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13 June 2009: Me and my bf Matt have been together since april of 2008 and I love him more than anything else .. And I can't see myself without him now .. He and his family may be moving to new york and I couldn't stand the thought of him leaving .. He says he'd ...
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After sex with another guy not sure if I want to be with my boyfriend
Q. I've been with my boyfriend for a year and 5 months today, we've fought some here and there nothing really serious, I also lost my virginity to my boyfriend, and recently withing the last few months, my boyfriend is just being rude disrespectful and ...
A. 28 September 2009: Thanks, but I still need advice, I took my boyfriend back, he promised to change, and I love him and want to allow him to try. But im also feeling bad because I've had to blow off the other guy, and also I feel bad because im in a way leading him ... (read in full...)
Can I get pregnant from the clear fluid?
Q. Okayee, my boyfriend and i have sex quite a bit. Usually its like 3 times in a period of 3 or 4 hours. And most of the time its Protected. But today he put his penis in without a condom. And alot of the time when he gets an erection he leak...
A. 5 August 2009: Hey, im a 17 year old, I've been pregnant and had an abortion, and it all would have been prevented if my boyfriend and I would have used protection, my bf never came in me either, but its the pre cum that got me pregnant. So yes its very possible, ... (read in full...)
He's a perfect gentlemen, only problem is he's 21 and I'm 16 going on 17!
Q. Hi. I really need some help here. i recently met this guy who seems perfect for me. we're both really into art and the outdoors, and he's a perfect gentleman. the only problem is, i'm 16 (about to be 17) and he's 21. i feel really iffy about this ...
A. 25 July 2009: Well I don't know him but just be careful there's a lot of sick people who prey on younger girls im 17 myself .. I know.. I think you should talk to your mom about it.. Tell her how nice he seems and how she would feel if you 2 tryed dating .. The ... (read in full...)
Took a pregnancy test and it came back negative....could I still be pregnant?
Q. well I'm 14 and I had sex about a month ago and I think I may be pregnant..I didn't really want to do it with him..Well if I am I refuse to tell my dad..I want to have an abortion if this is the case..but I can't trust anybody!! Geez this is ...
A. 17 July 2009: Hey, im 17 have been pregnant and had an abortion myself, telling your parents is the the 2nd hardest part, the harder part is thinking do I really want a baby or not, but for me it wasn't a matter of wanting it was a matter of doing what I NEEDED ... (read in full...)
I've been having my period for a month?
Q. okay so i just have a question... i am 17 years old and i got my period for the first time when i was about 13. ive never been regular... sometimes i might skip a month and stuff like that but about two months ago i got my period twice in one month ...
A. 17 July 2009: Allrighty. Im 17 too actually. And just today I got mine in the middle of the month I don't usually get it till the 30th and anyway, that's happend to me as well, your body is producing a lot of hormones and stuff so that's why its happening, but if ... (read in full...)
I have a lazy bf and pay for everything HELP!
Q. My boyfriend has no job, no money and won't make an effort to even try to get a job. He'd rather smoke pot, I take us out everywhere we go.. I pay! Im tired of it.. How do I convince him to get a job?... I mean he loves me and is there for me but I ...
A. 15 July 2009: It isn't as though he's a moocher because he isn't he always makes sure to say thank you and everything, he's a wonderful person and just a sweet guy, but just doesn't work. ... (read in full...)
Two weeks late...I have to ask the question..Does these symptoms sound like pregnancy?
Q. I know that none of you are doctors or a pregnancy test and i do know that really need to go get tested to find out for certain but hear me out. Ive been ttc for the past two months. Last month my period was three weeks late, during the three weeks ...
A. 11 July 2009: I believe you may be pregnant . I had the exact symptoms minus the speckles.. ... (read in full...)
I feel unattractive, and my boyfriend's comment didn't help!
Q. i have recently become very self conscious about my body. i'm petite with b cup boobs and i am not one who likes exercising. im not fat, though im not skinny either.my boyfriend has recently suggested me to start exercising, and though he says its ...
A. 10 July 2009: Im only 4' 11' so don't worry I weight 127 lbs and have c cup boobs myself and I don't exercise either.. And my boyfriend loves my body .. I am very self concios about my body too. so I can understand how you might feel.. Really more than anything ... (read in full...)
