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reader, anonymous, writes (22 August 2011): I'm a woman & I absolutely love receiving oral sex! It's the only way that I can orgasm. Sex just doesn't finish me. It feels good but not great. & it's not because my man has small equipment. I actually think smaller feels better than larger anyhow. I also like giving oral sex.
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reader, jjjs77  +, writes (24 April 2010):
I absolutely dispise receiving & giving oral sex. I know a lot of men have said that maybe they just weren't doing it right. Pleeeeeease, I am 51 yrs. of age & have had my share of partners through the years & not one of them made a difference. It's just not my thing. Never has been, never will In fact I hate it more & more all the time. It does absolutely nothing for me. I'm sorry but I think that any man that thinks they can please a women best this way has to be lacking in size. How sad. Sorry to be so brutally honest but the bigger the penis the better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2009): I orgasm very very easily and very very well off of a man's wand alone. Multiple, mind-blowing orgasms that make me cry in joy. Oral is absolutely too ticklish so that it is unbearably unpleasant. I feel like I can't breathe and my limbs go numb and I almost pass out - and not in a good way. It's overstimulating. I actually like to give head if I like the guy but I can't stand it back. I feel like a man looks like a dog eating out of a dog bowl and it absolutely disgusts me. Eww.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2008): Some girls (like me) just get absolutely nothing out of it. You could practice 'til the cows come home, or have the best technique in the world, but when it comes right down to it, I just don't like it.
I think for me, it's more psychological than anything; not that I feel bad about my body, but the mere thought of receiving oral just completely turns me off. Giving, however, is a whole different story. ;)
And, being bisexual, I would give oral to a girlfriend if she wanted it, but I have no desire whatsoever to receive.
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reader, xhailofbulletsx  +, writes (10 November 2008):
 I love receiving it! I objected to the idea of it at first, but when my boyfriend assured me I would like it, I decided to give it a try. He loves doing it, and he is really good at it.
But, as others have said, it's only good if the guy knows what he's doing
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reader, fullyloaded  +, writes (27 October 2008):
Oh, God! I absolutely LOVE to receive oral sex, but the guy has to know what he's doing or yes you feel nothing! when he does know what he's doing he can send a girl over the fence! It's heavenly! I think my being a fan of oral sex since my begining was because my then boyfriend did it to me on my first time and I have been like this ever since, I couldn't understand a girl who doesn't like oral sex!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 July 2008): I Agree I think many women or girls are different and have there diffrent takes on how they feel. Some people tht hav already replied to you have said that they love giving it but don't like recieving it. Honestly, me I love recieving it because I find it very pleasurable but I don't find giving oral sex very pleasureable but i do like making my partner feel good so in the even I'd do it because It gets him in the mood to actually have sex.
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reader, Mushgirl  +, writes (11 July 2008):
 I ain't fussy myself. My current boyfriend used to almost bite me down there (which is a definate NO) but he's improving! I got to admit it left me a lil nervous :S
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (9 July 2008):
 Oh dear, I love giving noral sex but I was in the unfortunate position of going out with a girl who hated it. She hated the fact that it brought her to orgasm ( she hated to lose control )...you are bringing back bad memories.. :)
Fortunatley my current partner absolutely lovess it....
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reader, baybee-x-sparkii +, writes (9 July 2008):
 That is true. I completely refused it before my current boyfriend... I now love it :)
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reader, Sugarbuns +, writes (9 July 2008):
 Yes some women have hang ups about it. It feels dirty, or they are embarrassed, or worried about how they smell or taste. The list goes on.
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reader, GeorgiaGirl84 +, writes (9 July 2008):
 I completely agree with starfairy- if a guy doesn't know what he's doing, then NO!! It's the most sensitive part of our body which some guys just don't get. I wasn't into it when I was younger, but I got comfortable in my own skin and able to tell my man what I wanted and how I wanted it. Now it's fantastic and a part of our routine. Everyone should try it at least once
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): The reason I don't like getting oral sex is b/c I hate giving it so I feel like eliminating it altogether is the best solution.
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reader, starfairy +, writes (9 July 2008):
 I love it. But the guy really has to know what he's doing, or to be honest, I feel nothing. But I think this is really where communication comes into it - you have to tell someone what feels good and where sometimes!
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reader, O Connor  +, writes (9 July 2008):
 well i have no problem with it!! but i was never comfortable with it until my current boyf, and thats cos were together so long and he's my first love so i guess im myself with him.
some girls dont like it though, so i guess everyone is different!!
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reader, alwaysndforever +, writes (9 July 2008):
totally true. i dont really like it...irs pretty awkward and doesnt really feel AMAZING its arite thow..if i were u i would totally ask before going down on a girl or just dont unless they tell you too cuz a lot of us rele would rather that not happen
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (9 July 2008):
 It's true for me!
I don't get anything out of it at ALL. Not to mention, I'm a little ticklish and hate to be tickled. The whole experience is just dreadful for me. I love giving oral sex, but I DEFINITELY pass on receiving. Several of my girlfriends have shared my sentiments and they also get a little skeeved out with some guy up in their hoo-hah.
We're all different, my sweet!
xx India
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): NOT ONE of any of my amigas have ever said they don't like oral sex. I had one friend who told her boyfriend that she didn't like oral sec because she just wasn't comfortable with her body 5 years later she is still with the same guy and she regrets it.
Talk to her and see why. Maybe she really doesn't like it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 July 2008): Yus, a lot of girls don't feel comfortable with it.
They prefer to give oral sex than receive.
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