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writes:Heya!I've known a third year student (I'm second year) as an acquaintance for about a year but only recently have we been becoming friends. We're kind of in the stage between acquaintance and friend if that makes sense. I am very interested in her but am still unsure as to her feelings for me. We've spoken mostly on facebook, but this seemed to make me more interested in her. When I last spoke to her last Saturday, I found out enough to know that I want to go out with her. I don't have her mobile number as it has never really come up. The thing is, I can see myself having a really awesome friendship with this woman but I want to try for a relationship or at the very least a date to see if it would work. I'm not afraid to ask her out, i'm not even afraid if she says no. If she does then well, at least i'll know. I don't go funny over situations like that. I just need to know how best to ask her out?I usually like to ask a woman out in person but are other ways acceptable, such as messaging on facebook or other ways? Sorry, i'm probably being very dim here, but I want to ask her out in the best way possible if you know what I mean. Good first impressions and all that.P.S. Oh and I should also say that she's staying at uni until mid July except for when she goes on holiday in a month's time. I've had a relationship before where they've gone on holiday soon after dating but this hasn't affected a relationship.I hope this is enough!:-)
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reader, here_2_help +, writes (15 May 2007):
 you know what unless you ask you will never know go ask her out. but first find out if she has a b.f and get to the friend level first then you are abel to ask. and if it all gose wrong show her you are a big man and that it dont matter
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reader, loretta +, writes (15 May 2007):
 I personally think talking to a girl is better then a text or anything else! If you're really into this lass then ask her out! The worst she can say is no but if she does say no then explain that just because you feel this about her, that you dont want to lose her as a friend! if she says yes to going on a date with you then maybe she feels the same! Thats the best you can do! You dont get anywhere in life if you dont ask. Give it a shot and see how things go, she could like you and maybe she's feeling how you are now but if she doesn't want to go on a date with you then talk to her and tell her you still want to be mates! she will understand! i dont know if this will help but it could go either way! You dont know if you dont try! go for it! best of luck xxxxxxxx p.s: if she says yes to this date then make sure you be yourself and take her somewhere special!! x x x
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