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I'm worried that I'll be a virgin for years to come....
Q. Hey i need some help, I am a 21 year old girl and I'm still a virgin, ok that maybe sounds stupid but it really is a bit of a worry for me. I went out with a guy for over a year but was only 17 and felt I wasn't ready to sleep with him even though I...
A. 5 March 2008: So what if you are a virgin for years to come? Most men would love to have a virgin. Alot of men prefer big women. It's not bad to be a virgin, though. I don't know what your rush is.... (read in full...)
My right testicle has been hurting... anyone know what might be wrong?
Q. Hey recently my right testicle has been hurting like a pain of windness (punched in the chest) or achy pain. I've checked and found no lumps although it seems theres more room on the left side of my testicle sack than on the right the pain comes a...
A. 5 March 2008: Not to scare you, but you are about the age of my cousin when he found out he had testicular cancer. He went through all of the treatments. He is cured now and married, just had a beautiful baby girl of his own.... (read in full...)
How do I tell her I can't cheat with her anymore?
Q. I made a huge mistake. My wife and I were having problems with our marriage and she complicated it further by having a few sexual encounters and a full blown emotional relationship. I became an angry person with an agenda to get even. I contacted an ...
A. 5 March 2008: Call her. Confront her. It doesn't matter. Tell her bluntly what her status is. Tell her she is only a friend and you hate seeing her hurt in her relationship, but you can no longer betray your wife.... (read in full...)
Serious After Sex Pain!!!
Q. Recently, I have just had sex with my boyfriend and since then all I want to do is go to the toilet and it hurts when I pee. I'm getting rather worried, I don't want anyone to know I'm not a virgin but I want to find out what's wrong and get ri...
A. 5 March 2008: Having serious pain after sex is something you have to go to the doctor for. Not to scare you, but, it could be something very serious. It is most likely an infection. But, it could be a sexually transmitted disease. Either way, you have to get to a ... (read in full...)
My workmate and I were sleeping with the same man, only I have found out, should I tell her?
Q. Last year after ending a 20 year marriage i started seeing a guy from work who had been flirting with me for several months, although it had nothing to do with my marriage breakup. He's 20 yrs older and has a partner who he isn't that happy with,...
A. 5 March 2008: Some people are such jerks. If you tell this lady, it could backfire on you. You could become exposed and be made out as a loser. But, only if he says you are lying. If you are confident enough that you're 90% sure he won't just call you a liar, ... (read in full...)
I'm a little neurotic, but he called out another girls name, so I think he may be having an affair, what should I do?
Q. My boyfriend and I spent an evening with friends last weekend. We each had a fair amount to drink during the evening. Anyway, my bf was talking to his mate about a trip we were arranging with some of my mates, and my bf called me by another girl’s ...
A. 5 March 2008: Really don't seem like a problem to me. I've called people by the wrong name before, totally unintentional. Probably wasn't even thinking about the other person. Space can be a good thing, especially after it seems like he was smothered by his ex. ... (read in full...)
I'm worried I'd scare her away with my size? She mentioned this aspect was important to her.
Q. I'm am 17 years old and i have been dating this girl 4 1 year now and I'm afraid that my penis wont cut it. i have a 6.5 in penis fully erected but its 4.5 in flaccid she has never touched my penis but she keeps trying and I'm afraid that if she ...
A. 3 March 2008: It's best if you do know how she will react before the relationship goes on any longer. No idea if it will grow. I've heard it can. I haven't seen any evidence. Maybe she will be more satisfied with a smaller size than she realizes. But, neither of ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to approach a girl without teasing and flirting with? That is not my style.
Q. hi there, i kinda need your urgent help; i think i am on the way to like this girl, but there is one big thing making us peoples of different world. i am a 22 years old virgin having no girl friend in my life, never kissed or been kissed; it is no...
A. 3 March 2008: Sure women like bad guys. They also love good guys! Respect is a sure way to win a lass over. Being a virgin is a major plus for some girls. Other girls do prefer experience. You got to know the girl first. Some girls don't care about weight. Most ... (read in full...)
He wants to break up and invokes having changed his sexual orientation. What can I do?
Q. I've been dating this guy for 9 months now, our sex life we perfect (well at least to me) until Feb 29th he told me he doesn't want to have sex with me anymore and that he was more into girls when at the beginning he said he was into guys so right ...
A. 3 March 2008: You are young, I have no idea how old your lover is. But, if his age is anything like yours, he's most likely telling the truth. It's very possible he is unsure about his sexuality at this point. There is the possibilty he was using you for sex but ... (read in full...)
Is it normal to be attracted to girls as well as boys?
