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writes:i have been dating with a married man. I love him very much and he said he loved me very much too. we meet at least twice a week . either we went out for lunch on lunch break of one hour or one weekend evenings. at the beginning i thought we were just friends and i would not want him to divorce. however, gradually , i fall for him deep and deep. we telephone to each other everyday. he even bought a cell just to call me. he said his wife did not like intamacy with him and busy working. he managed all the house work. He had two children and the youngest daughter is 17. he loved his daughter so much and takes her to school back and forth everyday. i thought i could handle it at the beginning but now it has been 8 months now. i started to get jealous when he was with his family.i do not know what to do . i do not want to leave him but i know there is no future of us. he would not divorce for me at all. he really loves me but i know he would not divorce. pls help me and give me some advice.
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reader, GeorgiaGirl84 +, writes (2 April 2008):
 In these situations, the longer the relationship goes on, the more likely you are to get hurt because you become emotionally attached. Unfortunately you're the one in the position of getting hurt right now. I personally think it would be best for everyone if you ended things. You deserve more. You said it yourself- he won't leave his wife and you don't have a future together. You should consider your feelings as well as his family. It would hurt them a lot if they ever found out. I don't think you would want that on your conscience.
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