What do you say if a guy calls you a hottie?
Q. if i guy tells you your hot! whats the best way to compliment him back? ...
A. 16 October 2006: Tell him you think he's cool?... (read in full...)
I'm in a relationship, but my ex wants me back, too!
Q. Please help me. I'm in a present relationship now at almost about 4 years. My ex-bf wants to win me back and I love him too. What shall I do? I love them both......
A. 29 May 2006: What were the reasons that you broke up with your ex-boyfriend? I think you should bear in mind that any problems you had with your ex will seem a long way away and it's probably quite easy to romanticise the whole thing of him wanting you back. ... (read in full...)
Living on my own whilst he's away, good idea for an 18 year old?
Q. hey guys would love your advice please! im 18 and have been with my bf for 3 years. he is joining the army on monday. last week he asked me that once ive finished my a-levels and have got a job would i like to get a place with him. i totaly love ...
A. 27 May 2006: I live on my own because my relationship is currently long distance and it can be pretty difficult and is worth thinking about carefully but it is do-able. Not everyone who lives on their own (or just on their own for a lot of the time, as it would ... (read in full...)
Long distance lover is giving me the cold shoulder, What should I do?
Q. What do you do when your girlfriend seems to not love you anymore for no apparent reason? My girlfriend and i have been in a relationship for a few years now, about half of it has been long distance, but we've got used to the situation and al...
A. 29 April 2006: How come this relationship is long distance, and were you due to be back together in the same location at some point or was it indefinite long distance?
It's hard to know why your girlfriend is suddenly drifting from you because she's not real... (read in full...)
Should I make my move on my old crush?
Q. Should I try to spark a relationship with an old crush?? So, I find myself a single mother at age 28. I was married for 5 yrs and was 6 mos. pregnant when my husband and I separated. It has almost been a year since our relationship has been ove...
A. 22 April 2006: I think you should just be honest with him, but don't go too full on as it has been a while since you've seen him.
You mentioned that you didn't say anything to him years ago because you didn't want to ruin the friendship, so in a way you are in a... (read in full...)
Can our profound love and care for each other get us past the fact that I feel starved for sex?
Q. HELP!!!...boyf has low/erratic sex drive. I am a female in my mid 20’s. My boyfriend is in his late 30’s. He is the most wonderful man I have met. He has had A LOT of problems in his life, I can’t even begin to explain them all, but he is a nice d...
A. 14 April 2006: Sometimes if we feel like there's a chance we can do something to change a situation, it bothers us and tortures us more than if we just accept things how they are. Sometimes it's better to just adapt rather than spend any time wondering what you ... (read in full...)
Treated my ex like a queen and want her back! I can't bear to hear about her new love life!
Q. Hello, I asked a question a few days ago and did not get any responses. I now come for advice and hopeufully people will answer this time. My EX broke up with me a month and a week ago. We were together for almost 2 years. I still love her with all...
A. 14 April 2006: I think the best thing to do would be to tell her that you find it too difficult to see her as a friend, but don't go completely cold on her. Let her know that if she needs a friend she can get in touch with you and you'll be there for her and that ... (read in full...)
Why am I still thinking about the affair so many years afterwards?
Q. My husband had an affair many, many years ago. We never really dealt with it in any way. He just said he wouldn't do it again and that he wasn't very proud of himself. If I would ask a question about it he would lie or ask "why do you want to talk ...
A. 13 April 2006: Or more importantly, why are you beating yourself up over it? You're being very hard on yourself, when all that is happening is actually just a very natural reaction and your husband is the one who did the wrongdoing.
When someone is unfa... (read in full...)
He has a girlfriend and a kid, says he loves seeing me. What should I do?
Q. I have been seeing a guy who has a girlfriend for nearly a year. He says the only reason he stays with his girlfreind is because they have a young child and his father left him when his was little and he vowed to never do this if he ever had ...
A. 12 April 2006: ...when his child grows up, that child will say to his girlfriend/wife: "I never want to do what my dad did and be having an affair the entire time I'm pretending we're a happy family". He's not really any better than his own dad, he's just leaving ... (read in full...)
She wants to see other people and still have us go out now and then. But she broke us up, saying we fight too much!
