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writes:im a virgin, and my boyfriend and i just started having sex about 3wks ago, and i did orgasm for a little the first time but we have done it 3 times since then and i cant seem to do it. he isnt very big, not sure exactly but when its hard its about 5in. he was a virgin too but when we had sex the first time, he said i was loose. but he said he liked it. but he also hasnt cum with me unless he was masturbating himself. i am do clueless on what to do...?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 February 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks
this definetly helped. ; )
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (11 February 2007):
 I apologise, I told you I would supply links and completely forgot. Here they are.
http://mama.indstate.edu/users/nizrael/grafenberg.html
http://www.aboutmasturbation.com/Article14.phtml
These should give you an abundance of information on the hows and whys of sex and how to feel good and make someone else feel good. Doc.
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (11 February 2007):
Part of sex is the exploration of each others bodies. Take it slow and use gentle touches as you will discover that even just the nerve endings in the finger tips can be arousing with a slow "tickling" touch as your finger tips slowly brush over his.These are some of the things that you will both discover over time. It may even do you some good to do some research on the different grafenberg spot or the "G-Spot" as it has been dubbed. This is an area in the anterior wall of the vagina which was discovered and researched by a German OB/GYN in 1944, by the name of Ernst Grafenberg. I have provided a couple of links to help with the exploration and will also give more information on the G-spot. You may also want to research information on the studies of Masters and Johnson. I have heard that sex is a selfish thing and you should take without regard to your partner. It is my personal advice that you do your best to satisfy your partner. If you both do this you will be going in the right direction and I am sure you will find enjoyment you never thought you could have.May things go well for you both. Doc.
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (10 February 2007):
 The best way is to give you a couple of links which SHOWS you the different ways you can have sex. Hope these help. Some of them are quite graphic so I hope you're not offended by them.
http://www.condoms.au.com/positions/positions.html
http://www.loversguide.com/sex_positions.0.html
I hope these help.
Eve
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reader, here_2_help +, writes (10 February 2007):
 ok here it goes. tell him what feels good and ask him do you want me to do anything for you. it sound like you need passion and to explore each other. my advice is to have fun play games. text him in the day an tell him what you are thinking about. have a bath with each other or a shower. and my top tip if thats how you want to put it have a time that is for just foreplay find out what makes him tick and him the same for you.hope this helps xx
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