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I have my suspicions...is this woman he claims to be his 'sister' really his wife?

Q.   I have a guy for almost one year who lives with a woman in a single room whom he claims that the lady is his sister. There is a long distance between where he stays. He has been to my place twice and I've been to his place twice. My first time i ...

A.   20 October 2011: Sweetheart, that woman is definately not his sister you would not sleep in the same room as your sister he has more to do with her than he's letting on and you need to leave him do what's best for you be happy with an honest person and be honest ... (read in full...)

Says he is not ready for a relationship then gets into one with a 19 year old....he is going to be 30!

Q.   I have been seeing this guy for about a year. He had to put a lot of work into getting me to go out with him. When we started dating, he was really romantic to me and very nice. He respected me and was really into me. He told me how beautiful I am ...

A.   24 April 2010: Hey this must be very hard for you with your problem on your shoulders but I think you need to move on and find a man who cares about you and doesnt care if you have a problem like that he will be there for you no matter what I think this other guy ... (read in full...)

Just to be sure I'm not pregnant...

Q.   I’m 19 and I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time…my period came about the 6 of April and I think I was ovulating about the 22. My question is that I did bleed a bit and I still am but light. We used a condom (it did not break) and he pull ...

A.   24 April 2010: Hi there I am Guardian Angel I can tell you that you are definately not pregnant for one you used a condom which is the best thing and he puled out b4 he came so there is no risk what so ever that you are pregnant no need to worry Yours Sincerely ... (read in full...)

My fiance wants me to make out with another woman while he watches!!!

Q.   hi my boyfriend, now my fiance, soon to be my husband wants me to make out with another woman and for him to watch.. he said he wont get close or get involve or get near her, he said to even tie him up to the bed or a chair and for him to just sit ...

A.   27 March 2010: Hi there I'm Guardian Angel, Many men have that as a fantasy but quite a few like to join in but you have to do what you feel comfortable with, tell him you will think about it even if you decide to say yes have the girl come round a few times ... (read in full...)

Is the love that I have for this wonderful girl wrong???

Q.   I am 18/male/A-town and I know a really attractive, cool, mature, and even cute/sexy (20/female/SD) that i would not mind kickin it with for a while whether it is day or night. I could care less what people think about us but there is only one ...

A.   24 October 2008: Hi I am Guardian Angel I read you question and didn't really understand it because I can't see what the problem is with you flirting with this is but if it is because she is one of your friends sisters that doesn't matter one little bit it's up to ... (read in full...)

I told myself that I would never mention marriage to him again, but at the same time, I don't really want to help pay for a house that is only in his name... what do I do here for the best?

Q.   I have been living w/ my boyfriend for 2 yrs. We have been renting. He is now working on getting a loan for a house (to buy) and we have started house hunting. He has been talking about putting the house in his name only. I don't really care for...

A.   4 October 2008: Hi I am Guardian Angel I will let you know now that you mother is right but there is that other problem to that if you split up he gets everything that's what my dad did he left my mum with everything in her name and now she has so much debt to pay ... (read in full...)

When is a woman too old to have a baby?

Q.   I'm speaking of age with everything being wonderful in the marriage and communication. Do you think having a child at 40 is crazy? Unsafe? ...

A.   12 September 2008: Hello The fact you want a baby at 40 isn't crazy but I would say stop trying for children at 45 because the older you get without having a baby the more complications you get because as you get older things stop working properly but if you want my ... (read in full...)

We found my best friend on a porn website, what should we do??

Q.   I honestly don't know what to do! Me and my boyfriend decided to look at some porn on the internet together to try it out and see whether it was fun or not. Whilst we were looking, we found a website for people to post pictures of themselves on it ...

A.   12 September 2008: Hi there I think you need to talk to her about this and find out if her boyfriend knows what she is up to it's not fair if she doesn't tell him he will be the one who gets hurt find out from her if he knows and tell her to stop this and also tell ... (read in full...)

What is the likelihood of me becoming pregnant from this episode?

Q.   Okay ... after searching the archives, I haven't found anything similar to what I want to ask ... So, last Tuesday (19th August), I gave my boyfriend a hand job in the shower. He came on my legs and belly, and my legs were closed. What is the like...