Q. My girlfriend broke up with me recently because she said we were fighting and arguing too much. We are both teenagers. But after talking things through she said that she want to still see me now and again while meeting other people. I've agreed to ...
A. 12 April 2006: I'd tread very carefully. As difficult as it might be to accept, all the signs point toward her not feeling as strongly about you as you do about her. For instance, would you have ever dreamed of suggesting to her that you should see other people, ... (read in full...)
Everything is good why cant he get on with my family??
Q. Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for three years. I am 25, he is 26 and we are planning on spending the rest of our lives together. At the moment we are starting to save for a house deposit. We both still live at home (me, with my parents and...
A. 11 April 2006: You're right to be a little bit concerned about it, but I wouldn't have thought that it's something to break up over if you're happy in every other respect.
It could be that there are some days when he genuinely is feeling tired, and as a resu... (read in full...)
I REALLY like him but I can't do anything about it, help!
Q. Okay so there is this guy. I really like him, when i say really i mean A LOT. Problem is he has a girlfriend and he is 3 years older them me and i know my parents wouldnt like that. Im scared to tell him because we are like best friends and i dont ...
A. 9 April 2006: If you told him how you felt about him, if he felt the same about you then you'd be responsible for breaking him up from his girlfriend, and if he didn't feel the same about you then it would probably spoil the friendship. So either way, you won't ... (read in full...)
My BF's ex trapped him into fathering her child, so what's to say she won't go even further?
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for about a year now. A few months into the relationship he told me he had gotten another girl pregnant. (she was an X but they had broken up years before, and she went into the military and came home on leave) To mak...
A. 9 April 2006: It seems like you are content to paint this girl as a manipulative harlot without putting any blame onto your boyfriend, but the fact of the matter is that he did cheat on you and you need to accept and deal with that. In a committed relationship, ... (read in full...)
In love when I'm with him, out of it when I'm not!
Q. Can you just love soemone when you are with them? And then be unsure when you are away from them? I feel like I am so deeply, head-over-heels in love with him when I'm with him.. like I will never get enough of him. Then when I'm alone, I wonder as ...
A. 9 April 2006: Sometimes we feel happy and in love when spending time with someone means an escape from the more dull things in life, like chores and work, but for whatever reason that person isn't someone we'd actually want to share all of our life with.
I thin... (read in full...)
What can I do to sort out prom arrangements and not hurt either of my friends' feelings?
Q. Should I feel guilty? We are having our school prom soon and the other night me and another friend were sorting out limo arrangements to take us there. Out of all our group we were the only 2 making any effort. I was also talking to my best fri...
A. 5 March 2006: It sounds a little bit like your best friend might have a tendency to sulk a little whenever she doesn't get her own way. Whilst it can be upsetting and awkward for you when she does this, if you always change your plans to please her you can end ... (read in full...)
I've met the woman I know I want to spend my life with, and now I have to tell my wife...
Q. I am a 44 year old man. I have been with my wife for 25 years and we have four children - aged 23, 21, 16 and 15. The eldest are both in their own professions and lead happy and successful lives away from home. The two youngest at home with us. ...
A. 5 February 2006: There's no point staying in a marriage if your heart is not in it because your wife has already picked up that something is wrong and it's not fair on her to continue in this uncertainty. She should be able to rely on her husband 100%, and at the ... (read in full...)
My Dad reckons that guys only go for girls with big boobs no matter how pretty... Is it true?!
Q. ok, I'm 15 and I am just wondering, what is it that attracts most guys to a girl in the first place? I know the whole thing about how everyone likes something different etc etc, but my stepdad says 90% of teen guys want someone with big boobs no ...
A. 5 February 2006: Well if you think about it, if you had really big boobs and suddenly got tons of attention, it wouldn't make you feel any better because then you'd know that all the guys were only interested in your boobs and not you - and that does nothing for ... (read in full...)
I'm leaving my boyfriend for a year... What should happen?
Q. I dated my boyfriend for 8 months and we were very much in love. I have wanted to go study abroad for a long time. A couple of months before I met him I found a way to go. After falling in love with him we both knew that I was leaving for a ye...
A. 17 April 2005: It sounds like he is just distancing himself from you as a way to cope with you being away, but there's no way that you can be sure about that. The fact that he has dated other girls means you should tread carefully, as he might end up hurting ... (read in full...)
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