5 months pregnant need to tell my parents and don't know how!
Q. I'm so frightend, I'm 16 and I found out about 5 months ago I was pregnant. The guy who got helped in this little creation of ours blamed it all on me and moved to a different school.I wouldn't dare tell my parents, they've done so much for me and I ...
A. 5 July 2009: Im very sorry.. I can understand the immense stress that you must be under .. But you really do need to pull your mother aside and tell her.. That's very important.. You need pre natal care and all of that.. Your mother loves you and wants what's ... (read in full...)
My bf said I could have sex with other guys...WHY?
Q. My bf of over a year told me last night that if it ever came up that I wanted to have sex with another person that we would talk about it and it would be okay... I lostmy virginity to him and haven't slept with any other guy .. Does he telling me ...
A. 5 July 2009: Well maybe I should explain better what he said.. Well first of all he WAS intoxicated...but this is what he said .. His older friend was married and I guess at one point in their relationship the issue of having sex with other people came up.. My ... (read in full...)
Is my body not ready for sex? My boyfriend told me that.
Q. me and my boyfriend tried to have sex but, it didnt work. he says its not my fault its just my body isnt ready. do you have any sugestions as to what to do about this? also he says he needs to be able to put 2 fingers in easily before his dic...
A. 25 June 2009: Hey I know what's going on I was like that .. Try a lot of foreplay and a very nice setting music candles etc. Let him make you feel compfortable and relaxed and sexy and wanted then you should be aroused and wet so your body will be more excepting ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my 11 year old cousin that I love her?
Q. Hi i am an 18 year old boy and last week i met my cousin who is 11years old actually i met her for the very first time...we had nice time and became really very close.but i have fallen in love with her i am too much attracted to her. What shall i ...
A. 25 June 2009: ABSOLOUTLY NOT..... she is family not a lover that's sick I don't care about the culture or whatever...... do you wanna have mentally retarded children with birth defects an stuff? that's disgusting and you know it.. She's too young and you are too ... (read in full...)
Do men mind pubic hair?
Q. Hi, I'm so embarrassed I don't know what to say but i have to ask I haven't had sex before and I was wondering about pubic hair do I have to remove it or its okay to leave it there? do men mind? I know its painful and I don't know what to do plz h...
A. 25 June 2009: Well firstly I think you need to talk with your mom about birth control before you are sexually active .. I got pregnant at 16 and it wasn't fun .. And abortion was even harder.. It'll be a wierd topic but your mom would rather have you protected ... (read in full...)
I want him to go down on my more often!
Q. Ok ... here's my deal. I LOVE when my boyfriend goes down on me. I crave it and even daydream about it! The problem is he hardly ever does. He will occasionally but only when he "feels like it" even when I give him oral he hardly ever returns the ...
A. 23 June 2009: Tell him its really pleasurable for you and your craving it .. But do it when you two are ina sexual encounter.. Dirty talk if you must .. Just let him no .. And ask him to try this lol its awesome have him finger you while going down on you .. ... (read in full...)
Sex is painful, he's too big, it's killing our relationship
Q. I've been with my boyfriend 6 months. Yet we've never fully had sex. He's on the large side penis wise, but I've had boyfriends with large penises before and it's never been this much of a problem. It just really, really hurts! When he first go...
A. 23 June 2009: Try the romantic setting more often and also make sure your body is relaxed don't be assuming it won't work.. If he takes it very slowly your body will except him.. It may take a while but it sounds to me that you may need other forms of help ... (read in full...)
I'm afraid to have sex because I think I'll die! HELP ME!
Q. So just yesterday I was in the shower with my boyfriend and we were about to do the "deed" and I started feeling light headed so I was going to get out, than my vision started going black and I couldn't see, and I felt nauseated, so I sat down in ...
A. 23 June 2009: Your fine maybe the heat was too much and the stimualtion as well was like sensory overload .. But you should speak with a doctor... and don't have sex in the shower!!!!!!! You'll slip and hurt yourselves if u aren't careful.. I mean try explaining ... (read in full...)
I really love him and want to give myself to him, but I'm worried it's never going to happen.
