I have a legit interest in Goth/Emo and am tired of the posers who do it just to fit in. Any opinions on Goth-emo?
Q. Around the age of 14 I gradually became gothic (almost 17 now). My way of think, the way I view things, and my interests changed and eventually I began to change my appearance. I am in love with ancient gothic art and architecture. I enjoy reading ...
A. 21 June 2011: Hi there.. Part of growing up, especially at your age, is about discovering who you are and finding a place where you 'fit'. I think that rather than be judgemental of those who you believe are not 'real' goths, how about you as someone you perceive... (read in full...)
I want a guy with drive and ambition -- and he's not looking like that guy
Q. Ive been with my boyfriend for 3 years (on and off). I have never cheated on him, nor i never would. I would never lie to him either. We met in high school when I was 15 and he was 17. When I first met him, he seemed like the character that would ...
A. 5 June 2011: Im gonna be tough so if u cant handle it dont read on...
If you are giving a relationship 100% then that is what you deserve in return.
I think perhaps you are more in love with the relationship than the man. Yes it haa been a long time and you... (read in full...)
It's been over a year and my heart still hasn't healed...
Q. I really need help its been one year in a half that ive been broked up with my ex I am suffering for him still I cry alot over him its just hard to forget about him why?what can I do?is it love?omg im confused I cant be happy with other guys because ...
A. 3 June 2011: Hey there, i think you should listen to your mum and be grateful that you are not in a situation now as a teenage mother. Why did you want to get pregnant? Its understandable that when you are in love with someone that you would want to take the... (read in full...)
How do I leave my wife without exposing my infidelity?
Q. I have been having an affair for a year now, even though I have been married for 7. I got sober 8 months ago, no more booze or drugs, but I cannot quit this woman. If my wife finds out about us I will lose everything, friends, family (no children ...
A. 3 June 2011: I have recently been left by a man who told me 'its not you it's me'. I knew he was having an affair but he could not just bring himself to admit it. Anyway he moved straight in with this woman and told people it was just as a border, people k... (read in full...)
My fiance doesn't use words of love like my ex!
Q. Hello i want a solution to my problem.. Im engaged to person who is too kind ...i got engaged after a long love store with another guy now i've been engaged for almost 8 months.i saw the guy i was with before by chance and i felt that somethin...
A. 3 June 2011: If you want your relationship with your fiance then you def need to stop talking to your ex. Talk to your partner, tell him that you are the kind of person who needs to be told that you are loved. If that does not change anything and you still fe... (read in full...)
How do I get over my crush on my teacher?
Q. help!!! i need help getting over my teacher.... right well hes my music teacher and i have had a huge crush since he came my school 4 years ago. i know nothing can ever happen because hes my teacher and i am his pupil and hes 29 years old, i am ...
A. 2 June 2011: Hey there,
i think that you are doing the right thing by not telling your teacher, even if he does like you in that way you would be putting him in a situation that could destroy his future career and reputation.
If it was me i would look at the q... (read in full...)
How can I create distance with my best friend to save our friendship? I don't want to end up falling for her!
Q. I have many female friends and my best friend is female. When we met we were both in relationships but she's now been single for 4 years aside from a handful of dates. I've been single a year. We spend a lot of time together and everyone thinks ...
A. 2 June 2011: It sounds as though you are very important to her, for whatever reason, who knows?
Perhaps you should go by how you feel now, and not by how you may feel in the future.
If you dont currently have a girlfriend then you are not taking time from oth... (read in full...)
Drunken encounter with my cousin....how do I deal with this situation?
Q. really don't know how to say this......but ah will here it goes me and my cousin are really close as cousins should be and usually hang out. so as we sometimes do we went to his apartment and had some beer for old times sake and to catch up.....will ...
A. 2 June 2011: You are in an extremely difficult position and wanting to talk about it is understandable. Unfortunately you cannot make someone else talk. I would suggest that you consider talking to a counselor, they are able to help you come to terms with what ... (read in full...)
Not ready to let go....
Q. So I have been with my girlfriend for about 3 weeks. We are both 15 and she is everything I could ask for in a girlfriend. We have hugged, kissed, cuddled, and everything feels right. It has been the best 3 weeks I've had. So today is the first day ...
