Is it good or bad that my friends are so protective of me?
Q. Heyy my friends have recently become very protective of me because i was used by this guy which really upset me. The other day the guy who used me came and talked to me and they were very quick to be stop him, one of them was being nasty to him ...
A. 19 April 2011: Hi sorry ! didnt realise it was complicated to read.
Basically my friends are being very protective of me,when this guy who didnt treat me very nicely is around.
Will this mean he is likely to avoid me in the future or will he see it as a chal... (read in full...)
I fell for a girl but I don't think she likes me in the same way
Q. I fell for a girl recently and have been trying as hard as I can to get her to like me back. Were seeing each other next week but I always get the sense she only sees me as a friend. Also I think she likes another person, they seem to flirt almost ...
A. 19 April 2011: Tell her ! she might like you back :)
You never know ... If she doesnt you can move on with out this uncertainty. Facebook flirting is nothing its what happens in real life that counts ! good luck ... (read in full...)
What do the men look for in a woman? Do they only want sex?
Q. Question for guys Its a pretty simple one but you see i am finding it hard to find a guy who wants me for me . Only want me for sex really im not nasty at all or ugly... Broad question for you all What do guys look for in a woman ?...
A. 13 April 2011: I do tend to hang around with players , but they still go out with people so its not all about sex with them :/ Maybe its like you said that my flirting technique is all wrong i will have to look up on how to take the suggestiveness out of it ... (read in full...)
What do the men look for in a woman? Do they only want sex?
Q. Question for guys Its a pretty simple one but you see i am finding it hard to find a guy who wants me for me . Only want me for sex really im not nasty at all or ugly... Broad question for you all What do guys look for in a woman ?...
A. 13 April 2011: I do tend to hang around with players , but they still go out with people so its not all about sex with them :/ Maybe its like you said that my flirting technique is all wrong i will have to look up on how to take the suggestiveness out of it ... (read in full...)
I can't ask him straight out. Is there another way you can tell if they're interested?
Q. Hi , I have this problem i like this guy and i think he likes me, we have had a thing in the past so i know him quite well! although we have drifted and only come back into contact recently. He's shy when it comes to liking girls and is not very ...
A. 3 April 2011: Just an update on the situation we met up ( not just us two ! like us and some friends) and he was quite touchy feely with one of my friends just like he would hold her arms over the table , i always thought he had a thing for her :/ . However after ... (read in full...)
Major Friendship Problem
Q. The easiest way to say this, is that I am having a major friendship problem. The person I used to think was my very best friend and we'd be friends till the end is now getting on my last nerve and I am about finished with her. I don't know what to ...
A. 20 March 2011: Well if you dont want to hang around with her but cant stand the thought of falling out with her just faze her out. This way she will get the oppertunity to find other friends and you will eventually not be her main group anymore. This is where ... (read in full...)
I've missed my chance with her, I feel terrible, so what now?
Q. So this is a bit of a new thing for me. I don't normally go asking for advice, but I defiantly feel like I need some help on this one. So here goes There's this girl I went to high school with. We liked each other for years but never really did...
A. 20 March 2011: You should keep in contact with her ! but not so much contact you get to the point when she doesn't text you that day you are worried. Just casually occasionally meeting us just so you don't loose contact all together because at the end of the day ... (read in full...)
What to do? how is a guy supposed to behave with his first girlfriend?
Q. Dear Cupid, I am 13 years old and I have recently got my first girlfriend, so obviously I am very new to this, so I don't know what to do next. What do I do first? Do I hug her? Hold her hand? And how do I do either of those things w...
A. 20 March 2011: Just go with the flow! if you want to kiss her kiss her, if you want to hold her hand hold her hand :) I think your worrying about this too much just live in the moment , the more you worry your less likely to have fun
Good luck... (read in full...)
He's confusing me, what should I do??
Q. dear cupid Their this guy that i like and hes mad at me. I told my ex friend that i liked him and that hes really hot. That hes got swagger for days. she twisted my words and told him that i said i had his phone number and he was harassing me. At f...
A. 20 March 2011: You need to cut your ex friend out completely ! don't listen to anything she says because she could be twisting his words to, maybe she jealous.
Secondly you need to tell this guy about the lies she has been spreading and have no idea what his mixe... (read in full...)
Spoilt for choice! Which girl should I ask out?
Q. I am stuck between to girls I care for. I know the both like me and that I could ask either of them out. Problem is I don't know which one to ask out. One girl is my ex girlfriend who I've been having new feelings for one which I think is love the ...
