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writes:dear cupid, i have been in a relationship with a guy for 22 years which produced two beautiful children. I left him recently because i was abused and embarrassed in front of people at times. I have a new boyfriend, but i just hate to know that my ex is crying and being so unhappy, he is hoarse at times. I know in my heart that i still love him and he is waiting to take me back if i change my mind. I am not sure i love this other guy but he makes me feel good......i am in so much turmoil ..plz help me...
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (5 June 2007):
 Thanks for emailing me R. I have answered your email and will continue to talk with you there if you prefer okay?
Eve
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reader, DV1  +, writes (3 June 2007):
 If you're being abused, then there really shouldn't be any question. There shouldn't be a second thought running through your head. Let him cry, and beg all he wants. Why do you need to be in a relationship right away? I think that you should take time to figure out what you really want, before you hurt this new guy...
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2007): i think for whatever reason you broke up with your husband for some reason and therefore you were unhappy, i know it must be hard for you as you still love your husband but you have to do what is best for you! put yourself first, if you move on with your life then youe ex will hopefully move on with his. Would you rather feel good about yourself? Or be abused and feel embarrased? i know its hard but give the new guy a chance!
Best of luck x
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reader, jaxwardle86 +, writes (3 June 2007):
 I am currently in a similar position. Eve is right more info is needed and I would like to help you as I think we could support each other so please get in touch. Jax xoxox
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 June 2007): I think the reason why you're with your boyfriend is because of his presence of being around you. There is a lot of people out there that can't be without a man or woman. Work on yourself and concentrate on your two kids. Of course you still love him, you both been together for 22 years. Have you talked to him about how you feel?
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reader, AskEve +, writes (2 June 2007):
You left him because you were "abused and embarrassed in front of people". Who abused you? Is this physical or verbal abuse you're talking about and how did it embarrass you? Please give me more details to enable me to give you the best advice.
Eve
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