Should I still go on seeing this man?
Q. I am recently widowed and have bumped into a man I met about 30 years ago who is also single and an OAP like me. The problem is I do not trust him, we have been going out together for about 18 month now and we have become intimate. He likes ball...
A. 26 June 2015: I think you deserve better than this. There are surely tons of men out there who could offer something more extraordinary than this!
He seems to be a player seeing many women at once and getting what he wants from them.
Move on! You're wasting ... (read in full...)
I've never had any true friends
Q. I'm feeling a little bummed out and have come to the realization that I never really had any true friends. I'm a bit of a pushover, so I was always the friend that they used when they were bored or had no one else in their life, and then got dumped ...
A. 5 February 2011: I'm experiencing it just now. It has been really hard. I've made new friends and i've got a bestfriend who is also my boyfriend but the people who i thought were my friends before ended up being my worst enemies, idk why that happened. Sometimes i ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is gay but our relationship is a secret, what should I do?
Q. Hi I'm 14 and i have just got my first boyfriend. He is bi and I am gay. I have already come out to all my friends but he hasn't. I don't want our relationship to be a secret but at the same time I think that we will get a lot of shit when we go ...
A. 3 February 2011: Give him time. I'm pretty sure it's not easy to tell the world you're gay but it has to happen sooner or later. Support him and encourage him to come out to everyone but don't push him because maybe it was easy for you to tell the world you are gay ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend flirts with other women right in front of me!
Q. My boyfriend is a huge flirt.. he tends to flirt even in my face.. I have told him but he keeps on.. help!...
A. 3 February 2011: It's obvious he's trying to get your attention. Guys do that for many reasons as to feel themselves more manly, to test you and know if you really like them or just to piss you off. If he sees you stop caring about him doing that he'll stop.... (read in full...)
I've met "The One"... but it's complicated!
Q. So i've meet the one. Really the one i dreamed all my life. The girl of my dreams. But was a complicated relationchip and she started taking antidepressives with only 20 years age. At a year and a half she brokes up with me, and after a month of no ...
A. 3 February 2011: The girl of your life? Um. The girl of your life shouldn't treat you like she does, it's obvious she doesn't care about you as much as you care about her. It's hard when we fall deeply for someone then it's too late when we realize they don't feel ... (read in full...)
Guy in need of answer!
Q. I don't really know how to start off this "question" but i'll get straight to it..... since i have been little i have had a far from simple life i got bullied all the way through primary school for my weight parents always argued and nearly broke up ...
A. 3 February 2011: I think you have to find a motivation for your life deep in you there must be something that motivates you to keep going and that eventually makes you happy. It can be your baby, or a dream you wanna persuit. We all have felt like you're feeling ... (read in full...)
What's the right thing to do? Tell someone I think I might be depressed? Or keep it a secret. I keep wanting to sleep all the time.
Q. I have begun to sleep all of the time. I wake up at 8 and then go to school. I come back home, and go to sleep around 4 and wake up at 8 and over and over and over again. Also I started to stop eating very much. it's not like i just want to los...
A. 2 February 2011: Hey. I completely understand how you feel. I've felt the same before back in 2007 right after my grandma passed away, all my friends got against me for no apparent reason and i was completely lonely. I was so sad and all i wanted to do is sleeping ... (read in full...)
I don't think they should get married AT ALL. What should I do? Bite my tongue or tell her the truth?
Q. Hey everyone! I need some advice. One of my girl friends is dating a total jerk! They've been together for 4 years, from ages 14-18. She always tells me about all the bad/stupid things he has done. I've been around them, and honestly I don't think ...
A. 2 February 2011: honestly there's no much you can do. I've been there before, and i ended up seen as the bad character of the story. I tried to help my friend open her eyes and see the kind of man her boyfriend was before getting engaged. She ended up being mad at ... (read in full...)
I can't masturbate unless I think of penis... and I'm male! Why is this?
Q. I am straight and male, but i cant masturbate unless I'm thinking about penis. Outside of masturbation, I love girls no guys at all, but when I maturbate that is all I think about. Why?...
A. 2 February 2011: There's nothing to worry about if you think about a penis when masturbating, it'd be probably weird if you thought of men having sex or grabbing each other's penises. I think its natural to think about our same sex body parts, unless that's the only ... (read in full...)
I said I'd propose, but I'm not ready!
Q. I've been with my girlfriend for over a year now in a long distance relationship. There's about a 700km distance between us but we still manage to see each other nearly every month. Ever since we started going out, she's brought up engagement an...
