Does this married older woman want to sleep with me?
Q. Ok im 21 and i work in an office with only one other male, all the rest are female. There is one woman in the office who is constantly flirting with me and complimenting me--and i mean outrageously. At a recent night out too she stayed with me all ...
A. 14 July 2012: she's trying to flirt i guess .. But whether she's wants to just flirt with you or she wants to sleep with you it'll be better for you to distance yourself from her.. ..She's 16 years older than you , married and also your colleague .. She's ... (read in full...)
One of the unmarried men has been texting me for awhile!
Q. I am very confused right now and need some good sound advice! I am 64 and have been married for 39 years! My husband has Parkinson's and is now in a nursing home! I spent most of my 39 years with my husband as a good wife and mother at home. I ...
A. 30 June 2012: In my opinion it'll be better for you if you cut him off . As iamheretohelpyou says , if you dont then what you are considering is plain cheating. It doesnt matter of this guy is a colleague whom you bump into every day. You have been married for 39 ... (read in full...)
I'm jealous and its driving away a good guy
Q. How can I stop being so jealous? I've been hurt badly in past relationships, lied to and cheated on time and time again. I'm now with a wonderful man who treats me better than I ever thought I could be treated, but my jealousy issues are driving him ...
A. 17 June 2012: Hi , from what you have written , it looks like your boyfriend's just made some new friends... Your situation is quite understandable since you've been hurt a lot in the past ..Also i would like to appreciate the fact that you jealousy related... (read in full...)
I need help with Job Interviews!
Q. hey aunties I need help please, the thing is in job interviews I can so nervous I start giggling, and not actually talking too much and showing my potential,when compared to other candidates I look stupid/silly and do not get the job, I really need ...
A. 31 May 2012: All that people look for in an interview is whether you have the skills required for the particular job and whether you can be a good team player .. A good team player,mind you , need not necessarily be loud and outgoing .. I've seen quite many ... (read in full...)
I cant trust my boyfriend because he cheated years ago! Help!
Q. Hi everyone. I've got an insecurity problem. We've been dating with my bf for 6 and half years the first 3 years I was leaving in hell, he cheated with a women 5 years older than him as I was dating him an they had a child. My values is that when I ...
A. 17 May 2012: I think if you feel insecure around this guy because of his previous bout of cheating then its better to leave him ..
Further its possible that he might not be able to cut himself off completely from the other woman because he has had a child wi... (read in full...)
Did he love me when he was with me? What should I do to forget this cheating? Should I take revenge? Exactly what I must do to forget my first love?
Q. Hi, I don’t even know in what situation I am going through now. My name is Beloved (fake name) The year of 2011 was a great year for me for both in good and bad terms. Firstly when I say in good terms, it means I found a guy (25) of my dreams ...
A. 16 May 2012: I can understand that kind of pain that you are going through and iam truly sorry for it ... You certainly derserve somebody better than this bigamous prick !!
As for that woman , she's just being too cheap ...
But tell me one thing , woul... (read in full...)
Since the split, I find it awkward to start up conversations!
Q. I split from my boyfriend 18 months ago and whilst we were going out he stopped me from talking to my friends and other boys. Since we split i've found it hard and awkward to talk to others and start conversations, how can i solve this?...
A. 15 May 2012: In case you dont wanna hang out with a guy friend all of a sudden,preferably message a gal pal who was pretty close you before this relationship ("long time, wassup with you ?? " ).. Start talking to her and other gal pals slowly ...Once you guys ... (read in full...)
How do I navigate my way through a love triangle?
Q. So, my story starts 2 years ago. I met this guy who was a bit youger than me, let's call him X, we became friends and then we started dating (sorry for my english, i'm not from america). Everything was perfect for about 1 year, we shared a lot ...
A. 15 May 2012: Hey forgive me and ignore my message if i've said something wrong or offensive ... ok .. so both you and X seem equally confused by this on and off relationship .. He's gone a bit far by screaming at you and calling you names ..Ill treating y... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my insecurity?
Q. Hi all I realised lately when going out with my new gf (very attractive) I get silent and awkward when she speaks to a other guys. I am a quite guy and my friends told me that they can see me becoming different (facial expressions) in ...
A. 15 May 2012: I think if your girlfriend likes you for what you are then you should not be having any issues at all ...End of the day its she and your relationship with her that matters , not how she interacts with others i guess ...
You seem to be a quiet so... (read in full...)
How do I turn down a colleague who is acting weird?
Q. I need some help to turn down a guy nicely, please suggest what is the best thing to do. We meet at least twice a week at work, and we might have clients in common, so I'd like to stay on friendly basis. He has been sending mixed messages for seve...
A. 14 May 2012: Glad to know that you found my reply useful :) ... Even the scene that he created at the bar is a blessing in disguise since two other colleagues are also witness to the incident .. if he does something like this tomorrow at your workplace be rest ... (read in full...)
How do I turn down a colleague who is acting weird?
Q. I need some help to turn down a guy nicely, please suggest what is the best thing to do. We meet at least twice a week at work, and we might have clients in common, so I'd like to stay on friendly basis. He has been sending mixed messages for seve...
A. 13 May 2012: In case you find my reply irrelevant or hurtful pls ignore them .. Considering that he's a colleague whom you bump into frequently at office due to common clients , dont cut off your communication totally .. Since you've made a descision ... (read in full...)
Is there any way to rekindle his feelings for me?
Q. Hi guys am in desperate need of advice and help. But i dont know if it can even be helped. My bf and i have been together for 3plus years and have children together. We have been through numberous bumps in the road but have resolved nearly all of ...
