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writes:hi my boyfriend, now my fiance, soon to be my husband wants me to make out with another woman and for him to watch.. he said he wont get close or get involve or get near her, he said to even tie him up to the bed or a chair and for him to just sit there cuz he enjoys just watching me being touched by another woman, he doesnt want to have threesome, he said only me and the other girl and he also said if i dont like it he would respect that but i know deep down he really wants me to do that and our sex is the greatest sex no doubt. He always says it and i love making love to him when it comes to having sex i am the wildest.. he enjoys so much even now that we are far away from each other he wants ot make love to over the phone or internet.. he really goes nuts for me even when we are having sex phone.. so he says to do this with another girl and he would watch us from his house with his web cam. so tell me what i should do?should i go for it and that means i have to find a girl cuz he said whoever i want. or should i tell him no?
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reader, YourDestiny11 +, writes (29 March 2010):
 Well u could try using ur brain...were not the ones doing it...do u want to or not. I think thats disgusting and disrespectful and sick for him to even ask u 2 do that.
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reader, eddie  +, writes (28 March 2010):
 I don't thin it is generally a great idea. On the other hand, if you're into that type of thing, it's OK. Only you know what "you" want to do. I don't think it's selfish of him to ask or think about it either. He has a right to his thoughts and desires. BUT...if you say NO, he has to drop it. If he drops it, that probably means he respects your wishes. If he insists. then he's selfish.
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (28 March 2010):
 Don't entertain his fantasy . It will be the greatest mistake in your life.
Your world will be turned upside down and it will never be the same again.
You will be saddled with tons of negative emotions and your life will be wretched and the trauma will be with you forever.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (27 March 2010):
 should i go for it and that means i have to find a girl cuz he said whoever i want. or should i tell him no?
What do you want to do? Do you fancy women?
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reader, GuardianAngel +, writes (27 March 2010):
 Hi there I'm Guardian Angel, Many men have that as a fantasy but quite a few like to join in but you have to do what you feel comfortable with, tell him you will think about it even if you decide to say yes have the girl come round a few times before get to know her and after that if you dont feel comfortable don't go throught with it I'm sure he'll understand if you don't want to. But I hope you come to a decision that's yours and don't do it just because he wants you to and you love him. To be honest I have never been asked to do something like that so I wouldn't know how your feeling but something like that is very hard to think about but think about it first Best of Luck Guardian Angel
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