. 25 February 2009: If you stop giving him what he wants, he will beg for more. Don't stop completely, beg for more. Lots of girls do it, to keep the interest and stop boys just thinking its normal. Make it hard for him to get a kiss, but let him know your still ... (read in full...)
Do you think he just doesn't like sex.... with me!
Q. My other half keeps telling me he has no sex drive yet he can watch porn for at least 3 hours a day. Do you think that it's possible he just doesnt like sex? Dumb question I know!...
A. 25 February 2009: Does he just watch it to make himself feel normal..? Even though 3 hours in one day is a lot, and not really normal. Haha.... (read in full...)
Can someone help me decipher his actions?
Q. can you help desipher this guys actions?! I've read about and 'signs he likes you' and stuff.. thi guy.. the facts... *he looks at me alot, i catch him looking at me..and i often have to turn away first.. *if his mates are teasing me, he doesn...
A. 25 February 2009: How old are you exactly? Different boys act differently at different ages. People around the age of 16 start to become more extrovert and confident around the opposite sex I have found. Little things like holding hands, that used to seem big, just ... (read in full...)
Can someone help me decipher his actions?
Q. can you help desipher this guys actions?! I've read about and 'signs he likes you' and stuff.. thi guy.. the facts... *he looks at me alot, i catch him looking at me..and i often have to turn away first.. *if his mates are teasing me, he doesn...
A. 25 February 2009: Hmm. Maybe he's to shy to make the first move. You might have to do it. Some boys prefer it if girls make the move first, I know its not the conventional way things are supposed to go, but different people do things differently. Telling you have ... (read in full...)
Can someone help me decipher his actions?
Q. can you help desipher this guys actions?! I've read about and 'signs he likes you' and stuff.. thi guy.. the facts... *he looks at me alot, i catch him looking at me..and i often have to turn away first.. *if his mates are teasing me, he doesn...
A. 24 February 2009: Sounds like he likes you, typical signs, haha. I'm coming up 16 in 2 months, and I can relate to what he's doing. I think he does like you. Try dropping things like 'Ly' for love you at the end of conversations, see if he says it back, and ask him ... (read in full...)
Her friends at Uni are all guys.
Q. I have a gf we've been together for 3 years and it's been some real origional love story, we love each other to death she's soo caring all she wants is to make me happy, but since she finished high school(last year), and I have one more year to ...
A. 24 February 2009: I was in exactly the same situation. My girlfriend went to College when I was still at High school, and all her new friends were guys. She started flirting and stuff, especially with this one guy. It got so bad that they saw each other every day at ... (read in full...)
I was fine during foreplay but lost it during sex
Q. I was going to have sex with my girlfriend of only 2 weeks, when I was 14, almost 15. I know this was a stupid thing to do, and I should never have even considered it, but I felt ready. It was my one chance, and I didn't want to muck it up. I was ...
A. 24 February 2009: I just want to be with my old girlfriend again. I cant see myself loving anyone else now :(.
I can kiss people without loving them, but I would never kiss someone I'm not going out with. Some people can go to clubs and kiss about 30 people. I woul... (read in full...)
I have a mental blockage about sex since that night, how can I be less nervous?
Q. I was going to have sex with my girlfriend of only 2 weeks, when I was 14, almost 15. I know this was a stupid thing to do, and I should never have even considered it, but I felt ready. It was my one chance, and I didn't want to muck it up. I was ...
A. 24 February 2009: Haha. I have tried putting them on, don't worry. Im legal in under 2 months, so not very long at all. When I was a kid, I wanted to loose my virginity on my 16th, to a girl I really loved. Maybe that had an influence. I mentally thought it was ... (read in full...)
On V-day I got my boyfriend having sex with my sister
Q. My boyfriend told me not to come over to his place on Valentine's day because he said he wasn't feeling well and didn't want me to get sick. But I forget my phone there and I needed it so I went there anyway. I went get there (he give me a house ...
A. 24 February 2009: Jeees. What can you do about that? I would personally say never talk to either of them again, but your sister is family so that's harder. Also, the fact you have been with your boyfriend for 2 years means you would share a lot of friends and stuff, ... (read in full...)
I was fine during foreplay but lost it during sex
Q. I was going to have sex with my girlfriend of only 2 weeks, when I was 14, almost 15. I know this was a stupid thing to do, and I should never have even considered it, but I felt ready. It was my one chance, and I didn't want to muck it up. I was ...
A. 24 February 2009: Oh, and I had had a WKD at about 9, but that was 5 hours previously. I think I may also be to well behaved to be having under-age sex. I know it sounds funny, but I think ahead about consequences, at school I have never had a detention, and hand in ... (read in full...)
I was fine during foreplay but lost it during sex
Q. I was going to have sex with my girlfriend of only 2 weeks, when I was 14, almost 15. I know this was a stupid thing to do, and I should never have even considered it, but I felt ready. It was my one chance, and I didn't want to muck it up. I was ...
A. 24 February 2009: Cheers everyone. I was with a girl for 6 months recently, and I would have been comfortable with having sex with her, but she was a Christian, and did not believe in sex before marriage. Before the 6 month relationship, I always seemed to not like ... (read in full...)
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