Q. Me and my boyfriend have tried to have sex 3 different times but it never seems to happen as we plan, we're both virgins and 18. I've gone on the pill after the first time he couldn't get the condom on, and he didn't want me to risk us getting ...
A. 23 June 2009: Well tips on the sex.. I remeber my first time its painful I know but the trick is to set aside the awkwardness and relax your body and let him love you.. You need to relax the pelvic muscles and it would probably be helpful to make sure that your ... (read in full...)
My grandpa molested me when I was 13!
Q. My grandpa molested me when I was 13. I stayed over at his house all summer because my parents were finishing building a house and moving into it. The abuse started by him tickling me one time after I was tickling my cousins. A minute or so later ...
A. 23 June 2009: Omg im so very sorry.. I really think that you need to sit down with your parents and tell them what happend .. It won't be easy.. But they neeeed to know .. Especially if your grandfather is still alive I mean he could be doing that to the younger ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is moving 2 hours away, I'm clingy and needy... Help!
Q. HI! okay so my bf of a year and some days is moving away at the end of this month because he cant find a job so he's moving back home with his parents which is bout 2hours away, and idk what to do? I live with my mom still cuz i dont hava job yet ...
A. 23 June 2009: I know exactly how your feeling my boyfriend matt and I have been together for a year and two months on the 25th .. And his mom talks more an more about moving back to new york .. Were in florida!!! So that's way more than 2 hours .. You really ... (read in full...)
Why can't he make me orgasm?
Q. My bf and I have been together for 1 year 2 months and in our relationship he's made me orgasm 4 times max and that also included me stimulating myself .. What could I do to have a more satisfying sex life I want the big O too but I want him to do ...
A. 23 June 2009: Its not that im unsatisfied with our sex life, and were verrrrrrry open with eachother and have no problem whatsoever saying what feels good or whatever . So its not a communication thing I mean I talked with him and suggested that he take more ... (read in full...)
Me and my obsessive adopted brother....
Q. me and my adopted brother are in love with each other. Is that weird? Is it considered as incest? last week, we had our first sex with each other. Its just that, i feel wrong and im scared if my parents found out. Its not easy to just end our ...
A. 23 June 2009: Well obliviosly it wasn't right.. He is infact a family member blood related or not and I think the best thing for you to do is sit down an explain to him were family an uncompatible no matter what and it doesn't sit right with me what happend.. Our ... (read in full...)
My cousin is tearing the family apart with her compulsive lies!
Q. My cousin bre is a compulsive liar and is acting up constantly she's been sneaking out at night lying to her mom dating a 23 year old child molseter who raped a 12 year old and the sick part is .. Is that she's fully aware of that fact.. She ju...
A. 23 June 2009: Thanks for the advice ill take it .. Its just she disgusts me .. And I do nothing to her to deserve that treatment and it upsets me a lot I mean its completely uncalled for.... I mean what can I do though its not like I can just remove her from my ... (read in full...)
Can symptoms of pregnancy start before you miss a period?
Q. Last month i had a pregnancy scare, i honestly told myself i was and got used to the idea that i was. Id taken three tests, all of which were negative and a urine sample at the hospital confirmed i wasnt, the day after the hospital my period ...
A. 21 June 2009: I know how you feel I've had three scares.. The best thing to do is not stress that delays your period.. My breasts are always tender right b4 my period and when your about to get your period typically women drink more fluids not realizing it hence ... (read in full...)
I need your help moving on from my heartbreak. I can't keep it together anymore
Q. I Had been in a relationship with this really nice lad for 4 months. about a week ago he went onto my facebook account and read some emails i had been sended another lad. He accused me of cheating on him with this other lad, although i would never ...
A. 14 June 2009: Hey.. Im no stranger to heartbreak.. So take my advice.. Apparently this guy is insecure and thinks your a cheater.. And if your in a relationship .. You really shouldn't be talking to other guys.. That upsets my boyfriend too.. And him and I have ... (read in full...)
How can I leave him after 23 years? Hes making my life hell!
Q. I am in a realtionship for 23 years, we have a 15 year old daughter. We are not married, that is not the issue. The issue is, we get no respect, I am constantly getting yelled at like I am a verbal punching bag by both my daughter and her dad, ( ...
