I've just broken up with my LDR......I'm in pieces and need to know how to cope and be strong
Q. i need some advice please. Ive just ended it with my ldr boyfriend, after being messed around with yet again and now as i sit in here in tears, my heart is broken and i feel sick, I just need to know how to be strong over the next few weeks. We had ...
A. 30 November 2011: I'm sorry to hear about your break-up, dear. But, from what you've told us, you are better off without him! It will take you a long time to get over it, no matter quickly you want to. You need to have patience. The best thing to do it focus on ... (read in full...)
What do you do when your ex turns everyone against you?
Q. I ran into my ex mutual friends with my ex today. It's the first time I've seen them in over a year. They didn't even Acknowledge me at all. It was weird. I can't believe I used to be friends with these people, let alone close friends. My ex dumped ...
A. 23 October 2011: Don't even give them the time of day. They don't deserve your company or your friendship! Forget them. Who cares what they think! If they want to waste their lives away talking crap about you, let them!!! Have fun, and live your life away from these ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my b/f that I was raped as a teen?
Q. Should I tell my boyfriend that I was raped when I was in my middle teens? I've worked with this guy for almost four-years, but we just started going out a month ago. He is my first date since I was raped and I feel like I am having difficulty ...
A. 13 October 2011: I agree with the others. I think it would be best to tell him... but not so soon. It's an awful awful burden to be carrying, but I also agree that you should consider having counselling. I know it can sometimes seem cliche, but trust me, it really ... (read in full...)
How do I look non-chalant and over it in front of my ex?
Q. Hi I'm going to a concert tomorrow but it turns out my ex is also going. I know the chances of me seeing him at all are slim but I don't want to freak out in front of him. We haven't really spoken sine we split and he has looked like he is ...
A. 13 October 2011: The best thing to do is to ignore him, (easier said than done, I know!!) Relax, stay calm and have fun with your friends as you normally would! Don't spend the whole time looking around for him or wondering who he's talking to. If you see him, you ... (read in full...)
What can I do to keep myself busy until I go to Uni next year? All my friends have moved away and I'm depressed about not going to Uni this year....
Q. Hi all, im feeling really depressed and i know its only going to get worse. I want to be a midwife and my school adviser told me to apply for the midwifery course straight away. I did this, and got rejected. This being because they prefer you ...
A. 8 September 2011: Aww, dear. I feel for you as I know what it's like to be lonely:( I agree with Mariab completely. This could be seen as a powerful opportunity to do something amazing with your life. My ex's lifelong dream was to go backpacking around Asia. He ... (read in full...)
Should I or should I not date if I'm not over a guy I love?
Q. Hi everyone. I am in a bit of a pickle and I don't know what I should do. See, I am in love with a man who doesn't feel the same way for me. I know, I know, and I'm trying to move on from that. The problem is that I genuinely do love the guy and ...
A. 6 September 2011: I agree with angelDlite, there is nothing wrong in dating guys in your current situation, however you should make it clear with them from the beginning that you are not interested in anything serious at the moment. I haven't got over my ex ... (read in full...)
My GF has the sex drive of a man-is this normal?
Q. Dear Cupid, I have found the perfect woman, but that's the problem - she's too perfect. She doesn't care that I've just been made redundant, orgasms through penetration alone when we have sex, genuinely finds me physically attractive and explai...
A. 1 September 2011: You're kidding, right??!! What on earth have you been reading?? Nuts magazine?? Zoo??! Too much fairy tale garbage, I'm afraid.
Some women CAN orgasm through penetration,
We aren't all shallow, bleach-blonde, gold diggers,
We like sex, yes tha... (read in full...)
Getting over jerk of an ex!
Q. Hi I am having real problems forgetting my ex and getting my self-esteem back. We broke up in November last year, although he actually told me he didn't love me anymore in June of last year. But he said that he didn't know what he wanted, so an...
A. 1 September 2011: I completely feel for you as I've been in a similar kind of situation. My best advice on moving forward is to focus completely on yourself and for you yourself to be selfish (for a change). I know it may be hard to be selfish and think of yourself ... (read in full...)
I finally feel happy....so why is my ex contacting me again?
Q. Hi there:) I was just wondering if you guys could clarify something for me. I dumped my ex in April after an extremely difficult 3 year relationship. To cut a long story short: he drank too much, treated me like dirt, took me for granted with his...
A. 11 August 2011: Thankyou all so much for your support and advice, and for putting my mind at rest:)It means a lot xxx... (read in full...)
All about tattoos...just how bad is the pain?
Q. I know this isn't a relationship question, but I get a lot of great advice from this site and it's always my first choice. My question is for those who have tattoos. I've been looking at a lot of tattoo related things lately, and my biggest curio...
A. 27 July 2011: I have two tattoos, and I can assure you that they do NOT hurt as much as people say they do! I find piercings hurt much more. You are correct when you say it hurts more in other places, though. The closer to the bone, or the more sensitive the ... (read in full...)
After our 3rd date I gave her a kiss goodnight... Did I come on too strongly?
Q. I've just got back from my 3rd date with a girl I like. We've had 2 highly successful dates and this 3rd one appeared to be no acception. We talked, laughed and had a nice evening, just like the previous two dates. But tonight I wanted to slip in ...