A.   24 August 2008: Hi There If He only came on your legs and belly there is absolutely no way you are pregnant to become pregnant you have to have sex and he needs to come inside you (IN YOU VAGINA) so his sperm can get to your womb. Best of Luck ... (read in full...)

I took precautions, but could I be pregnant?

Q.   Hey. Just needed some advice on something. I've had protected sex a couple of times in the last few weeks but I'm now late on my period by almost a week and I've had what feels like something hammering in my head for the last few days,I still have ...

A.   10 August 2008: Hi If you have had protected sex and you have used condoms you shouldn't be able to get pregnant it is impossible but if you meant to write unprotected then you might possibly be! Yours Sicerely Guardian Angel P.S Nee... (read in full...)

What do men really mean when they say they "can't be in a relationship"?

Q.   A question for men: What do you realy mean when you tell a woman you cant be in a "relationship"?...

A.   10 August 2008: It means That we are either married with a partner or most coommonly we have just split up from a bad relationship and not yet ready for another one Yours Sincerely Guardian Angel P.s Hope this helps and if you need anyt... (read in full...)

We were starting a relationship and he went back to his ex. Should I stay angry? Or should I move on?

Q.   This guy at work liked me and we were starting to develop something between us when his ex came along when she saw what was happening and he went back with her. This happened a few weeks ago and I'm finding it very difficult to be anywhere near ...

A.   10 August 2008: That's easy sweetheart just find another man for him to be juealous of maybe another person where you work and you could flirt with this other guy in front of him he will feel jealous and he will hate himself for letting you go Yours Si... (read in full...)

Can you have an STD if you're a virgin?

Q.   Is it possible to have an STD when you're a virgin? Beside crabs and scabies and such. Just curious......

A.   24 July 2008: Hi there I am Guardian Angel No it's not possible, STD stands for sexually Transmitted Disease which means you have to have sexual intercourse to get it {SEX) if you are wondering what sexual intercourse is. Yours Sincerely ... (read in full...)

How do I show I like him over MSN and a webcam?

Q.   ok I met a guy on Myspace and now we are having conersations over webcam :D I'm starting to have feelings for him . How can I show him he means alot to me over webcam and IM???...

A.   5 July 2008: Hi there Vegas Girl That is simple just write it on a peice of paper and show it to him through the camera maybe he will write the same back! Yours Sincerely Guardian Angel P.S Hope this helps need help with anything e... (read in full...)

What does "cute little fellow" mean?

Q.   I have a question for the ladies. What exactly does a girl mean when she calls you(a guy) a cute little fellow? I was described as such by a girl and she has refused to explain to me what she meant by that. What does it really mean?...

A.   5 July 2008: Hi My name is Guardian Angel Cute Little Fellow just means that you are a cute guy and she most probably didn't tell you what she meant because she most probably thought that it was funny that you didn't know what it meant. Yours Sincer... (read in full...)

My mum wont let me stay the night at my boyfriends!

Q.   how unfair is it to not let you'r 16 year old daughter stay at her boyfriends for one night? my mother wont trust me, even tho she was stayin over at my dads all the time when she was my age. she refuses me to stay over at my boyfriend. ho...

A.   27 June 2008: Hi There Dony I am Guardian Angel I do understand why your mum won't let you stay there it's not that she doesn't trust you it's the fact that you are only 16 and most people know what's gonna happen if you stay at his house you are going to sleep ... (read in full...)

I want to loose my virginity! Any advice?

Q.   k i really want to loose my viginity and i kiss my arm and pretend a boy is actually dare but how do i get a boy that is right they all call me ugly but i dont think i am and im hated off all the girls giv me sum advise plzz im 14 x...

A.   20 June 2008: Hi there Flirty I don't think that you should be having sex at all because you are way to young and it is against the law you could go to prison and so can the guy you have sex with do you really wan to do that to someone just to have sex you should ... (read in full...)

I have not told my mum that I started my periods and I've a school trip soon...

Q.   ok so i need a bit of understandment help, a few months ago i started my periods and i never told my mum, because i just couldnt say anything really. but i am going on a school trip soon which includes an overnight stay...she has got my washbag ...