A. 13 June 2009: Well first of all you should never allow somone to belittle you and those smart remarks he's giving you and the lying about your life just shows he in denial and unhappy with his life not to mention that he's very insecure and miserable... he sounds ... (read in full...)
How can I leave him after 23 years? Hes making my life hell!
Q. I am in a realtionship for 23 years, we have a 15 year old daughter. We are not married, that is not the issue. The issue is, we get no respect, I am constantly getting yelled at like I am a verbal punching bag by both my daughter and her dad, ( ...
A. 13 June 2009: Well first of all you should never allow somone to belittle you and those smart remarks he's giving you and the lying about your life just shows he in denial and unhappy with his life not to mention that he's very insecure and miserable... he sounds ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend seems so selfish and only cares about himself! It's making me ask myself... should I stay or go?
Q. In short, I've been with my boyfriend for just over five years now. We were due to get married at the end of march this year, but I called off the wedding because it didn't feel right and he banned my brother from the wedding. My family don't ...
A. 13 June 2009: Kick him to the curb .. Show him he you can survive without him .. Your a big girl and can take care of yourself and don't need a man to complete you.. My mothers divorced and happy so ..... (read in full...)
What can I use for sexual pleasure?
Q. I am 17 and I'm not allowed to have a sex toy, so what else can I use around the house to get sexual pleasure?...
A. 13 June 2009: Don't listen to that idiot you'll get an infection.. The vagina is very sensitive and can be torn or infected easy .. So stick with your hands for now .. Or find a boyfriend.... or better yet go to a sex toy store with an older friend and have them ... (read in full...)
I'm confussed about my sexuality
Q. hi im a 14 year old guy and im confused about my sexuality. im straight i really like girls..but i also have bi-sexual tendencies..i think im attracted to guys too..does that make me bi or gay?... and also i like girls alot..but the whole va...
A. 13 June 2009: Well first of all your only 14 and going through puberty so everythings new to you.. And it makes sense that you would be attracted to the same sex .. Mainly because your a guy and guys know what guys want you know.. But having bi tendencies doesn't ... (read in full...)
Did the poem scare him off?
Q. Feel a bit silly asking this at my age - 43 - but I started seeing a new man about a month ago. Although we've only been out three times he has been texting me a lot in between and so it feels like we've been out more. He is in the process of ...
A. 13 June 2009: Well first of all my mom is divorced too .. And every chance she gets for a date I urge her to take it bcuz I want her to be happy .. Explain to this guy you were only showing him how you releive stress not secretly informing him of your feelings .. ... (read in full...)
Lost my virginity to my brothers friend, who has a gf and I'm starting to get attached to him...
Q. Ok well I'm 18 and the guy im secretly seeing is 22. Yes we have sex and what not but the problem is he has a girlfriend. Oh i lost my v card to him and he's my brothers close friend. but obviously no one knows that me and him are messing around ...
A. 13 June 2009: Hey .. Well my advice to you .. Is sit down with this guy explain how your feeling .. Losing your virginity is a HUGE deal but it doesn't make you who you are .. Don't let a first time physical act become a future heartbreak .. There's somone out ... (read in full...)
How do you let go of a first love?
Q. How do you let go of your 1st love? I can't seem to fully do it. I love my boyfriend now, and i want to be with him always, but i can't let go of the past. My first love was my best friend, and i find it hard that he's going to a different college ...
A. 13 June 2009: Hey im only 17 but I know what your going through.. There was a guy I was dating lets just call him chuck.. And chuck and I dated on and off for about 2 years not only was he my boyfriend but he was my best friend too.. He cheated on me a lot and I ... (read in full...)
Why does my vagina keep making this farting noise? It's extremely embarrassing!!!!
Q. please could you give me some advice,when my partner and i start to make love my vagina makes the most awful farting sound; it doesnt bother him but i find it extremely embarrasing, please could you help me i am getting married in six weeks...
A. 13 June 2009: So ladies and men .. I as of lately have been having the exact same problem .. Its embarrasing yes try mortifying but like 5 min ago I called my boyfriend told him what was happening and that it was his fault it was happening and it was making me ... (read in full...)
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