A. 19 March 2011: Your last relationship didnt work for a reason i think its easy to remember the good things that happend with your ex but you must always remember why you broke up in the first place , also you maybe mistaken love for old feelings coming back ! Go ... (read in full...)
Is and why is my ex girl friend playing games? Or what?
Q. Basically...my gf of 12 months spilt up with me and got a bf within 3 weeks after the break up...mutual friends assure me that she didn't cheat... This week I went to see my mates who live in the same town as my ex and 3 different girls ...
A. 19 March 2011: Shes not over you ! Shes playing the jelous card, making out she has the perfect boyfriend who she loves so you are jelous and wish you were with her. When you could get her with a click of your fingers .
If you like her go for it , if not just leav... (read in full...)
Is it unreasonable for me to skip the birthday party if his ex is invited?
Q. I'm 20 and have been with my boyfriend just over half a year. Just over a year ago, he broke up with his current girlfriend of about 4 years because he says he didn't have feelings for her for the last 2 years of their relationship and just stayed ...
A. 19 March 2011: I think you are being very reasonable ! That is not on good friend of his brothers or not. She is obviosly a big problem, he needs to sort his prioritys out and his brother needs to see that this is a big issue and needs to choose out of his ... (read in full...)
How can I show him he hasn't got a hold on me anymore?
Q. Theres this guy who used me, he seems to think that he can come back to me whenever he feels like it ! Which im not going to lie he can, i really like him. The problem is i dont want him to think i am there for him whenever he wants, i want him to ...
A. 19 March 2011: I think for the long run its for the best ! i need to find someone whos not going to treat me that way, he is not that guy obviosly Thankyou for all of your advice its been very useful ! I will just have to cut him out completely , it will be hard ... (read in full...)
Is there anything else I can do or do you all just think I'm crazy and wasting my time?
Q. Alright, so this girl and I have been.."talking" for the past 4 months. we're actually pretty serious about it all though. We met and things were great. We were great friends. Then things started getting a little more serious and we liked each ...
A. 18 March 2011: Dont throw it away ! you arnt wasting your time at all. Talk to her express how you are feeling and see if she has any of the same feelings for you . If not express how much you miss her company and even if it isnt more than friends you are willing ... (read in full...)
Does the old boyfriend deserve another chance? Or should I go for the new man despite the fact that my sister was in a relationship with him and is unhappy about "us' together now...?
Q. I had been in a relationship for 5 years. He was wonderful,charming,sensitive,everything a woman could want. He was my best friend. A year before we got together he had lost his young wife to a health problem and was devastated.After 5 years,he ...
A. 18 March 2011: No man is worth falling out with your sister . He also mentally abused her, i would probably give her some support and stay away if i was you. Being with him is like throwing it back in her face. Give the old guy a chance it would be great if you ... (read in full...)
Why does my mum want to meet my BF?
Q. I have 4 months with my b.f and I just turn 18 and his my sister cousin male they all know him but not so well my mum says if I want to go out with my b.f I have to bring him for my mum to meet him but she talks with my b.f mother but still she ...
A. 18 March 2011: Because why would she not want to meet him ! Its normal you go out with someone they meet the parents. Also she is probably woundering 'what is wrong with this guy if i am not allowed to meet him?' Go for it they might get on like a house on fire... (read in full...)
I like him, but he's unsure of his feelings; I want a relationship, but he wants us to be Friends with Benefits. What do I do now??
Q. Hello, everyone. I am really confused about my feelings for my best friend and was hoping maybe you guys would help me. We became really good friends when we started university together. At first I didnt like him, just as good friends. When we ...
A. 18 March 2011: Heyy I think by reading this it sounds so simple maybe you havent realised. But you said you wear a purity ring is that where you dont hae sex until your married? You see if it is thats the problem he probably really likes you alot however sex is a ... (read in full...)
Feelings for my co-star have made me question my marriage bound relationship. Help!
Q. I'm an actress and I should know better but I've fallen for my co-star. We have incredible chemistry both on and off set. I'm not single and have been with my boyfriend for a couple of years - we've spoken of marriage and being together 'foreve...
A. 18 March 2011: In every relationship people fancy other people ! its just how the world works . Dont do anything hasty like annalisa said take time to know this actor properly you may find you have no interest in him at all.
As for getting married, if your doub... (read in full...)
Girls: why do you get emotional about sex???
