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... Send *axwardle86 a private message | | | *axwardle86's profile:Hi I thought it was about time I updated my info. So here goes I'm still married though very unhappily and it looks as if it's not gonna last much longer. I went through a rough time last year and lost 3 pregnancy's. My husband has started mentally and physically abusing me. I thought the last time time I started writing this I knew a lot but what I have been through this past 12 months has completely shock my world upside down my view of life. I still have my 2 kids and my little sister who's 14 now to look after. I love this site so much because if I need advice I know where to come and
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My 16 year old son is very verbally abusive with me! How do I deal with him?
Q. i feel very embarrased about having to ask for some advice on here regarding my 16 year old son. whenever he doesnt get his own way or he is in a bad mood he is becoming very verbally abusive with me, by calling me names such as dickhead and slut ...
A. 17 July 2007: My brother was verbally abusive towards my Mum at this age and was so for another 2 years until he moved out. My mum sent him to hospitals for test's and they said he had ADHD and to give him ritalin none of this helped. My mum let him get away with ... (read in full...)
He visited prostitutes and wants me to forget about it! I love him but don't respect him!
Q. I have just found out my h has been sleeping with prostitutes while I was pregnant. Bub now 8 weeks old. Says he wont do it again, doesn't want to destroy our family (also have 2 yo) but has never really apologized and is acting as if nothing has ...
A. 7 July 2007: Ok firstly can I just say to your husband you go to the doctors about erection problems not prostitutes. After that I really don't know what else to say you obviously love this man a lot but does he love you? There is no respect in this marriage and ... (read in full...)
I love my husband even though we've had our bad times but I feel I've missed out on other parts of my life.
Q. I've been married 5 years and got together when I was only 16, I love my husband even though we've had our bad times but I feel I've missed out on other parts of my life. I know I'm being selfish but I can't shake this feeling that there's more to ...
A. 6 July 2007: Firstly I'd like to thank everyone for there advice and give a bit more information on the situation I got pregnant about 2 months into our relationship we now have 2 children and I lost 3 last year which is why my marriage has been so up and down ... (read in full...)
According to my friends I should just go round, get all my stuff out, and post keys through letter box.
Q. My boyfriend and I have been having problems recently - he's been backing off because of trust issues, problems with his daughter etc - but we were supposed to be going on holiday this week to sort things out. He backtracked a couple of weeks ag...
A. 6 July 2007: I hate to say it but it sounds an awful like he has another woman on the go although I'm not an expert I've never had it done to me thank fully but when hearing from friends about the way they were treated the similarities in this story are close. I ... (read in full...)
13 and feeling broody... how can I get over these feelings?
Q. im 13 years old and i know it sound stupid but im really broody. i really want a baby and its getting me down. im not going to have one till im older though, because thats the right thing to do. please help me?? is there anything i can do to make me ...
A. 11 June 2007: Your a hormonal teenager these kind of feelings are bound to occur. Your not stupid. but unfortunately you can not make these feelings disappear its yet another one of the many joys of being a female. However I do urge you not to act on impulse
I... (read in full...)
She said I was unaffectionate. So when I began showing her more love, she lost her attraction for me! How do I get her back?
Q. I recently got out of a relationship that I didn't want to end. The girl left me because she said we were fighting too much and she said she lost faith in me and was tired of giving me chances. The only thing we ever really fought about was what I ...
A. 9 June 2007: She sounds like she went off you and is using any excuse to get out of this relationship get over and move on you sound like a nice bloke I'm sure theres plenty of women out there looking for someone like you. sorry i couldn't be of any more help. ... (read in full...)
We're both stubborn and we argue a lot! Any advice?
Q. Not sure where to start. Basically I have been with my partner 2 years, hes been living with me and my 5 yr old son 8 months. But we never stop rowing, we love each other, and sometimes things are brill but when theyre bad, theyre bad! we are both...
A. 9 June 2007: God you don't how happy I am to know that I'm not the only one to go through this me and my husband have been together 5 years now and we still row like that. But we are still together and love each other deeply. Lately things did start to get ott ... (read in full...)
He is being violent to me and beating me on a regular basis...
