How will breaking up affect my son??
Q. Have been with my wife of 10 years for 11 years and have a 9 year old son. Have come to realise recently that I no longer love my wife i've just got the feeling that i am going along with the pretense because it's easier. I have met a girl at work ...
A. 1 September 2006: how do you think this will affect your son????????? you and your wife are his world his soft place to fall were he feels safe. take this away with out careful consideration ,for some one you think you may like and your son may pay the price. i... (read in full...)
My husband wants me back, but I want to work out my control issues first
Q. please help my husband of 10 years has left me about 1 and a half months ago . now he wants to try to work things out which i want so much to do .the biggest problem is that i have a control issue where i want to be in control please help me what do ...
A. 4 August 2006: hi you first have to work out why you need to have control all the time? believe me as a former control freak i know how out of control things can be when you feel you have lost control. but hey try it its not as frightening as you think it will ... (read in full...)
Its been 13 years and still dont feel like im over him!!
Q. I'm still in love with my ex after 13 years, he was my first love. Not many days pass when I don't think of him, it's been this way for years. Problem is I'm now married with children and I feel like my feelings for my ex are getting stronger and ...
A. 29 July 2006: do you think this is only in your mind and not his
i to am constantly thinking of my ex(its now been 5yrs since he left) and i am only now realising that its me thats hanging on to some thing that has long gone.what do you think???? would love to t... (read in full...)
I tried to call off the wedding, but it caused an uproar so I still went through with it, but I now have doubts about my husband!
Q. Please help, I am so lost and I need some direction!! I have been married for a little over a year. I got married to a guy I met in college. We dated for about 4 years. Through the engagement I really started to feel like something wasn't right, I...
A. 29 July 2006: do you believe in your inner voice???????
it told you before you married that this was not right for you but you did it any way
get out now before you waste any more time
regards karen... (read in full...)
My girlfriend and I are great, but my heart is attracted to someone else! What do I do?
Q. I've been in a relationship with a great girl for two years now. She's my best friend and I absoulutely adore her, but I have one slight problem. I think I'm falling in love with someone else! I don't know what to do! This other girl has a bo...
A. 29 July 2006: you have an amazing girl friend
we always want what we cant have. if you go for the new girl what about your girl friend??????? would you like this to be done to you??? you may well move on to this new girl only to find out you really want your othe... (read in full...)
Is it greedy to want my first sexual experience to bring some sort of permanence to the relationship?
Q. My boyfriend never wants to get married, I guess it's just not for him. That's fine with me, because I'm not sure I like the idea of marriage either. Well, I'm a virgin and I've been thinking a lot lately about sex and eventually I would like to ...
A. 29 July 2006: hi there
the only thing that i have to say is that you can only give it away once so make sure its to some one that you want to remember
karen... (read in full...)
Is he happy at home ? If he loved her surely he wouldnt behave this way ?
Q. ok i know this is wrong,i've this guy he's 9 years younger than me.he's caring loving and i have never been traeted thsi way before so its kind of strange.The thing is i'm single,he's not married but lives with his partner of 10 years,he has 2 small ...
A. 24 July 2006: hi this guy behaves this way because he is selfish.if he is playing up on his now partner he will play up on you to you know what they say if they do it with you they will do it to you.also whether he is happy or not there are innocent children ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend got genital warts, but wants to go back to no condoms, what do I do?
Q. Hello. My girlfriend and I have been together for a year. A month ago she told me she had been to the hospital and been diagnosed with genital warts. I was shocked and scared and we went though a tough period where I found it hard to trust her (the ...
A. 22 July 2006: do not take any risk
if you love this girl great but look after your health first. what use are you to her if you are sick too.if she cares about you she wont put you in danger
regards Karen... (read in full...)
His parents go out of their way to make me feel uncomfortable, what should I do ?
Q. I've been married for 5monthss now and my husbands parents dont respect me or my feelings. or my children. they keep photos of my husband and his x gf from over 5 years ago around there house, they show my children who are very young pictures of ...
