Do I break up with her before or after valentines day?
Q. After much difficult deliberation, I think it is time I break up with my girlfriend. Or, at the very least, have a much needed "state of the union" conversation that will quite likely end in our breaking up. We've been living together for alm...
A. 5 February 2010: My ex broke up with me on Valentines Day by text. He said he got another girl pregnant and we were over... The thing is, there is never a good time to break up with someone and regardless of your intentions, it's still going to hurt. I think you ... (read in full...)
He threatened he'd stay in the rain, suicidal, so I invited him to my house where he continued his abuse, when I refused sex he said his ex was better, etc. Is this emotional blackmail?
Q. Hello there, I have been with my boyfriend for almost 16 months now. When i first met him he was a depressant after splitting up with his ex girlfriend, i helped him through it and he has been on and off them for some time know. He often says he ...
A. 24 September 2008: It's definitely emotional abuse. I've dealt with the a similar situation with my ex boyfriend. He sent me an IM on Christmas pretending to be someone else and said he had committed suicide because I broke up with him. It took three days for me to ... (read in full...)
My self esteem won't let me believe that this guy really likes me
Q. i have low self esteme and cant beleive this fella i like when he tels me he finds me really attractive. hes abit of a player and i dont know how to find out if hes telling the truth or not? any1 able to help?...
A. 9 July 2008: You should know this- guys vary on what they find attractive. They don't all date the exact same type of girl. Just go to the mall and look at the couples all around you. There's so many different combinations out there. You might think you're ... (read in full...)
Do some girls object to receiving oral sex
Q. is it true that some girls dont like being eaten out?...
A. 9 July 2008: I completely agree with starfairy- if a guy doesn't know what he's doing, then NO!! It's the most sensitive part of our body which some guys just don't get. I wasn't into it when I was younger, but I got comfortable in my own skin and able to tell ... (read in full...)
How can I tell my partner that its my time of the month??
Q. I am a very private and personal person. The dilema is that I'm not sure how to tell my lover when its that time of the month. I usually just avoid him for those few days but he's recently been away for a month and wants to be intimate but I ...
A. 1 July 2008: Lol my boyfriend and I have a code. I tell him "I'm riding the cotton pony" and he backs off. I usually don't have say anything though. I'm regular so he knows what time of month to leave me alone.... (read in full...)
Is this just cold feet or something more? I don't want to get married and regret it!
Q. Hi, I'm 21 years old, my fiance is 22, we are getting married in october of this year. we've been together for 2 years and known eachother for 6. I was very excited about our engagement but somehow in this past month, i've made very poor choices.. ...
A. 1 July 2008: I got married to a military man when I was your age- it didn't work out. My advice is to not go through with it if you're not ready. It's better to break an engagement than go through an expensive and painful divorce. I think you should wait until ... (read in full...)
Is 15 too young to fall in love?
Q. is 15 too young to fall in love? and to find the one you wanna spend the rest of your life with?..i know it would take lots of work and stuff but if you love the person you'll go through it all....
A. 1 July 2008: I don't believe 15 is too young to fall in love. That was how old I was the first time I fell in love. It lasted almost 8 years and I have no regrets. All relationships take work, but it's especially hard when you're younger. You'll both go through ... (read in full...)
We've had many fights...but I never expected it to turn out like this...!! Any advice appreciated
Q. My boyfriend and I got into a heated argument last night while he was drunk he snapped from being fine to screaming at me and calling me.a whore and all those other lovely names people call one another. He wanted to get up to leave I stood in the ...
A. 21 June 2008: I think he's leaving stuff deliberately because it gives him a reason to keep seeing you. He's probably scheming to get you back. He also knows it hurts you. Right now he has all the control and power. It's way for him to punish you for what ... (read in full...)
We've had many fights...but I never expected it to turn out like this...!! Any advice appreciated
Q. My boyfriend and I got into a heated argument last night while he was drunk he snapped from being fine to screaming at me and calling me.a whore and all those other lovely names people call one another. He wanted to get up to leave I stood in the ...
A. 16 June 2008: First of all you admit your boyfriend emotionally abuses you. That's never okay and there's never an excuse for it. To make the situation worse, he physically put his hands on you. Maybe it's just a one time thing, but maybe it's not. Do you really ... (read in full...)
What could I do to convince him that dating me wouldn't be a horrible idea?
Q. Dear Cupid, Ive gone on a few dates with this one guy, that i like very much. For my birthday yesterday he took me out to the movies. He kissed me and then decided to tell me he cant date me. He talked about not wanting things to go wrong, because ...
A. 16 June 2008: First off, I would be asking him why his friends/parents wouldn't approve of you. Have they ever actually met you? Have you done something that would make them not respect you? Are you someone he should really be ashamed of?
Do you really want to ... (read in full...)
Why aren't you men wooing us any more?
Q. Hi Me and my friend (female, both around 30) were talking about courtship. We both are a little old-fashioned und we both agreed that it should be the man pursusing the woman of his heart. But why are men so passive? We came to the coclusion th...
A. 3 April 2008: I don't want to stereotype, but wonder if there's a cultural difference. I live in the South where things are still very old fashioned. I'm use to the southern gentleman. I expect a man to open the car door for me because that's how I was raised. ... (read in full...)
How can I make my GF climax without clit stimulation, just penetration?
Q. Is there any way that i can make my girlfried come without clit stimulation and just penitration?...
A. 2 April 2008: My boyfriend does slow, deep thrusts missionary style and I always have a orgasm that way. Of course foreplay helps. By the time we get to it, I'm so turned on!... (read in full...)
