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anonymous
writes: I love my boyfriend a lot and he loves me, but I'm not turned on by him and during oral I don't really get aroused at all. Help I don't want to insult him . Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni mean receiving...he just doesnt turn me on...it gets more difficult....
thx for ur help on the second answer...
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reader, iAintYourAunt +, writes (16 February 2008):
Have you ever been aroused by anyone? I'm not sure if by oral you mean giving or receiving or both.
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reader, korculan queen +, writes (16 February 2008):
It depends on his technique. Get him to trace IN CAPITALS the alphabet from A to Z on your clit. He can go slowly or fast however talented his tongue is. Another thing is body paint get him to paint it down there and really go to town. I do not know what his technique is down there and maybe you are feeling embarrassed to come while he is licking you but honey that is the reaction he would want if he is out to please you. Also do you get turned on by vaginal or clitoral stimulation. If clitoral like me then you would be better getting on top and thrusting forward and back to get that stimulation or doggy style and you play with your clit. Buy a vibrator and really explore yourself down there. After a few times you will get to know what makes you cum. Good luck.
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