A. 2 February 2011: I don't think marriage can be seen as 'something to show to her friends & family'. Marriage is the biggest commitment you can have to someone, it's just probably one of the most important decisions you'll ever make so you just can't propose someone ... (read in full...)
Are men really ok with small perfect breasts?
Q. my boyfriend is a boob guy.. i know that he loves boobs,..big boobs especially. Im about 34b. i lost a lot of weight and lost most of my breasts( i was 180lbs now im 125). they are perky, he tells me he loves my boobs but always comment's on boobs ...
A. 30 January 2011: How did u even lose that much weight? WOW! Congrats! ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend called me fat and that is destroying our relationship
Q. Hi everyone. This is my situation... I've been dating this guy 'L' for almost 10 months, we've been friends for two years and I'm very in love with him. He says he loves me and I believe it because he has proven me he does love me. Our relation...
A. 28 December 2010: Thanks everyone! I made up my mind, I decided to stick with him because I love him and I don't think this is a good reason to end the most wonderful relationship I've had so far. This will just make us stronger, I believe that.
I talked to him abou... (read in full...)
Boyfriend being cold and distant, is it related to stress?
Q. Hi everyone, thanks for taking time to read my question. Ok, so um I need help like urgently. The best relationship I ever had is about to collapse and I want to do something before it's too late. Here's the situation, I've been seeing this gu...
A. 29 September 2010: Thank you for your help. I think I'll give him some time off... (read in full...)
I feel awful for cheating but cant stop thinking about this other guy. What do I do?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost one and a half years. I love him but hes needy and doesnt have many friends and no family so im the only one hes got. Hes very jealous and quite possessive but im very independant and have my own life. I have ...
A. 19 September 2010: I was in your situation before, this guy also gave me what my boyfriend didn't, if you put them together to make an only man, he would be the most perfect thing in the universe lol
but unfortunately it wasn't possible, and I had to make a deci... (read in full...)
My interracial relationship does not go over well with my parents!
Q. the guy i love is black and i am white and my parents are completely against it.not only that he just had a baby girl by his exgirlriend.i love him with all my heart.its just hard dealing with everything.what should i do??...
A. 19 September 2010: You should follow your feelings. It's your life, not your parents. And YOU are responsible for your own happiness, if you really love this person don't let your parents or anyone stops you from being happy.
It's not about what your parents ... (read in full...)
Will I find an honest man?
Q. I am 56 and thinking about getting a divorce, is it hard to find and honest man?...
A. 19 September 2010: It's not exactly hard, but not impossible. If you are not entirely satisfied and happy with your current relationship, you should move on. Life is just once and if you don't live it happiness, you may regret sometime.
If you feel you've done eno... (read in full...)
My teacher is creeping me out!
Q. Ok, im just a little confused. One of the teachers at our school acts really weird around me. He just sees me in the hallway, stops me and starts asking questions about my life. When i walk past him in the hallway he says hey really weird to the ...
A. 19 September 2010: I think you should talk to your parents about this.
If any of your teachers attitudes make you feel uncomfortable i think the best solution is sorting it out.
You could also talk to him to let him know you don't like some of his attitude... (read in full...)
Losing weight...
Q. This isn't a relationship problem but I really need some advice, please! It's about my weight. I was absolutely disgusted with my appearance and determined to lose some weight, so I signed up for a gym. I've been faithful to the gym and I've see...
A. 18 September 2010: Hi. Gyms in Mexico aren't really expensive, they are like from 250 pesos (25 usd app) to 850 (85 usd) thats the average price per month.
Don't worry about going to Mexico, yeah it's having a big time of violence and murders but it's not like they... (read in full...)
Even although I'm now married I still can't stop thinking about her...
Q. I'm 36. 10 years back I fell in love with a girl. I expressed myself but unfortunately, she said she is already involved wth someone. I thought then its not my case and I should simply leave it. But it didnt happen. I'm not able to forget at all. I ...
A. 17 September 2010: Um maybe you're just obsessed with her, it can become a serious problem. You've tried to move on but that just hasn't worked, after 10 years you can't get her out of your head yet.
We all have one love from the past we will never forget, but its ... (read in full...)
The rumors say we are dating but we aren't, but I'd like to be!
Q. i like a guy who is my good friend... we both go home together after schoool. So we talk about lots of stuffs and then he said me that in school lots of friends tease us saying you both( i and he) should be couple.. And in school there is all rumour ...
A. 17 September 2010: Yeah i think you should take the chance of telling him what your feelings for him are. I'ts somewhat 'risky' yeah but on the other hand there's a big chance he feels the same way about you since it doesnt bother him what the other people say, it's ... (read in full...)
Should I be mad at him for his behavior?