Caught in a marriage, and caught in an affair, what should I do?
Q. I got married a month after I turned 18. No one knew. It was a secret, until I got married in church when I turned 19. We moved out of California across the way to Maryland. I left all family and friends behind because he was to be stationed ...
A. 2 April 2008: The thing about men is that they aren't mind readers. If something is bothering you, you have to be woman enough to tell him. Running around behind his back isn't the answer to your problem. How would you feel if you found out your husband was ... (read in full...)
He made me "do it" and I wasn't ready...
Q. dear cupids. I've got a real problem! I'm in a bad situation but I feel like I've caused it myself :S I have been *seeing* this guy, (a friend of my brother) who is aged 18, for 9 months, I am 15, 16 in May, and he is my *first love*, he's ...
A. 2 April 2008: You're boyfriend is an ass. You lost your virginity in a bathroom which shows he has absolutely no respect for you. He used guilt and pressure to get you to do something you weren't ready for. Sweetie don't ever do anything you don't want to do, ... (read in full...)
I need advice with my relationship with married guy and my developing jealousy of his family life?
Q. i have been dating with a married man. I love him very much and he said he loved me very much too. we meet at least twice a week . either we went out for lunch on lunch break of one hour or one weekend evenings. at the beginning i thought we were ...
A. 2 April 2008: In these situations, the longer the relationship goes on, the more likely you are to get hurt because you become emotionally attached. Unfortunately you're the one in the position of getting hurt right now. I personally think it would be best for ... (read in full...)
What do you consider cheating?
Q. Say a girl is engaged, still in college, while her fiancee is 300 miles away. She dates another boy on pretty much a regular bases. She makes out with the other boy and even does it while spending the night in his bed wih him, no sex, but wearing ...
A. 1 April 2008: She's cheating! Besides, how would she feel if her fiance was doing the same thing she was? She needs to get everything out of her system before settling down. I feel bad for her man. He deserves more.... (read in full...)
I have a problem with my boyfriend watching porn.
Q. I have a problem with my boyfriend watching porn. I just get really jealous. Is this normal or am I just being paranoid???? Should I just let him watch it??? ...
A. 30 March 2008: I use to be the same exact way, but managed to get over it. I felt insecure about it and I didn't want him thinking of anyone in a sexual manner. Then I realized it was a double standard because I drooled over Colin Farell and imagined doing dirty ... (read in full...)
I want to know if there any proven method of increasing penis size.
Q. I am a 20 year old male in good shape and healthy. But I have a small penis! It measures 5 inches when its erect, and when it isnt its about 2 inches. I've only had sex a couple times, and with this last girl I dated she refused to have sex with ...
A. 30 March 2008: Just wanted you to know that girl is an idiot for breaking up with you over penis size. That's the equivalent of breaking up with a girl for not being a D cup. Anyways... size doesn't matter...at least not to me. I've had all different sizes and the ... (read in full...)
Why would he cheat with me if he was really happy with his girlfriend?
Q. I have this friend. (we'll call him jon) I met jon a few days ago while hanging with friends after school. he flirted with me and I flirted with him. he asked for my number and gave me his. that afternoon jon started texting me. he told me he li...
A. 30 March 2008: If this guy is soooo happy with his girlfriend, he wouldn't be talking to you on the side. There's obviously some part of his relationship that he's not satisfied with. He's probably bored. Most guys will take advantage of any opportunity to get any ... (read in full...)
I received an irate message awakening my previous suspicions about my husband's friendship with his (also married) colleague.
Q. I have been married for a year and a half, and my huband goes to college about 30 mins from where we live. About 2 months ago, I noticed he seemed to be making and receiving quite a few phone calls and text messages from a female classmate, ...
A. 30 March 2008: Hmmm... from personal experience, keep your guard up. I ignored all the warning signs and that resulted in a messy divorce because of infidelity. Don't take anything for granted. Let him know how you feel about the situation and hopefully your issue ... (read in full...)
When you get your "cherry popped" is there a lot of blood?
Q. i am 13 and i didnt get my first period yet, but i want to have sex so when my cherry pops will alot of blood come out because i didnt have my first period yet?...
A. 27 March 2008: From personal experience, I didn't bleed.
Sex is a HUGE responsibility and your virginity is something you can never get back. If you decide to go through with it, use protection and make sure it's with someone you really care about. However I woul... (read in full...)
His ex sends graphic naked pictures to him- up close & personal! How should I react?
Q. My BF and I have been dating for 4 months. He has TWO ex wives. His son is from his first. She cheated on him and is now married to the one she cheated with years ago. She has been sending him naked (and graphic) pics of her body...(yes all of ...
A. 27 March 2008: He's WRONG. You're underreacting. He's using the pics as revenge tactics? Sounds like bull to me. If that's true, maybe he's not really over her. Why would he try to get back at her if he's really moved on? As a female I'm mad. If my boyfriend had ... (read in full...)
How can I make "missionary style" more wild?
Q. when i am having sex with my guy and he's on top, i feel like i am just laying there. what could i do to stir things up? i am new to this and im not sure about girl on top either .. do i move up and down on him or does he do it?...
A. 27 March 2008: During missionary, wrap your legs around his waist, dig your nails into his back, and bite his shoulder. Making out is always fun too. It makes things more intense.
Girl on top is always fun. Starting off, you can be in control and put in as much ... (read in full...)
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