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writes: Can you just love soemone when you are with them? And then be unsure when you are away from them? I feel like I am so deeply, head-over-heels in love with him when I'm with him.. like I will never get enough of him. Then when I'm alone, I wonder as I don't know if it is the love i thought, what do you think? Reply to this Question
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reader, jo_betty_smith  +, writes (9 April 2006):
 Sometimes we feel happy and in love when spending time with someone means an escape from the more dull things in life, like chores and work, but for whatever reason that person isn't someone we'd actually want to share all of our life with.
I think it might be a case of only time will really tell, and in time you should discover if you're going to become more deeply in love with this guy or whether it's something that's a bit more fleeting.
In the meantime, there are a few things to think about which might help you figure it out a little more in your own mind, like when you aren't with him anymore, try and imagine how you would feel if you knew that you'd never get to see him again. Do you feel excited in the hours leading up to when you are going to get to see him again? Are there moments in your day when you can think about him and it puts a smile on your face or do you not feel anything? The right guy will normally make you feel happy whether you are with them or not, although obviously you're always that bit happier when you are with them!
But I guess to answer the actual question you asked: I'd say no, that you can't love someone only when you are with them. In my experience, if it's love then it doesn't come and go in a short time frame.
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