Q. Hey i have been with my husband for 3 years although we have been together for 5 I love him very much but last year I went through a really rough time and lost 3 babys altogether the 3rd was an abortion and my husband has been blaming me even though ...
A. 7 June 2007: I wanted to thank everyone for there advice and their honesty even though some of the words were harsh it was what I needed to hear to get on with my life If your in doubt to any of the awful things my ex put on here please read other questions i ... (read in full...)
Had unprotected sex and he 'came' inside me! Will I get pregnant?
Q. Ok I am 14 years old and i had unprotected sex with a guy that i been with for 9 months, he told me he came in me, i dont know if i might be pregnent but this happened like a week ago, will i be pregnent???...
A. 6 June 2007: You won't know for sure for another few weeks until you miss your period if you do miss it then i strongly advise you to go to your GP and get a test done if its positive you have a lot of big decisions to make if your not please get some longer ... (read in full...)
We're engaged and he is the best thing that has happened to me! I was so happy until I saw the look on his Mother's face at our announcement..What can I do?
Q. Hi there, my name is Marya and I'm 33 years old and my fiancé’s name is Kevin, he's 38. We've been together for 5 years now. On June 03, 2007 he announced our engagement… but it was not good. I was so hurt and disappointed when I saw his mom’...
A. 6 June 2007: You two are obviously very happy and although there is jealousy problems you both love each other very much so why care about what other people think so much. I think some counseling about your past would do a great deal of good if communicating ... (read in full...)
Upset and confused about my feelings for my sister's bf! Any advice?
Q. Ok, im a 13 year old girl and i have two half sisters ( 32 and 36) and im extremly close with them. I love them very much and dont see them very often, But this weekend they came to my dads birthday party with their boyfriends, which i love ...
A. 6 June 2007: Okay firstly hello!!!! this is your sister's boyfriend we are talking about. If the feeling is just about older men then there is nothing wrong with an age gap but please don't vent this frustration towards your sisters boyfriend as you will split ... (read in full...)
Im now 8 weeks pregnant, could it be the man I cheated with or my husbands?
Q. I cheated for the first time the day after my period started. We had unprotected sex. Im now 8 weeks pregnant, could it be the man I cheated with or my husbands? Husband and I had sex 2x's the week I was to of conceived. The doctor states conception ...
A. 6 June 2007: Does your husband know about the affair by the way? because if not I would advise you to tell him. You may at the moment think it's fine I'll just tell him it's his but It can blow back right into your face again especially during heated arguments. ... (read in full...)
I have premature ejaculation after like 10 seconds.. how can I fix this?
Q. hi..im a red blooded male who loves sex alot! and im comfortable with who i am in bed. Here's the thing, most of the time i cant stop having premature ejaculation..its really annoying and im ashamed of it. Is there something wrong with me?? And the ...
A. 6 June 2007: Your not the first and certainly won't be the last to go through this so don't be embarrassed. You've done the right thing asking for help as many men will ignore the problem and hope it goes away. I recently had pe problems on my husbands side so I ... (read in full...)
He is being violent to me and beating me on a regular basis...
Q. Hey i have been with my husband for 3 years although we have been together for 5 I love him very much but last year I went through a really rough time and lost 3 babys altogether the 3rd was an abortion and my husband has been blaming me even though ...
A. 3 June 2007: First of all, I was not trying to control her. She set up this account using my email address and I didn't want to set up a new account just to give my side. Why should I? I don't mind her going online and letting off steam but I do believe I have a ... (read in full...)
He is being violent to me and beating me on a regular basis...
Q. Hey i have been with my husband for 3 years although we have been together for 5 I love him very much but last year I went through a really rough time and lost 3 babys altogether the 3rd was an abortion and my husband has been blaming me even though ...
A. 3 June 2007: Sorry, I must correct this post as I am her husband and feel very hard done by. My wife lost 2 children last year not 3. She also lied to me saying the second would be disabled so I would agree to an abortion when in fact the chances of it being ... (read in full...)
I've been with my boyfriend for six months, but our relationship is secret because I'm 17 and he's 30.
