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writes:OK, here goes. I met this guy while I went home to my families. The last day I was there. He tells me that its so unfair that I had been there that long and had just met him. Really good looking and intelligent. It was immediate. I really liked him. So I go home and put him aside, he didnt live in the town I met him in, either, and put a notch on the post, ya know? Then, like 2 weeks later he texts me, we start talking a little, and before you know it, I'm going to meet him half way, an over-nighter. I had a blast, he was so fun, and he acts like he is really into me. The next day, we're going home, he says "I'll call ya." Now, I've texted him, and nothing. What is going on? Is he maybe just really busy, or is he just blowing me off? And why go through the effort to spend money for a trip, for a one night stand that you can find anywhere? He kinda spoiled me (not like thats all I want, but it made me feel good), and now nothing. Why?? WTF!?!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell that really is nasty, but I see your point. I have started to see that as well. And thanks for the tips, guys, my friends kept telling me he'd call. Oh well, cant have everything that you want. Thanks again.
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reader, iAintYourAunt +, writes (16 February 2008):
 I'll call you is a bad phrase. I don't think he will call unless he wants to do the same thing again (including the not following up part). Sounds like a player. Sure he could get a one night stand anywhere, but it wouldn't be you. Guys have their picks. One of those mysterys of humanity.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (16 February 2008):
 Seems like he's blowing you off. The key phrase is "I'll call you". Which is a way to say "Don't call me".
Don't underestimate your appeal. Maybe he couldn't find someone like you where he lives. That doesn't mean, however, that he wants to continue with it.
He may call you again, if he is in the mood. I wouldn't think much about him.
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