A. 2 June 2011: I think the best thing you can do is remain her friend. Let her know you still like her but respect her wishes. She may or may not change her mind, that is not something you can control.
Enjoy your summer go out do things that you like, wait... (read in full...)
Husband left me for another woman. Is it just a rebound?
Q. My husband left me three months ago for a much younger woman (he is 32, she is 21). I am devastated, we have four children together and it is heartybreaking that every other weekend they are staying at her house. (he moved straight in with her!). He ...
A. 1 June 2011: Would i take him back?
Two months ago, definately yes. Now, who knows! My husband and i were together for fourteen years. In this time he never cheated, and was a very nice, well respected man. He is not the same man now though.. Not the man i ma... (read in full...)
My cousin is going to blackmail me unless I do sexual things with her, and she's only 13!
Q. help cupids! im in a really BAD situation. basically, my cousin is blackmailing me for not doing sexual things with her. let me explain. my cousin admitted to me she loves me (though previously, i think she just adored me and now i know its jus...
A. 1 June 2011: Hey there,
it seems to me that your cousin has major issues, and needs help asap!
I can see why you dont want to tell others as it likely they would take her side due to your ages.
I would say that you only have two options:
~ avoid ... (read in full...)
Husband left me for another woman. Is it just a rebound?
Q. My husband left me three months ago for a much younger woman (he is 32, she is 21). I am devastated, we have four children together and it is heartybreaking that every other weekend they are staying at her house. (he moved straight in with her!). He ...
A. 1 June 2011: Thank you for your responses... My main concern, and the reason why i am asking this question, is for my kids.. I hate the fact that as long as she is around they will be reminded of what their dad has done. My daughter is refusing to go to their ... (read in full...)
It's been over a year and my heart still hasn't healed...
Q. I really need help its been one year in a half that ive been broked up with my ex I am suffering for him still I cry alot over him its just hard to forget about him why?what can I do?is it love?omg im confused I cant be happy with other guys because ...
A. 1 June 2011: Honey you are only very young, consider yourself lucky that at your age you have found some qualities in a male that you would like in the future. Now is the time to have fun with your friends, share a few kisses and set the foundations for your... (read in full...)
I am scared of being alone
Q. Hi I am scared of being alone and always desperately trying to be in a relation even though my ex-bfs never treated me right. I know the problem should be with me, since i was always been treated as a doormat. I am currently dating a guy who...
A. 1 June 2011: Hey there, being alone can be a scary thing. After fourteen years of being in relationship it is exactly where i have found myself. I have a feeling though that perhaps the reason why your relationships are not working is because you are not c... (read in full...)
Should a 20-year-old mildly autistic woman marry a 47-year-old whom she met in a home for adults with special needs?
Q. My name is, well, I'll call myself Teralyn, and I'm 20 years old. I live in a home for adults with special needs, but I plan to move out exactly one year from tomorrow (Today is Tuesday, May 31st, 2011, and I plan to move out on Friday, June 1st, ...
A. 1 June 2011: Hey there,
you have not said anything about how you feel about this man... Do you like him? Or are you just wanting to get married and because he likes you, that is enough?
I would suggest you spend your time getting to know this man as a friend. ... (read in full...)
Husband left me for another woman. Is it just a rebound?
Q. My husband left me three months ago for a much younger woman (he is 32, she is 21). I am devastated, we have four children together and it is heartybreaking that every other weekend they are staying at her house. (he moved straight in with her!). He ...
A. 31 May 2011: I understand that noone can predict the future, and i understand that rebound relationships can and do workout. What i am asking is the experiences of others and whether they feel this relationship is my husband rushing into something to protect ... (read in full...)
He denies sleeping with her, but she is saying it is true!
Q. I am four month pregnant with my boyfriends baby, I found Messages on his facebook suggesting he was doing something. I've asked him and he says he hasn't, I have asked her and she tells me that he has been seeing her and that they have had sex more...
A. 31 May 2011: From what you have said, i would assume yes. If he has nothing to hide, then he would be just as cranky with the girl for spreading rumours as you are. If he loves you and is not cheating, then proving that to you would be very important ti him.
C... (read in full...)
Could my crush be gay?
Q. I have been friends with a guy for about four years now, I have been very close to him, reasons being I felt we are very similar in many ways, he reminded me of myself a male version of me, he knew I liked him, but he said he just wanted to be ...
