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I've never been with another woman before. Nervous about satisfying her, sexually.

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Question - (23 January 2008) 11 Answers - (Newest, 18 March 2008)
A female United States age 51-59, *elplessly into her writes:

i,m a female that has never been with a female before and now i have a girlfriend .the time for sex is so so very close and i have no idea how to satisfy her and realy don't wish to dissapoint her help me please i'm very afraid.

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A female reader, helplessly into her United States +, writes (14 February 2008):

helplessly into her is verified as being by the original poster of the question

i want to thank all of you who took the time to give advice to me,some of it was actually very helpfull i am very greatful to all concerned

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A female reader, helplessly into her United States +, writes (5 February 2008):

helplessly into her is verified as being by the original poster of the question

ok ya'll first i would like to thank all of those who took the time to respond to my question and try and help me - so,thanks.

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A female reader, LULU'S Advice United Kingdom +, writes (24 January 2008):

LULU'S Advice agony auntAsk her what she likes and don't be afraid to ask her to show you.This is all part of what makes a new relationship special. xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2008):

My first time with a women was similar to yours i'd only recently admitted i was a lesbian and my girlfriend was experienced. I told her the truth from the start and that made it easier, she didnt expect anything. She took the lead and to be honest it was easy, everything i knew i enjoyed (through masterbating) she did to!

I recommend www.nifty.com it has loads of stories that will help you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2008):

I've always wondered about this myself - you know - like who does what, with what and to whom?

I've heard that the 'scissors' position is a favoured one for mutual pleasure.

Any lesbians out there fancy enlightening me further?

Phil

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A female reader, howcomehoney France +, writes (24 January 2008):

howcomehoney agony auntDisagree with the poster below - whatever you do, don't look at porn! Lesbian porn is about the most unrealistic thing you can find! Does she know you've never been with a woman before?

Okay, relax. Kiss her, a lot. Caress her, kiss her neck, find out what she likes by watching her reactions. She likes it soft? Great, keep it soft, go down on her. She likes it hard? Swing her onto her hands and knees and... you know. Half the fun is finding out. You don't have to be nervous, just enjoy yourself. A woman's body is a beautiful thing, and it's a lot of fun to touch.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2008):

Hi Hunny,

Here 2 Help has a good answer, honesty is the best policy, She is probably just as nervous love, Just relax you no how you like to be treated so go along the same lines and take it from there, It will come naturaly when you both are comfortable. A nice night in with candles and a bottle of wine should improve both your senses and calm the situation down, Most of all relax enjoy your special moments and go with the flow sweetheart TAKE CARE WITH LOVE MANDY xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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A female reader, Laura1318 Malaysia +, writes (24 January 2008):

Laura1318 agony auntYou can look at some porn and have some idea what they do to satisfy each other.You can then be an instant expert. She may be as nervous as you . Just be calm and relax.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2008):

Don't worry so much. Just relax and be yourself. It will come. Read some dating tips here: http://www.attractwomen.com.au

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A female reader, here_2_help United Kingdom +, writes (23 January 2008):

here_2_help agony auntFirst of all you need to be honest with your partner and tell her that you have never been with a woman befor. You wont dissapoint her if things feel right you know if things are wrong and all yu have to do is be honest.

hope this helps xxx

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