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for six months, but our relationship is secret because I'm 17 and he's 30. This is my first serious relationship, but he's had lots of girlfriends before, but he's hardly ever been faithful. At the beginning of our ...
A. 3 June 2007: Why is your relationship secret your 17 it isn't against the law and you have nothing to be ashamed of. I was 16 when I met my now husband who was 29 at the time and although things aren't running smothly certainly secrets and lies won't help you ... (read in full...)
Do I take my ex back or give it a go with this other guy?
Q. dear cupid, i have been in a relationship with a guy for 22 years which produced two beautiful children. I left him recently because i was abused and embarrassed in front of people at times. I have a new boyfriend, but i just hate to ...
A. 3 June 2007: I am currently in a similar position. Eve is right more info is needed and I would like to help you as I think we could support each other so please get in touch. Jax xoxox... (read in full...)
I want to try for another baby but Im scared, and also worried that it would be betraying my sons memory!?
Q. Hello some of you may remember me as I have posted a few questions before. Me and my boyfriend have been through a rough year, to the point where I thought I didn’t love him anymore. Well after a lot of talks we decided to be together as we a...
A. 30 March 2007: You answered my question earlier and it helped so now its my turn to re pay the favour take your own advice realise how much more life there is to still be had. Your Son Bailey like my lost children are all up in Heaven and just like mine he ... (read in full...)
I already have 2 children, im now pregnant and not sure whether to have a termination, or will this fill me with regret!?
Q. I found out a couple of days ago that i'm pregnant. I'm 20 years old have 2 kids aged 1 and 3 and my teenage sister is living with me. So i already have a lot to deal with and am thinking about an abortion. However when ever i see a new born baby i ...
A. 13 June 2006: First of all i want to thank everyone for theyre help and advice. We have to decided to go for the abortion as either way is gonna cause a problem for me emotionally and physically but i have to put the kids i already have in front of me. And at ... (read in full...)
She lied and said she was older, but now I'm a married man in love with a 14-year-old!
Q. What action should I take? I am a married man in my late twenties, who has fallen for someone much younger. We met in a chatroom last year, when her profile stated she was older. After a while, we spoke on MSN when I noticed that she was actu...
A. 12 June 2006: Your welcome although i don't think alot of people agreed with me. I think your right and people have seen the age gap and jumped strait to conclusions rather than actually reading and answering the question like theyre meant to.
Where you are her ... (read in full...)
I already have 2 children, im now pregnant and not sure whether to have a termination, or will this fill me with regret!?
Q. I found out a couple of days ago that i'm pregnant. I'm 20 years old have 2 kids aged 1 and 3 and my teenage sister is living with me. So i already have a lot to deal with and am thinking about an abortion. However when ever i see a new born baby i ...
A. 11 June 2006: Thats all very well and good but if i keep the baby i will have to have another ceaserean section which would then mean i could never have another baby. And i know i could never ever give my baby up for adoption that is not an option for me. it ... (read in full...)
I have just found out that I am dying and don't know how to tell my partner
Q. I have just found out that I am dying, but have just got engaged last week. My fiancee has noticed that I am crying all the time and keeps asking what is wrong, she seems to think I have guilty feelings about something and is starting to accuse m...
A. 11 June 2006: well i guess that clears up the insecurity issue. my heart goes out to you. as for the affair you have to accept that she is young and may never have had sex with another bloke before you and once she did felt extremely confused i know how she feels ... (read in full...)
She lied and said she was older, but now I'm a married man in love with a 14-year-old!
Q. What action should I take? I am a married man in my late twenties, who has fallen for someone much younger. We met in a chatroom last year, when her profile stated she was older. After a while, we spoke on MSN when I noticed that she was actu...
A. 11 June 2006: I think you guys are wrong very wrong People come on this site for ADVICE not abuse. I have kids of my own and although i would feel uncomfortable about my daughter in this situation if he is helping her which he obviously is as shes going to school ... (read in full...)
He loves me and wants only me, but he's almost twice my age!
Q. I used to work with this guy who is so lovely, sweet, all the things you could ask for in a man. He would do anything for me. Now he has declared that he really wants to be with me and doesn't want anyone else. Part of me wants to be with him, but...