Q. I live with my bf and his parents. Recently I was sick for two days and my bf had those two days off. His friends came over on those days and he spent the entire time with them in the living room playing games and pool. He only came to our room to ...
A. 17 September 2010: Yeah, you have more than one reason to be mad at him.
He might not be interested in you anymore, sounds like he's found more interesting stuff to do, he treats you like one of his toys. Tell him to grow up, it's really not fair he treats you like... (read in full...)
Single and not happy about it
Q. My problem is simple really, I'm lovesick, I just don't know what to do about it, I've been single for a year now and I just don't know what to do, I know it's a long time from now but I'm sick of spending Valentines day alone, it's been 3 years ...
A. 17 September 2010: Maybe you havent found the right person yet. Just don't give up trying.
You really sound like a very mature guy, so that's a good start.
And about the bad things in your life, you probably wish some things were different, but you are still young an... (read in full...)
I only see my life with him and he broke things off
Q. I am 20 weeks pregnant, the father is the love of my life for the past 6 years. We are pregnant with our second child. 5 days after finding out I was pregnant he phoned home to say " he did not want to come home anymore". We have been in therapy, ...
A. 17 September 2010: I personally haven't gone through anything like that but I've known people who have been going thru something like that; friends of mine, and cousins.
First of all, are you still in love with him? You know sometimes it is bigger the fear of bein... (read in full...)
I'm finding it difficult to climax and it's doing my head in!
Q. ok so i'm really embarrassed about this but i need some peace of mind. the problem is that i find it really difficult to orgasm during sex. i know it's not impossible because it has happened, but it's when i've been doing all the work and i feel ...
A. 17 September 2010: I think you shouldn't focus that much on reaching the orgasm because it happens that you are too concentrated just looking forward for it to come that you don't really enjoy the sex itself so it kinda provokes your body and mind don't get connected ... (read in full...)
Dating one boy but in love with another!
Q. For 7 months this boy has been in love with me and when i found out 4 months later he loved me i found myself in love with him. we could never go out though as i was afraid of what people thought(as he isn't the most popular boy or the best ...
A. 16 September 2010: I think you shouldn't care he's not the best looking guy, that's pretty selfish and um stupid because you are letting go someone you could be happy with also it's a real waste of time to be with someone you don't love. it's not fair for them ... (read in full...)
I want my mom to know I'm a lesbian!
Q. In 8th grade i came out to my mother and told her i was bisexual from that point on she just ignored the facts even tho i was open about being bi with my friends and at school..Ive never brought a girl home to my mother because i knew she didnt like ...
A. 15 September 2010: Since she's your 'best friend' it may be easy, well not really easy but it would be worse if you and her were distant.
Ive got some question for you, aren't you bisexual anymore? just lesbian? Anyway, just try to explain her that you like only wome... (read in full...)
25 and have never had a serious girlfriend
Q. I am 25 years old and I have never had a serious girlfriend in my life. I have dated quite a bit but it's usually just one date and it never gets anywhere beyond that. They usually stop talking to me, even if the date went really well and we had a ...
A. 15 September 2010: I don't think it's always gonna be that way for you. I know how you feel, it feels like you're gonna be alone for the rest of your life, it's some kind of hopeless feeling but it's not gonna be like this forever.
I can't tell you exactly why this... (read in full...)
Have I just wasted 3 years of my life?
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for three years, which is a very long time because I'm only young. I love him to pieces but I don't know if I want to stay with him. He isn't very romantic and has never treated me, we have never been out for ...
A. 15 September 2010: I think you should tell him you are tired of the way he treats you and that you're looking for something different, if he really loves you as much as you love him he might try to change or do his best to treat you better (like you deserve). And if ... (read in full...)
My friends became my worst enemies in a blink of an eye!
Q. First of all, I have to say 'my friends' betrayed me or I don't know what do you call this... I have some big issue with them, they barely talk to me, they are mean and indifferent to me. The thing is I don't know how this happened, we wer...
A. 14 September 2010: I don't know why, but for some reason I feel guilty about this happening. It could be me who's wrong or I'm just not spending as much time with them as I used to, but now I have my boyfriend it's all different, no one of them has a boyfriend.
I... (read in full...)
My heart says not to end this buy my head says I should? interracial relationship
Q. I am a white male, live and have lived in a mainly white suburb all my life, and most of my associations have been with others of my race. We are a pretty liberal family and I have always been raised that everyone is equal, but that being said our ...
A. 14 September 2010: I don't think you should end this. I know it's complicated, especially you being white and she being afroamerican, I kinda have the same problem, but here the thing is I'm latin and my boyfriend is white. Reading your question was like reading my ... (read in full...)
