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anonymous
writes:i have low self esteme and cant beleive this fella i like when he tels me he finds me really attractive. hes abit of a player and i dont know how to find out if hes telling the truth or not? any1 able to help?
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reader, GeorgiaGirl84  +, writes (9 July 2008):
 You should know this- guys vary on what they find attractive. They don't all date the exact same type of girl. Just go to the mall and look at the couples all around you. There's so many different combinations out there. You might think you're unattractive, but I guarantee there's someone out there who thinks you are beautiful just the way you are. That guy will be the one who tells you that every day, not because he has to, but because he knows it's true. I say just take it slow and see what happens. Life is about risk. As Marilyn Monroe said, "A wise girl kisses but doesn't love, listens but doesn't believe, and leaves before she is left." So have fun and take it slow. You never know what will happen.
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reader, starfairy +, writes (9 July 2008):
 I've found that when someone has low self esteem, a guy who is a player is the least best person for them to go for...It's almost like setting yourself up for disapointment, because he hasn't got the rep as a player through sitting at home playing tiddleywinks with his granny!
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): List all your favorite features down, or ask your best mates what they score you on for attractiveness.
Or ask his mates whether he speaks about you a lot and ask them if they think you're attractive.
Also if he glances other at you or stares at you that is a sure give away. :)
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