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writes:Please I Really Need Help A Couple Of Months Ago i Met This Lad On Msn, Hes 16 And Lives In London Im 14 And Live In Manchester We Chat On Msn Talk On The Phone And Webcam Each Other So I Know He Is Who He Says. Everytime We Have Got Together As In Boyfriend And Girlfriend He Has Always Cheated On Me By The Form Of Sex [ We Havnt Even Kissed Yet We Havnt Even Met Yet] The Last Time I Finished It Was Becos his best female friend told me he was cheatin on me again that was about 2 weeks ago and ever since we broke up.Wheneva we speak whether its msn or on the phone he insists on telling me he loves me he wants me back and he misses me even when i tell him to stop saying it. I Feel like i love him to becos he is all im eva thinking about. last night i called him on the phone and he was at his best mates house with his best mate sister and her friend and his best m8 and we were chatting and then suddenly he sed i have to go and put the phone down so i was like ok thats weird.When i spoke to His best m8 today he sed [Person] Slept with my Sisters Friend last night so i was devastated cos i beleived Everything he told me about him loving me Even tho we werent together. and now he wont answer my calls wont reply to my txts or anything i dont no what to do cos hes messing with my head and i dont no if he means what he says about Loving me It Hurts Everytime he Says It Becose i Think i Love Him To what shud i do Please help me x
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reader, NuttyGooner +, writes (13 February 2007):
 Hello Lostheart, He is saying those things because he is an immature boy, and you are feeling that way because you are over analyzing things!He says he loves you, he then sleeps with someone else -"now he wont answer my calls wont reply to my txts or anything i dont no what to do cos hes messing with my head". It sounds like he has made his decision, and not being mature enough to give you an explaination kind of sums him up.He has got his kicks, and has left you high and dry - Forget about him, don't talk to him or his mate, it would just be tempting to ask more questions and for you to hear more details you don't need to know.I'm sorry if this isn't the asnwer you want to hear, but put it down to experience, and forget about this loser. You've got oodles of time to find "the one" - soon, you'll find someone who is really special and you will look back on this idiot and think "crikey, what was I playing at pining for this loser"?Good luck, sweetie!
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reader, LostHeart +, writes (10 February 2007):
LostHeart is verified as being by the original poster of the question I Didnt Choose To Get Caught up In It All, I Keep Trying to get out but i cant because i love him, And why would he say those things to me if he didnt mean them x? Thank you for your help it means alot to me
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2007): Dump him! He sounds like he is using you. He is not at all commited to you and does not feel what he says he does. You are too young to be caught up with someone like this. You deserve better.
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reader, LostHeart +, writes (10 February 2007):
LostHeart is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe Has Said He Wants To Meet Me, but its me whos abit weary as i cant trust him i dnt wanna fall inlove with him becos he hurts me Every Time Iv tryed not to love him and i cant my feelings are 2 strong. His best mate is really nice Although they are best mates he can still see my point of the argument, a reason why he isnt replyin to my txts or answering my calls thats goin thru my head is maybe hes ashamed of what he has done knowing that he loves me and slept with her but then again that could just be me trying to justify what he has done which i shudnt do! We are constantly arguing over the slightest things but then we both say sorry and get on with things maybe thats becose our personalitys are Too alike im Very Stubborn i will admit lol and so is he and here i go again justifying it. Its just so frustrating, they say you no when u have found the one but what if Your one and his one ar Totally Different..
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reader, here_2_help +, writes (10 February 2007):
 hey you by your age you should be out there having fun! ok you like this boy and he says he loves you but if he did love you wouldent he want to meet you or at least tell you why he is not replying leav him now. he has treated you like dirt to get his cheep thrills out of you and that has got to stop. you are at an age when the most important thing on your mind are friends and exsams and having fun.i am not saying that you should be happy all the time and this is clearly tearing you apart keep away from him. true love never dies and if he said he loves you and dosent reply to you then its not true love is it?hope this helps xx
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