Q. I am 11 years old and so is my best friend, we are in the same year 7 class and I've known her for 2 years (but we weren't best friends until we were in the same class). The thing is, I'm worried that I like her too much. you know, people have ...
A. 16 February 2008: Hi Jelly, It may be you are too young to know yet. You could grow up to prefer either or both sexes. Let it happen and then you will know but as for now I don't think it's others business so why say anything. Your crush sounds natural. You may like ... (read in full...)
Is our relationship ruined?
Q. Hi sore your comment on a similar comment so figured you might be a good person to help me. I’ve been with my bf two and a half years now. Sometimes I would get jealous over other girls but I tried not to let it get to me. One day after we had been ...
A. 16 February 2008: Being young gives me hope for you. I'm assuming he's about the same age so it's possible he realizes the mistake and has matured. Hopefully, this is the case.... (read in full...)
Is he maybe just really busy, or is he just blowing me off?
Q. OK, here goes. I met this guy while I went home to my families. The last day I was there. He tells me that its so unfair that I had been there that long and had just met him. Really good looking and intelligent. It was immediate. I really liked him. ...
A. 16 February 2008: I'll call you is a bad phrase. I don't think he will call unless he wants to do the same thing again (including the not following up part). Sounds like a player. Sure he could get a one night stand anywhere, but it wouldn't be you. Guys have their ... (read in full...)
Is it okay to fantasise about men other than my boyfriend?
Q. Is it okay to fantasize about other men other than my boyfriend or watch movies with actors that I find very attractive? I wouldn't do this if he was around, only when I'm alone and if the urge sometimes comes up and I don't watch movies that ...
A. 16 February 2008: I don't think it's important. I think we all do it. I've gotta have the Depp myself. Hopefully you'd be ok with him about lassies in that sense.... (read in full...)
I'm not turned on by him and during oral I don't really get aroused at all.
Q. I love my boyfriend a lot and he loves me, but I'm not turned on by him and during oral I don't really get aroused at all. Help I don't want to insult him ....
A. 16 February 2008: Have you ever been aroused by anyone? I'm not sure if by oral you mean giving or receiving or both.... (read in full...)
Torn between two great guys...what can I do??
Q. Where to start... My now husband and I have been together for a very long time, since I was 14... I'm 21 now... we have been married for almost 4 years now, and have two beautiful children that are my life. I don't really know what happened...
A. 16 February 2008: If you find out he's cheating, I think you would be better off without him. BUT, this is hard to say, but if he isn't beating you or you don't catch him cheating, etc.. I don't think your happiness is worth the happiness of your children. I'm quite ... (read in full...)
He's perfect for me except when it comes to the bedroom!
Q. Hello. I really need some help here. But im to embariced to talk to any of my friends. well I got engaged 1 1/2 ago and we are getting married in 2 months. we started having sex about 4 months ago and then I thought it would get better as time went ...
A. 16 February 2008: Were you a virgin? If so, you may need to teach yourself how to have orgasms. It may not be him. Maybe you aren't relaxed enough. Best bet? See a physician and tell them about your body and the pain! Don't be afraid to. There could be something that ... (read in full...)
Sometimes I am laid in his bed naked and he is still masturbating to porn...what should I do??
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for three years. We have sex almost everyday, sometimes more than once. I want to know why he is looking at porn everyday, sometimes more than once? I try my best to satisfy him. Am I the problem? I tried to talk to ...
A. 16 February 2008: He is addicted to porn more than to "real" sex? If a shrink doesn't help him, I don't know. The first step is admitting he has a problem. Not just saying it, but believing it.... (read in full...)
He got upset by all the guys on my friends list..how can I convince him I did nothing wrong??
Q. I've had facebook and Myspace for about 2 years now. My boyfriend and I have been going out for a year. Just last night he looked at my facebook and got really upset because I had guys on my friends list. I don't even talk to 90% of the people I'm ...
A. 16 February 2008: Tell him he's your beau not these guys. If he continues to be overly jealous you may have to sit him down and try to tell him how he is. He may not even notice that he's being jealous without reason. For some people, I think it's a learned behavior. ... (read in full...)
Follow Up for the Ladies - The B-cup Cleavage Question
Q. Hello again! Thanks everyone for your advice and putting up with my cleavage obsession. I've tried the push up bra but it still doesn't help - bras never bring my breasts close enough together. And smaller bras make the flab underneath my armpits ...
A. 16 February 2008: Cleavage can be overated. Some women with large breasts still don't have "cleavage". I don't know why, they just don't! Maybe you should take a second look at your bust and see if there's something you like about them, minus what you lack. Boobs ... (read in full...)
He can't orgasm and I feel like it must be me...please help.