A. 11 May 2012: HI .. this happens in every successful relationship .. As people slowly settle down the initial euphoria that attracted them to one another starts to dim a wee bit..This is actually a tiny side affect of a stable and brilliant relationship that has ... (read in full...)
My friend has become the perfect girl and I'm jealous!
Q. Dear aunts and uncles. So, this has to do with my best mate and my feelings of jealously over her. I'm 31 single and live in London. I met my mate (who's 29) 10 years ago at uni and we have been the best friends ever since, but recently it's al...
A. 23 April 2012: In a way i would like to appreciate the fact that you are very honest about your feelings ... Iam not going to give you any advice about trying to feel happy for her , coz honestly ,that's nearly impossible for anybody to feel that way. If... (read in full...)
It feels like my best friend is slipping away
Q. Have you ever been scared to lose your best friend? Theyre like your other half. They understand u and everything your going through. You guys have been through the ups and downs. Well lately i feel like my best friend is slipping away. We used to ...
A. 23 April 2012: This happens to a lot of people out there . A classic case of a warm friend suddenly becoming cool. In this case her views on life seem to have undergone a change as you have stated that she had to endure some difficult situations recently... (read in full...)
I hope I made the right decision by breaking up with my boyfriend for being controlling and abusive
Q. Hello everyone! Thank you so much for taking the time out for reading this and helping me through this difficult time in my life, I am 22 and am feeling pretty hopeless at the moment. i just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 months because of...
A. 17 April 2012: Absolutely yes .
As for you feeling low about this .. you did the right thing ..stick to your descision and cheer up ..
and dont put up with any kind of abuse or let anyone take you for granted .Ever.
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My boyfriend finished things, but he's still contacting me? Why is he doing this if he doesn't care?
Q. Right guys I really need your help on this one, this boy is so confusing! It all started last year, I went with this guy and then he decided he needed to try again with his ex girlfriend because he still had feelings for her. It broke my heart b...
A. 17 April 2012: Your sister is quite right..
He's too confused himself and in the process , is taking you for granted.
Remember that This guy was the one who went back to his ex while he was seeing you. HE was the one who broke off all contacts with yo... (read in full...)
What are some good ways of losing weight, especially in the breast area?
Q. i am 16 years old,i am somewhat fatty,but my huge boobs give me the look more fattier.which exercises i should do at home to reduce my weight n also the size of my boobs? ...
A. 14 April 2012: Walking is the easiest way to reduce fat apart from eating the right kind of food . If you have a treadmill at home then you use it for around 30 mins everyday. Start walking for 15mins during the initial days and gradually increase it 30 mins. ... (read in full...)
I am falling in love with a french man, advice please?
Q. Ok hello everyone. Basically about 3 years ago , i became pen pals with a man from France . We talked for a year about who we were and our cultures etc . We then began to send postcards and i felt like a puppy waiting to get my postcard i was s...
A. 8 April 2012: you dont , particularly seem to be having a problem here save the distance and the age gap . If u think you can manage a long distance relationship relationship then this issue can be easily sorted out ... Regarding your age difference you a... (read in full...)
We admitted how we felt about each other but he has totally backed off!
Q. Hi everyone. I'd really like a second person's opinion of this "situation" as i have a tendency to overreact. I have this friend who, while i've known for a while, has only just become my really close friend within about the last 3 years. And yes,...
A. 30 March 2012: This guy appears a little confused about whether or not to be in a relationship.Leave him alone for some time. Maybe he needs his space too. Either way , let him get back to you. In that case you'll know if he's genuinely interested in keeping up ... (read in full...)
Why doesn't he love me?
Q. i have known this guy for like 2yrs, he is married but not really very happy into this relation of his. i "really" love him and even broke up with a boyfriend of 4years for him,because i dint want to cheat on him. he used to like my best friend in ...
A. 30 March 2012: Hey really sorry to tell you this ... But pls please move on as soon as possible.. i dont want you to undergo that painful heartbreak which seems to be lurking in the corner .
Its true that guy is a womaniser in the making. Firstly he was married ... (read in full...)
Stared At by A School Employee... Need Advice!
Q. So there's guy at my school (he works at the school) and I'm a female student in high school. For some reason during lunch he stares at me. When he is outside supervising kids, he stares at me. Outside in the pick-up and bus areas he stares at me. ...
A. 28 March 2012: Easy ... pretend as if he doesnt exist ... dont even look in his direction ...He's probably doing this over and over again coz he's noticed that you've caught him staring and that you are irritated by it ... The problem here is he just keeps lo... (read in full...)
How do I find the courage to approach and ask a girl out to the Prom?
Q. I have recently tried to find myself a Prom date for my senior year. I have ahd the toughest time finding one because my old friend group fell apart and the few girls that I know have already been asked and the prom is still another month and a half ...
A. 28 March 2012: looks like your're a perfect prom nite date material !! :) :) You say people think you are friendly and loyal ... though you may be an offensive line man,it will actually help you get recognised and wont come in your way unless you wanna date a d... (read in full...)
My coworker and I used to be friends, and he liked me, but now he's mean! Why?
Q. Long story short, I met this guy we worked for the same company but different buildings we have mutual friends. The offices merged, and we made small talk became work friends. He would email me and made a big effort to contact me. I wasn't into him ...
A. 27 March 2012: I'll answer your problem to the extent possible.
In case u find my suggestions unhelpful or hurtful ,please ignore consider them as unintentional and ignore them.
From what i could gather from your message , it appears that you do not want to s... (read in full...)
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