A. 11 June 2006: My husband was 29 when i met him when i was 15 we started dating when i turned 16. Now we have 2 kids and a marriage that works perfectly after all age is nothing but a number and all women are more mature than men lol. Btw we have been together 4 ... (read in full...)
I'm scared I may have HPV now or even be pregnant!!!
Q. Okay im turning 16 june 26th and i really need help with a problem i have...My aunt was messin around with her friends husband(a 36 year old man)...so i hear about this guy for awhile then i meet him...well on my aunts birthday he calls and ask me ...
A. 11 June 2006: This has also made me feel sick not about you but this bloke you obviously didn't really consent to the sex as far as i'm seeing. This bloke has a serious problem you are obviously not the only person he has done this with ditch him tell your aunt ... (read in full...)
If I leave to get away from his accusations, I'll break up our family!
Q. Should I Leave My Husband And Break Up The Family Unit? When I met my husband it was a bit of a whirlwind romance, I had fallen pregnant, got engaged and bought a house within the 1st year. We married in July 2000 and should be celebrating our 6th ...
A. 11 June 2006: I know exactly what you're going through as i have just had the same problem with my husband. You obviously have a lot on your plate with kids and an arguementative husband but hang on in there i promise it's worth it. Get to bed early one night ... (read in full...)
I got pregnant but I had sex with two guys
Q. i have a question i had my last period the 8th of january to the 14th . I broke up with my ex january 8 and then got pregnant in january the doctor said but my ultrasound is exaclty 2 weeks off the doctor said thats ok i keep on worrying cause i had ...
A. 10 June 2006: This is not true i had a similar problem and i thought it was my new b/f's turned out it was my ex's but i left for 2 years before doing anything because i was sure. Best thing Dna test don't do what i did and bury your head in the sand do the dna ... (read in full...)
Am i too old for her?
Q. i would like to know if its wrong to talk to a girl 2 or 3 years younger i got added by this girl whos 2 years younger then me and i would like to know if its wrong to talk to her and what would happen if i asked her out on a link, because she said...
A. 10 June 2006: In that case definately not as i said before as long as you don't intend to have a sexual relationship with her until the right age. she obviously likes you too or she wouldn't let you talk to her. And if people do call you names (some might) then ... (read in full...)
What is emo?
Q. Im sorry if this offends people like it did when i asked this girl. I asked her 'what is an emo'... and she was saying she didn't want to tell me because everyone called it her when she kept on saying that she wasn't. So can any one else here tell ...
A. 10 June 2006: Honestly i really don't think you have anything to apolagise for you didn't say was one you just asked her what it was just reassure her that you don't think shes an emo and ask why people said that about her it maybe that she has a self harm back ... (read in full...)
I'm dating a much older guy, would it be okay to bring it into public?
Q. Im dating a guy who is 18 years older than me. Im 17 he is 35. Iv been with him for 2 nearly 3 years now and thinking about coming out in public and letting everyone know because i really dont want to keep it bottled up inside anymore. I really do ...
A. 10 June 2006: My husband was 29 when i met him when i was 15 we started dating when i turned 16. I also thought my mum and dad would freak however i sat them down spoke to them and told them i wanted the to met them before they judged. Now we have 2 kids and a ... (read in full...)
I have a very hairy stomach and don't know if it's normal!
Q. im 15 years old and have hair growing on my stomach and i mean all up and down and on my sides, is this normal and how do i tell when it will stop growing and do girlz like people with hairy stomach...
A. 10 June 2006: Everyones different some blokes have hair some don't some have it and get it shaven or waxed i guess theres a 50/50% on men who do and don't have hairy stomach the same goes for your other question everyone is different personnally i love nothing ... (read in full...)
Am i too old for her?
Q. i would like to know if its wrong to talk to a girl 2 or 3 years younger i got added by this girl whos 2 years younger then me and i would like to know if its wrong to talk to her and what would happen if i asked her out on a link, because she said...
A. 10 June 2006: I don't think 2-3 years is a big deal at all no matter what age you are. You are obviously quite young other wise you'd know if it was right or wrong. And no as long as you don't intend to have sex with an under age girl then you are definately not ... (read in full...)
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