Q. Hi, Last year I went through a really really bad, stressful separation from my partner of almost 6 years. I vowed never to have a man in my life again, but once I got back on my feet, I thought it time to start dating again. I am 45 years old, wit...
A. 16 February 2008: This is a very common issue with guys, usually having nothing to do with their partner. Sometimes, it's stress. Sometimes, it's medical. It's ok to ask someone if they want to try something different. If that doesn't work, seeing a doctor is the ... (read in full...)
Is saying you still have feelings for the ex another way of saying that you just don't want to go out??
Q. dear cupid, this question is for the ladies When a girl goes out with you but then after a week dumps you saying that she "still has feeling for her ex" is that their way of saying that they just dont wanna go out with you or do they really stil...
A. 16 February 2008: It usually means she still has feelings for her ex. It doesn't always mean she has more feelings for her ex than she does you. She may have. She may not have. Maybe she doesn't even know. Give her awhile.... (read in full...)
How can I convince her I've seen the error of my ways and am ready to wait for her??
Q. My fiance moved out last week. We have been engaged for 3 year and i asked her to set a date for the wedding several months ago.. i also began to talk about children.. i feel i have hen pecked her out of insecurity about marriage and kids when she ...
A. 16 February 2008: Tell her what you just said. Kids are good but not a necessity. You need her in your life regardless. Just tell her. But, also, may I note, if she is so insecure about marriage why are you engaged? The age difference between you is only small. But, ... (read in full...)
I think life is too short to spend it with the wrong person...what do you think??
Q. I am stuck in the middle of two guys, one of them i am going out with, and really loves me honestly i couldnt ask to be treated any better. the other is one of my bf's mates who i love more than my bf. I think that life is too short to spend it with ...
A. 16 February 2008: I think you should be with the one you love most. But, he has to feel the same way of course. Also, you may lose the other guy as a friend, is this something you're willing to do?... (read in full...)
Any thoughts on the game he might be playing??
Q. Hoping someone can help me here as I need it. I dated a guy for a bit last year. I must admit that it was one sided...more on my part. I would not sleep with him as fast as he wanted so he let me go...in a nice way but it was still a blow. Both of ...
A. 16 February 2008: I don't think it's a game. Maybe he used the other girl like he tried to use you? If not, maybe he's just being imature trying to make you feel a little awkward. Happens all of the time.... (read in full...)
He's invited me over but I'm a bit scared in case he's too pushy!
Q. arrghh ok so I've been recently getting to know a guy at my school. He told me he liked me and got me roses for valentines. So far he's been nothing but sweet to me, we're really getting along. but I've heard things about him, he's very promiscu...
A. 16 February 2008: If he's pushy take a stand and let him know you want to be loved not used. A million lads can give you roses but you can only give one your virginity. Please pick one who will hopefully last a lifetime and not be with another next weekend. You ... (read in full...)
Please help me? Friendly or flirting?
Q. I work with this lad, and im not to sure if he likes me or that he wants a bit more? he always rings me when work call him in to c if i am, when im already in he says please say your in till 9 or so on, when we do the ova nighters he says...
A. 16 February 2008: He's either wanting to be your date or your best buddy. Either way, seems flattering if he's an ok guy. I would ask him out, if all was well. But, not to scare him, I would also note that he's a great friend. I think by the hearts, I am thinking ... (read in full...)
What advice can you give me for the future?
Q. Hi. I went out on the town tonight and had barely any contact with a woman at all. I was lucky to even get involved in a conversation. I usually get lots of attention but tonight I have come home feeling disappointed. I know when you go out you ...
A. 16 February 2008: If you usually get lots of attention, then you likely will again. Try another night. Just because you're single doesn't mean you have to feel alone. Get stable in life (if you aren't already) and remember spending time with friends and family is ... (read in full...)
Is this man worth my time?
Q. I am in a almost 2yr realationship. My partner has taken a 2wk trip with his ex since I have been with him. He shortly after that broke up with me to go back to her. After he tried that for awhile he came back to me, relizing that she was not ...
A. 16 February 2008: If he's seeing her because he has feelings for her, he isn't worth your time. If he's seeing her because they have a child together or they're also great friends, you need to take that into consideration. The fact he broke up with you to take her ... (read in full...)
Falling in love with a much younger woman...what to do?
Q. Hello all. I'm seeking advice on a very heart wrenching problem I'm trying to sort out. I'm a 36 year old man who works with a 23 year old woman. Both her and I are in exclusive dating relationships but not married. I think it's safe to say that ...
A. 16 February 2008: I agree with the fact it can be confusing. If she loves you more than the guy she's with, it could be meant to be. Your heart is obviously more with her than the lady you're with. Does she feel the same or does she still have enough love and ... (read in full...)
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