A. 22 July 2006: dont be silly
you are his future its time to let go of the past. if his parents cant, as your husband and you being his new wife its up to him to make them understand and if he wont well does he really care about you?????
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Still hung on the ex bf-what should I do about this?
Q. ok so me and my bf have been together for a few months and things have been really rocky, this is due to me though. I split with my ex bf about 3 and half months ago we were together for about 8 months and i was so happy with him, and now i am so mi...
A. 22 July 2006: let him go you are clearly still hung up on your ex be fair... (read in full...)
I'm depressed - can anyone recommend websites where I can discuss my condition?
Q. I keep sending some questions to this site but I don't feel it is working because a) the questions are not submitted by the person as they are irrelevant (i.e. depression) and b) the answers people give me are not really good (no disrespect I've ...
A. 22 July 2006: hi there
depression is not good this is coming from some who also suffers.please dont stop asking for help and contact me i can help having been there my self
regards Karen... (read in full...)
How do we end our email affair?
Q. Well I've been having an e-mail affair for a few months with a close person in my life you could say he is related to me the problem is I don't want to screw up our lives we both have familys the thing is I know we both love each other but what can ...
A. 22 July 2006: let it go
will it be worth what you will lose
Regards Karen... (read in full...)
How do I get out of this relationship??
Q. hello all, You will be sick of me by now. Is it too much to want to be a strong independent woman? Why cant i get out of this relationship? My boyfriend is mentally and sexually abusing me and instead of getting rid of him and being truly happ...
A. 22 July 2006: hey there
you know whats going on look after your child and your self you deserve so much more than you are getting but you are the only one that can ask for it get a back bone and go for it girl friend
regards Karen... (read in full...)
I hate being alone! Am I codependent?
Q. I am so lonely all the time. Am I codependent? I am a 31 Y.O. Female and an only child. I have had the same partner for 8yrs. When he leaves for work, (only works 2 days a week) or takes a very long shower, or is working on a project in anoth...
A. 22 July 2006: hi
you need to learn to like being with your self.
you can never truely be happy with any one else until you are happy with your self
regards karen... (read in full...)
He couldn't "get in"... Is there something wrong with me?
Q. Hello. I am a virgin and recently tried to have sex for the first time. I'm really worried that there is something wrong with me becuase my boyfriend just couldn't get inside me, it was excruciatingly painful. We tired several times, but it just ...
A. 22 July 2006: hi
believe me when i say there is nothing wrong with you.
he didnt take the time to be gentle with you . its never what you think it will be the first time it takes some one kind, caring and gentle,and please remember you can only ever give you... (read in full...)
Advice from those people having affairs please.
Q. hello..a question to those of you having affairs(come on you know you're out there)i have begun an affair but have no intention of leaving my husband for my lover and neither does my lover want or expect me to. we are both happy about this decision ...
A. 22 July 2006: as some one that has had been on the recieving end of my partner having an affair on me i am here to tell you to be very carefull.it might seem to be fun but when found out many people will be hurt and live in the aftermath for a long time. ... (read in full...)
Am I thinking too much, or is he cheating on me?
Q. I am a suspicious type of person. My boyfriend has his own apartment but usually stays at his mother's house--just wanted to give you that info. Last week-- I look at the condom drawer and we haven't used any in a while--we have two sets..there ...
A. 22 July 2006: well
you really need to trust your instincts because believe me if you have suspisicion they are usually right we have that inner voice that screams at us from time to time its up to you if you want to take notice of it. believe me its more than... (read in full...)
My partner refuses to discipline his son!
Q. My partner is obsessed with his son he loves him to distraction, nothing wrong with that but his behaviour is so bad eg swearing name calling hitting me and his father. He will not tell him off or show him boundries neither will his mother. He wants ...
A. 22 July 2006: hi
you need to make your position quiet clear if you love this man it means he needs to consider your feelings as well if you are willing to take on his son it has to be a two way street the child needs to respect you as well. and if this man is s... (read in full...)
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