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writes:Is there any way that i can make my girlfried come without clit stimulation and just penitration? Reply to this Question
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (2 April 2008):
 Danielpew and Tisha-1 are both right that the majority of women need and want more than intercourse alone to reach orgasm. But very often, if you will orally or manually stimulate a woman to one or more orgasms first, she will orgasm again with intercourse. Much of the pleasure many men enjoy is bringing their woman through a thoroughly satisfying session of sex that leaves them totally relaxed and spent. One of the greatest achievements in the world, wouldn't you agree?
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reader, GeorgiaGirl84 +, writes (2 April 2008):
 My boyfriend does slow, deep thrusts missionary style and I always have a orgasm that way. Of course foreplay helps. By the time we get to it, I'm so turned on!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (2 April 2008):
 Hi, I hope this helps you a little bit. I think the number of women who climax through intercourse alone is about one in three, so two-thirds of women need more than just straight intercourse for orgasm.
Think of her clitoris as a kind of little penis, with similar sensations and stimulus requirements. Would you be able to orgasm if only your testicles were being stimulated, and your penis was not touched at all? I rather doubt men would find that satisfying in any way, but then I have not conducted any kind of research along those lines!
I know that there is a famed G-spot in the vagina which if properly stimulated can bring on orgasm, but I've heard that it actually may be a deep root of the clitoris, so we're back to clitoral stimulation.
Danielepew is correct, the important thing is her pleasure, as well as yours, and how you get there is just part of the fun. Don't beat yourself up if she can't climax through intercourse alone, and certainly don't blame her. It's just how we're built as individuals.
Hope this helps.
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (2 April 2008):
 There is, but I think that the most important part here is that she climaxes, no matter how. Many women say that they don't (usually) climax on penetration alone.
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