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writes:Hi guys am in desperate need of advice and help. But i dont know if it can even be helped. My bf and i have been together for 3plus years and have children together. We have been through numberous bumps in the road but have resolved nearly all of it. For the first time in my life we are finally in a healthy relationship. We are genuinly happy and he is happy to come home to me. But our massive problem is that he doesnt feel the same way about me. He says he loves me deeply but its not in the same way. He doesnt want to call it quits, we both dont... He says he just wants to feel the same way. He doesnt know if he wants to be with me but he doesnt want to break up. He says he wants to be able to feel the same way again so we can get married and live our lives together as a family. He says that special feeling is gone, he doesnt miss me or get excited to see me but hes happy to see me and enjoys his time with me. Is there any way to rekindle his feelings? Any tips or advice that can help? Thank you for reading. Reply to this Question
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reader, JaneSmith2012  +, writes (11 May 2012):
 HI .. this happens in every successful relationship .. As people slowly settle down the initial euphoria that attracted them to one another starts to dim a wee bit..This is actually a tiny side affect of a stable and brilliant relationship that has surivived all ups and downs .Further you have stated that that no matter what happens, your boyfriend wants to come home to you at the end of the day .That shows the stength of your relationship.. Therefore his feelings can be easily rekindled in this regard.. Keep yourself a little more busy than usual .. If you are on a travelling job take up an outstation assignment.. When you are back in town take him out for a movie or a dinner date etc .. ..Rest of the things will fall into place automatically ...
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reader, Crazy Fox  +, writes (7 May 2012):
 There might be some if you isolate yourself from him or kinda make yourself not that much available for him and show him that you can be also independent and fine without him. It will wake his interest, you must make him miss you so that he will realise what he has got.
Good luck,
Crazy Fox
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