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writes:Hi,My boyfriend, I love him. I dont want to lose him. He recently told me, he doesnt think the relationship is going well. That we dont see each other, that we dont hardly talk. I love him so much. I was getting angry... I asked him if he wanted to split up. He said no.Please help me keep him. We go to different schools. The only free time we have is the weekends. Should i just break up with him and get over it? Hes got more time for Parkour and Friends than he has for me.Really? Should i just tell him its over? I dont think i could handle it though.xx anonymousuicide xx
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reader, AskEve +, writes (10 February 2007):
 Sorry but I don't think you sound like a confident person at all. You have really low confidence and self esteem and need to build on this. Don't come across as so desperate and "needy" to your boyfriend. Guys like confident, assertive women so try and build up that confidence. Don't be so available for him and do your own thing from time to time. Let him MISS YOU.
If he has any feelings for you and you're not there then he'll call you, missing you you see. ;o) And if it ends up that he does finish with you...? Accept it and move on, it happens to everyone so don't worry about it and don't think it's anything personal. You have to kiss a lot of frogs before you meet your prince! ;o)
Here is a link for a test to check if you have low self esteem. Do the test and see what you need to work on.
http://www.selfesteem4women.com/index.php
Then have a look at the other link (below) and look at ways you can build your confidence up. There is some great advice here and it really isn't hard.
http://pickbrains.com/how-do-i-build-up-my-confidence
You can do anything you set your mind to, always remember that. Let me know how you get on and if you need any more help you can email me okay love?
Eve
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reader, cd206 +, writes (10 February 2007):
 Well as far as I can see he's told you what he thinks is wrong with your relationship which is, quite frankly an amazing advantage. You say you can't spend much time together because of the school thing. What about evenings and weekends? And as for the talking try and make time to speak every day in some way, even if it's only a quick text or email.
CD
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2007): He doesn't seem to be putting any effort into your relationship and seems to be more interested in the TV than you. Dump him. There's no point going out with someone who isn't bothered with a relationship. I know it's going to be hard moving on but you have to, for your own sake.
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reader, baby blue fairy +, writes (10 February 2007):
look u need to turn round an think of wot ure goin to do its not the end of the world u shouldnt feel like this u need to pick ureself up and dust ureself down, show him and I'm not meaning to sound patronising but maybe u should just talk to someone, a close m8, a member of your family maybe?It's up to you but chill out, there's more to life than boys! it sounds to me you can do better so what are you waiting? 4 best of luck!
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reader, here_2_help +, writes (10 February 2007):
 you know what? you sound like a strong confident person and you dont need him. he is holding you back you need to find a guy who thinks of you every moment of the day who thinks he is the luckiest guy in the world who every day he see's you its like a dream come true. true and real love is out there just waiting for you to find it now i would break up with this guy because you cant find mr. right when you are with mr.worng. go out with some girlfriends and no i am not saying that braking up with him will be easy it will hurt like hell but it sounds to me like you sould do a whole lot better.hope this helps xx
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