Q. Why do girls act like they hate all boys, when they themselves know that the guys they are choosing to be with are known to only use girls for their bodies? This is a question i've been wondering for a while. Girls want sex more than guys. Period. ...
A. 18 March 2011: Alot im not saying all . but a lot of players use emotion to get sex ie saying how much they like them and how pretty they are etc etc so i dont know what they expect really ! if you dont want emotional sex dont bring it into it in the first place. ... (read in full...)
'veiny' looking marks make me shy about showing my body
Q. i have these wierd veiney lines along my hips...i dont know what a boy would think of them. i dont wont to have sex yet, but i'm pretty sure that they'll still be there when i do. im just so afraid of what he will think of me....
A. 18 March 2011: I have loads of stretch marks, no guy i have been with has ever noticed and even if they did they obviosly didnt care . dont worry at all ! :) ... (read in full...)
Only 5 days left to ask work colleague out but I'm shy!! Please help!!
Q. Hi all, I have just recently found myself attracted to a colleague I have worked with for around 2 years, a few weeks after realising this we were told he has been given a really short amount of notice to leave, I have battled with the idea of tell...
A. 13 March 2011: Just tell him ! You only have five days left whats to loose. The worst thing that could happen is that he says hes not interested but hes leaving soon so there wont be any embarrasing after effects ! However he could be interested and glad you toon ... (read in full...)
Secrets...???
Q. Alright so, i'm asking on behalf of my best friend, she has a boyfriend and they're very close. They were friends beforehand and they've been going out for just over a month. Anyway the issue is that he has told her some of his secrets and he's...
A. 25 February 2011: Thats why she should not tell him ! If hes preasuring her thats not a good sign at all, if he was a good trustworthy boyfriend he should wait until she feels ready to tell him, its a big secret
Hope this helps :)... (read in full...)
Is there a problem here or am I over-reacting in the situation??
Q. I feel confused and very very jealous and the sad part is I never consider me the jealous type. This feeling of insecurity happened a few months ago when a couple of picutres were tagged on my facebook by a friend that they thought were a little ...
A. 25 February 2011: I know this sounds horrible but why dont you guilt them into the truth ! its the best way to do it without falling out with your sister and husband , you could start with your sister just saying how much you miss him being at work all the time and ... (read in full...)
It started out promising, what happened?
Q. My friends and I go to the same bar every weekend. After several months of attending, one of the bartenders and I hit it off. He took my number, started texting every day (non-stop), called, asked me out and things looked promising. We went on a ...
A. 25 February 2011: It just sounds like he is very confused about where you are at eg.. the guy friend and the text about not being the girl who leaves the bar with him
Why dont you take the iniative and ask him out! then you will know if he wants to go out with you ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend doesn't make me feel beautiful
Q. My boyfriend does not make me feel beautiful at all. So get this, I'm 5'4, thin, busty, olive skin and I have long black hair. Girls and guys tell me all the time that I'm beautiful and hot. I used to feel so secure but now I feel ugly all the ...
A. 25 February 2011: Heyy No offense but He sounds awful, i cant believe hes doing this to you ! especially when you could easily be getting attention from other people who will make you feel
appreciated. Why dont you bring it up with him and see what he says, mayb... (read in full...)
What birth control do you use and why?
Q. Birth Control... I'm a virgin, have no desire to get BF yet and I am happy to finish living my childhood for the time being as I know when it's gone I'll miss just been young. But i see alot Qs about BC (birth control) and I'm just curious re...
A. 25 February 2011: Im getting the implant, its the safest form of birth control ! Its a small tube they put in your arm and you can either have a really good reaction to it and your periods stop or it can have a bad effect and you can bleed all the time in that case ... (read in full...)
My small boobs are killing my relationships!
Q. Okay I have really big problems with my relationships.. I have very small boobs between size AA and A (not very sure). When I meet a guys who I like, Im scared to let them get close to me. Often guys asking me out and saying that im nice person.....
A. 25 February 2011: Hey Let me just say i was the total oposite to you ! i have huge boobs and was very depressed by them , so we have something in common
The thing i learned after time with guys is that it doesnt matter about the size of your boobs at all. If that... (read in full...)
School love triangle - what to do?
Q. what do you do when your best friend likes the same guy that you do and she says that i can go out with him and then goes back on her word but the guy likes me more then he does her? thank you for all your answers in advance....
A. 18 January 2011: Firstly you need to find out how much she likes him because if she likes him a lot you could seriosly hurt her feelings and if she doesnt like him alot you could explain how much you and this guy like each other and she might understand.
H... (read in full...)
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