A. 31 May 2011: Ask him! You have been friends for a very long time, aslong as you approach the question with a little tact, your friendship will be fine.
If he is gay and still in the closet, a good friend is probably what he needs right now! ... (read in full...)
Am I bisexual or confused?
Q. i have been strictly in a lesbian relationship for a year and seven months now, and quite happy with sex and everything but now everytime i see a man walks with his undies i get turned on, feel like a bang.......am i bisexual, or am i sexually ...
A. 31 May 2011: Only you can really answer that question.
You need to ask yourself... Are you sexually attracted to other woman, or only the one you are with? Do you find men attractive when they are clothed and talking to you? Or is it just the undies?
I wou... (read in full...)
Why would he not be interested after we married?
Q. I am 22 and I have been married to my boy friend for 5 months now, we loved for almost 1 year and got married, but from the day of my wedding he is not normal, he is not interested in me any more, he doesn't care, doesn't share anything, not ...
A. 31 May 2011: My question to you is, why did you marry this man if you cannot talk to him about these kind of things?
Sit him down over a cuppa or a nice meal, tell him you care for him and want to show it....
There could be a million reasons why he i... (read in full...)
I'm his mistress and I want him to belong only to me!
Q. i am 22. he is 32. i am his mistress. he neither wants to leave me nor his wife. i want him to be only mine. i am always jealous of his wife and feel a kind of hurt. because she is alone he thinks his responsibility to look after them(family). now i ...
A. 31 May 2011: As the wife of a man who left me for a woman you age (he is 32) i would suggest you leave as soon as possible.
Why you even started a relationship with a married man, i do not know!
All you (and this man) are doing are causing heartache for his ... (read in full...)
Its stupid to say I'm sorry when I'm wrong!
Q. Why do people say I'm mean because I dont apologize and feel bad when Im wrong? I talk to them after a little while so shouldnt they know Im over it and they should be happy I talk to them again? Why all the drama and stuff? It's stupid. Why they ...
A. 31 May 2011: Being able to admit your mistakes and apologise is an important way of earning the respect of others.
Others may feel annoyed because not only are you not mature enough to admit when you are wrong, but you also then dont talk to them???
I think th... (read in full...)
Am I being slutty? How do I regain my self respect?
Q. all my friends (in a jokey way) always call me slutty and its always just been a bit of a laughy joke, but i really think i am, i seriously cant help it but its not like i have sex with loads of boys just i flirt with different boys at the same ...
A. 31 May 2011: Your profile states you are only 13-15... You have plenty of time for having 'grown up' relationships.
At your age you should be enjoying your first crush and first kiss...
You need to seriously need to consider why you are doing this.. From ... (read in full...)
He told me he's missing my company. What does that mean?
Q. Hey, what does it mean if a guy says "I'm missing your company"? My bf of 7 months has been away on a stag weekend (his friend is the stag) for 2 days now, and he sent me a text to say goodnight and that he is missing my company...what does that ...
A. 31 May 2011: Hey there...
Ask him! If it were me i would be greatful that my man sent me a text at all while he is off with 'the boys'.
This lack of confidence is a concern.. You have been together for seven months, obviously he likes you! Men love confiden... (read in full...)
He wants to move towns to accomodate his child from his first marriage...should I accomodate his wishes?
Q. My husband wants to sell our house and move to another town to live in a rented apartment in order to free money to send his child from his first marriage to a prestigious school there. He is self- employed so will be able to work anywhere. I ...
A. 31 May 2011: I assume you knew he had a child before you married him??
In my opinion children should always come first to their parents, but in saying that, his child does not have to come first to you.
Perhaps you could discuss with your husband splittin... (read in full...)
Is he just trying to keep in my good books?
Q. Hey everyone, ive been talking to this guy since september last year and we have never met, we met on the site plenty of fish. Anyway ive always wanted to meet him but hes always busy saying working or hes a big football fan so going to football all ...
A. 31 May 2011: Mmmmm, hard one! If it was me i would move on... Im guessing he is either lying about himself eg. Age, gender etc.. Or he has got a girlfriend or married.
Perhaps he is telling the truth and it is a low self esteem, but then do u really want some... (read in full...)
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