A.   20 June 2008: Hi there I don't know whether your mum knows that you have started your period but I am sure it's about that time and she's most probably guessed sometimes when your on your period you can be moody and that's how she's most probably guessed just ... (read in full...)

When I go down on my girl she gets all wet and sticky!

Q.   This is quite disgusting, but however much I love my girlfriend very much - and so on and so forth, but everytime I go down on her this sticky foul stuff just comes out and it's eugh. I looked it up and I think it's discharge by why is there so ...

A.   19 June 2008: Hey hunni your telling me that your 18-21 in age and you don't know what that is I am a 17 year old female and I know what that is. It's your girlfriend's cum the same as a man does when he is being pleasured!! When you go down on your girl she ... (read in full...)

I hurt the love of my life badly, is there anything I can do to regain his trust?

Q.   I was in a relationship for almost 7 years, we broke up for over a year. During the year, I dated this guy for a couple of months, broke it off with him, called my ex of almost 7 years after a couple of months and he welcomed me with open arms. We...

A.   13 June 2008: Hi there I am your new Guardian Angel, When most people break up after being with someone for so long they usually go and find themselves someone else to look after them and they always usually get back with the one they left but not many of the ... (read in full...)

My wife is troubled by her stretch marks, what can she do?

Q.   This is a question for my wife.she has had 2 kids the youngest is 5. She had to have c sections with both. the problem is she has strech marks that she wants to get rid of. The c section scars are hiden but her belly is were the problem is. She is ...

A.   9 June 2008: Hello, there is nothing wrong with stretch marks most people get them after giving birth to children some get them before children such as myself there isn't really much you can do except wait for them to go on there own or buy some BIO OIL from a ... (read in full...)

What should I weigh?

Q.   Ok just wondering here. I'm 17, female and about 5 ft 4 - 5ft 5 ish i'm not to sure which. I'm just wondering do you know what the average weight is for someone of that age and height? Because from being about 14 i was about 9 stone and the doctors ...

A.   8 June 2008: Hi there nine and a half stone is not thin and it isn't fat you are the right size I am also 17 female and 5ft 4 and I weigh at least 13 stone but I am not bothered about my weight I have someone that loves me very much. Your tummy might be getting ... (read in full...)

Can I save our relationship??

Q.   Ive been with my boyf for 4 years today. We moved in together last Sept, and starting planning to build our house, discussed having a baby, getting married... we were so happy and content. About a month ago, he went quiet. He was working really long...

A.   25 May 2008: Hello TwinkleToes I am your new Guardian Angel if you have been together for four years and discussed marriage and children and now he wants to be single there is a big problem he says there is no one else I think he is lying to you swwetheart talk ... (read in full...)

Should I date my brother's friend?

Q.   I went to prom with my friend's brother. We hungout before and had a lot of fun. He's implied he wants more. We've played strip games, although I'm not a slut. He's had to show more so he keeps saying I owe it to him to lose. It's like our joke. ...

A.   25 May 2008: Hi there BellaChick I am your new Guardian Angel it doesn't matter if this guy is your friends brother or not if he hasn't got a girlfriend then go get him and be happy but if becasue he's your brother's friend bothers you so much talk to your ... (read in full...)

Could this long distance friendship be developing into something more?

Q.   This guy and I are being keeping in touch for quite some time now, like almost a year. We live far from each other, he's in the military and we met in a mission he was assigned while being in my state. We are both in relationships, and we are ...

A.   25 May 2008: Hello ok you may like this guy but I wouldn't leave your boyfriend for him, one because you will hurt him and you will regret it, two you will feel guilty for leaving him and three why leave your perfect partner for someone you will hardly ever see ... (read in full...)

How do people feel about flirting with someone who already has a partner?

Q.   How do people feel about flirting with someone who already has a partner? We are both in relationships but have not talked about our partners to each other before. I really like him a lot and can tell he likes me too. We only smile, stare, wink and ...

A.   25 May 2008: Hello I shouldn't think that would matter as long as his girlfriend is not one of your friends because that would hurt you in the long run and she may never forgive you but if you don't know her it won't be that bad yeah you might hurt her a little ... (read in full...)

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