My heart says not to end this buy my head says I should? interracial relationship
Q. I am a white male, live and have lived in a mainly white suburb all my life, and most of my associations have been with others of my race. We are a pretty liberal family and I have always been raised that everyone is equal, but that being said our ...
A. 14 September 2010: I don't think you should end this. I know it's complicated, especially you being white and she being afroamerican, I kinda have the same problem, but here the thing is I'm latin and my boyfriend is white. Reading your question was like reading my ... (read in full...)
What else can I try to get rid of these stretchmarks?
Q. I have really bad strech marks on the backs of my legs, thighs, hips, bum and breasts, what can i do to get rid of them? I've tried loads :( please help...
A. 13 September 2010: My aunt got them all over her stomach after 2 pregnancies and she uses some fresh smashed grapes, she just rubs the smashed grapes all over the stomach. I can tell it works cause ive seen it myself and yeah they are less visible. I guess grapes must ... (read in full...)
Am I too attached to my boyfriend?
Q. Hi. There's something, I don't know if that's a problem but I'm extremely attached to my boyfriend but in a very exaggerated way. We are together like 12 hr a day everyday, he wants to be with me all the time and I want to be with him too, w...
A. 5 August 2010: thank u so much for your help! i think im not quitting then or i'll think it well.... (read in full...)
How do I cope with conflicting emotions while continuing to support him
Q. I am dating a great guy I met at work. We have known each other for almost two years and been dating for six months. Over these months I've gotten to know him much better and we have gotten quite close. However, we've had to go through some dif...
A. 20 July 2010: It won't be easy. You both have been through alot of bad stuff. It sounds like he hasn't recovered from his father's loss yet and its completely understable, so now your relationship is like falling apart or at least that's how it feels cause you ... (read in full...)
Again? But I don't trust him.
Q. Okay so, Recently I was in a relationship with this guy, and me and him were also practically best friends and got really close, but he dumped me because he liked this other girl who I'm also friends with and know, and apparently she dumped him like ...
A. 20 July 2010: Oh girl. I think you should give him a second chance, maybe the first try wasnt good and a second one could be better. I know you feel confused cause of how he treated you before but I believe people can change. For some reason you are seeing hi... (read in full...)
I cheated, I feel badly but I'm glad the secret is finally out
Q. I've being in a relationship with someone for three years. And recently, I was caught cheating on this person. I feel terrible, I feel like a scum bag for betraying this person's trust. I really love the life we had together, the companionship, and ...
A. 20 July 2010: Yeah, cheating sucks! especially afterwards. I've cheated on my bf and it really feels bad afterwards. I wished I never did it, he doesn't know anything about that and I think he never will.. I think I will just let it go and I decided I won't do... (read in full...)
Catholic n muslim relationship
Q. Am in love with a muslim girl.we have been datin for 2 years now and we are very compatible.I love her as a muslim and will never want to convert her but she says as much as her heart wants me her mind is comited to the family.part of her family ...
A. 20 July 2010: That's complicated. Muslims are like very commited to their beliefs and family, for them it is very important what their families think, i dont know if thats good or bad but thats how they are. As long as i knew muslim women can't marry men from... (read in full...)
What can I do to kick start my life?
Q. Ok so I dont know how to really put this but im male, 17, rather intelligent and not the worst looking but not the best :S basically my childhood sucked. i used to live with my great grandmother and my brother. my great grandma died and me and ...
A. 19 July 2010: hey Um sounds like life hasnt treated you so well. I know things may look dark at this point, im 17 too. But let me tell you something, life always gives a second chance to everyone. Our past couldve been like the worst thing ever but sooner or... (read in full...)
Friends with benefits... good???
Q. Dear Cupid... whats one good thing about being friends with benefits (without sex) and one bad thing about it ?? To me the good thing is that he can develop feelings for you but the bad thing is he can be using you which i know is not true believe ...
A. 18 July 2010: Hey
first of all i doubt too much a friends with benefits thing could lead into a good relationship though im not saying its impossible.
Friends with benefits are ok when you want nothing serious, cause if you did you would start a serioyus rel... (read in full...)
Do I have jealousy issues?
Q. Do I have jealousy issues? So I'm a guy and I'm going out with S, my boyfriend, for a month now. S is bisexual and you couldn't even tell that he's into guys. In fact, he makes fun of gay people. But anyways, he's really nice and all that. When w...
A. 18 July 2010: Um i think its normal to feel jealous, its like a natural reaction when you feel like attacked but maybe you should talk to him about this to tell him that this situation makes you upset but if you think you are going further with your jealousy then ... (read in full...)
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