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writes:How long does it take to get over a broken heart?I am married and some years ago i had an affair. It ended after a few months. I was very sad for a long while but got over it. The affair was with a married man and was a "no strings" affair. Now many years on he has contacted me again. We were about to start up the affair again but he showed the same colours and has cut me dead once more. Although we didnt actually meet up (that was supposed to happen later this week) he backed off and when I pushed for an explanation as to whether he was just playing with me he ended all communication. I am devastated. Although it never got to a physical contact this time (fortunately I know) it doesnt make the pain any less. How do I get over this? I want so much to text him and say dont let it die we are so good together but the little bit of pride, self worth and just not wanting to beg is stopping me. I know I am doing the right thing but I am so desperately sad that this man has reduced me back to how I felt all those years ago. I miss his contact so much.
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reader, here_2_help +, writes (15 September 2008):
 You won't get over this no one ever gets over love but maby you are after some male attention? Look retospectavly at this and look at your thoughts why do you want him? What dose he provide that you do not have? I think you need the comfort of contact the new love the rush and exsitment. You may be able to relight old flames with yor husband talk to him about you bordom.
You must be a strong cnfident woman and you dont need this man and please remember that.
Hope this helps xxx
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