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writes:So I have been with my girlfriend for about 3 weeks. We are both 15 and she is everything I could ask for in a girlfriend. We have hugged, kissed, cuddled, and everything feels right. It has been the best 3 weeks I've had. So today is the first day of summer break and I'm excited because I get to be with my girlfriend all summer. I then get a call from her today saying how she just wants to be friends because she "isn't ready for a relationship". This broke my heart. She also asked while she was with friends. I had no idea what brought this up. She acted like there was nothing wrong and that our relationship was just fine. I think that there is more to it but she doesn't want me to know. So my question is: What can I do to get her back? I loved being with her even though it was for a short time and it hurts knowing that we aren't going out. Thank you. Reply to this Question
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reader, Jac2b55  +, writes (2 June 2011):
 I think the best thing you can do is remain her friend. Let her know you still like her but respect her wishes. She may or may not change her mind, that is not something you can control.
Enjoy your summer go out do things that you like, waiting around moping is extremely unattractive and will only push her away further.
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reader, Anastasia  +, writes (2 June 2011):
 Sweetheart, you are 15...and she is 15...and 15 year old girls change their minds faster than they change their clothes. I empathize with you that it hurts that she just wants to be friends. But understand that she is entitled to change her mind if she likes. I know it hurts and you want to get her back, but she "is just not that into you" anymore and you need to focus on yourself and enjoying your summer. You cannot force someone to be with you if they choose not to ....okay. If you push to get her back, she might not even want to be friends with you anymore.So my advice would be to get busy with your summer, find a hobby, head out with friends, do hikes or something...don't let this get to you and spoil your summer. Who knows?..you might meet another girl of your dreams....someone who REALLY wants to be with you.Hope that helps.
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