A. 14 July 2011: Aww, you sound lovely, and handled it in a perfect, gentlemanly manner. She'll get in touch, don't you worry:)
And if not, I agree with Lexie88; her loss:)
Good Luck xx... (read in full...)
Is weekly sex causing all of this itching and scratching?
Q. This may sound silly but is just the truth. I have being having sex with my guy every week. And recently my vagina{i.e private part} has be scratching me seriously,but yesterday i use mirror to look at it and i found out that there were tiny things ...
A. 14 July 2011: Get yourself to your doctor. Sounds like you could have a yeast infection, like thrush. Sex has been known to cause thrush,and can be treated with a product called Canesten. But, I would advise going to your doctor first, as it could be something ... (read in full...)
Every time I go on a diet I end up putting back on every single pound
Q. I know this isn't a relationship question or anything, but I could do with some help? I'm 20 years old and having some insecurities with myself. I'm 5ft 4 and 10st, a UK 12-14 and hate it. My breasts are a size 34G and and cause me constant pain...
A. 30 June 2011: I can't help you much with the breasts I'm afraid. But, I can help you with the dieting issue. I don't want to advertise here... but, give Slimming World a try. It really works. I've lost 10 1/2 lbs in just over a month! It's really flexible with ... (read in full...)
To threesome or not to threesome...mature answers only please!
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for a little over 2 years now. Recently, we've hit a few rough patches and I'm trying to spice up and revive our relationship. One of his fantasies is to have a threesome with a woman that neither one of us ...
A. 30 June 2011: I have experience with this issue. My best possible advice ties in with the previous answers posted by aunt honest and so_very_confused... If you have any, repeat, ANY reservations, or niggles, no matter how tiny, do NOT do it. This is very, very ... (read in full...)
Is my bf cheating on me on Facebook?
Q. Hi guys.. I have a bit of a problem, recently my boyfriend of two years and I had an argument and I got annoyed and deleted him off Facebook. Later we made up and everything was fine. He then ok'd it for me to re update our relationship status on ...
A. 12 June 2011: I agree with YouWish. This Marie sounds bad news. You definitely have to discuss her with your boyfriend. Be calm when you do so, however, because this may turn out to be a misunderstanding and going at him all guns blazing will make things ten ... (read in full...)
You're going to lose your girlfriend if you don't stop acting like a jerk!
Q. hi... i broke up with my bf a couple of weefs ago... i still love him so much, but in this past few months he had been giving a really hard time! he's very insecure and during our relationship we had a lot of arguments because he thought i was...
A. 11 June 2011: First of all, you aren't going to be alone forever:) And secondly, I can completely sympathize with your situation. Your ex sounds very much like one of mine: a very selfish person, that likes playing mind games...
I know it's hard, but you need... (read in full...)
What does 'mxm' mean?
Q. does any 1 have an idea what a guy means by 'mxm' cause my bf wount tell me and i realy realy wantto know ...
A. 4 June 2011: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=mxm
hope this helps:)... (read in full...)
Come on, sister, get your own life!
Q. i've been married for a long time now and have 1 huge complaint about my husbands sister. Honestly, she calls him at least 10-12 times everyday and I find it extremely annoying and would love to tell her so; i have dropped hints by the tone in my ...
A. 4 June 2011: Hi there:) Firstly, I would like to say that I commend your patience! I can sympathize completely with your situation, as my ex had a best-friend that was almost like his sister. She used to do the same thing, and call him for no reason all the t... (read in full...)
I'm too shy to get a bikini wax so what are my alternatives?
Q. Ok so im too shy to go get a bikini wax. And for some reason I cant wax myself. I dislike always needing to shave and the effects of that. So does anyone know another way. Can I use that veet stuff as long as im careful to keep it external?...
A. 19 May 2011: I know exactly how you feel! Most women are embarrassed first time around in a salon! It's only natural to feel weird getting your hairy bits out in front of a stranger, especially in this day and age, (the age of the "perfect" undercarriage!). M... (read in full...)
I dumped my boyfriend and found out his best friend had plotted against me!
Q. Me and my boyfriend of three years split up a week ago. It was mainly my desicion because *cue long background* a few weeks earlier we went out and got drunk. He was aggravating me, and being stupid, I bitched him to his best friend (who is a ...
A. 18 May 2011: Thank you very much for your advice, it was spot on:) He is completely naive and allows her to tell him what to do. I have discussed it with him soooo many times that I think I've gotten jaded towards the whole issue. He has already started making ... (read in full...)
Birth control pill supply runs out when I'm aboard, how do I get more pills?
Q. I've started the pill, and from my calendar that I am using to find out when I run out of my first three month supply, I am going to run out on the second day of my holiday abroad. How do I get more pills? Do I have to have a check up to get more ...
A. 25 April 2011: Go to see your doctor to get a repeat prescription. The pill is free, and going to see your GP is something you should do before you run out each time. All your GP will want to do is test your blood pressure, as the pill can affect this from time to ... (read in full...)
I should accept that he is never going to come back to me...but I miss him.
Q. I need help getting over my ex boyfriend. Im the one who posted the question about my boyfriend getting depressed and dumping me because he's to lazy for love and relationships and doesnt want them anymore. Last night I had a little argument/...
A. 25 April 2011: I know exactly how you feel, and it's a terrible feeling. I too, struggled with getting over my ex as most of my music reminded me of him, or related to my situation at the time. There's nothing much you can really do. Time is a healer as they say, ... (read in full...)
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