My husband does not appear to be sexually interested in me.
Q. My husband and I have been married for 5 years. The biggest issue in our marriage has always been sex. He just doesn't act that into me. I'm not overweight and most men find me attractive. When I ask him, he says he finds me attractive, yet he ...
A. 20 April 2010: hi, can i suggest you something? i may be blaming you for this. looks like like you have every qualities. but did you try to understand what exactly your husband likes in a mate when it comes to matter of sex. 1. beauty is one factor. 2. how you ... (read in full...)
My fantasies, wont somebody support it?
Q. I have lot of fantasies, many wild fantasies, but I enjoy it. I tell this to my wife too and she does not complain. Some of my fantasies involve me with some of my close female relatives. Having a threesome or foursome including me and my wife wit...
A. 18 April 2010: i am grateful to you all.
nobody did blame me. what i was looking for what women feel about my kind of guy. the suggestions are fantastic.
i put my question in the right place.
i love my wife and sorry for the pain that i caused her.
at thi... (read in full...)
Role playing...
Q. can you help us by suggesting role playing ideas! me and my wife are looking for some. some thing that is not off a filthy porn style, but of a nice fantasy....
A. 17 January 2010: nice ideas... (read in full...)
I often have fantasies, but my wife wont join in!
Q. i have lot of fantasies. some is against my wife's wish. i want to get some opinion. i fantasy that my wife flirts with somebody else too. when on a trip i told her to expose little bit to our friend who was with us. i enjoyed when i saw he was look...
A. 17 January 2010: non judgemental and very sensible suggestions... i have got friends here. thank you for all of you. especially for the "anonymous".... (read in full...)
Pregnant to another man...
Q. I'm a married woman, and have been married for 8 years. I love me husband and see him as the man I will get old with. He's my best friend. My future is with him as emotionally we just 'click'. Sexually we are very compatible too. He satisfies ...
A. 16 January 2010: nothing to judge. things happened. you cannot change it. let the fatherhood be a secret.
for your better future you can count this: stop this extra marital affair. i think u r going for it because you can a=enjoy something in it, some thing diff... (read in full...)
Will experimenting with rough sex...change our relationship in a negative way?
Q. My girlfriend and I have a very loving relationship. We care for each other greatly, and I respect her so much. We have done some minor BDSM and slave things but she recently told me that she wants more. She wants me to be really rough on her, ...
A. 16 January 2010: playing is ok. but the crying and not to console part is weird. thats what my opinion is.... (read in full...)
Colour of manhood...
Q. I am brown in color. My penis is of almost my skin color. My wife tells that a guy's manhood's color should be pretty dark/black and mine is different. is this a fact?...
A. 16 January 2010: we read this. when many people assures, it is a clear statement.
"SirenaBlusera" you amaze me by telling about the bend and exactly to the left. how do u guess that?... (read in full...)
Do I leave husband & kids for a 20 year old?
Q. I am 35 and have been married for 7 years now, and have three children. My marriage has been a rocky ride up to now. My problem is that I have fallen in love with a 20 year old. He is a student an doesn't work yet. We are such good friends,we do as ...
A. 31 December 2009: you have every liberty to live your life.
between just think in this way too.
you told - you are not happy with your husband.
next - you are so happy about this young guy.
please understand, no body is happy to the ultimate. it's diffi... (read in full...)
I love my boyfriend but I fancy his best friend!!!
Q. im in a relationship with a boy i really like but.... before i got with this boy i got to know his best friend first and now i think im falling him, i dont know why and i dont understand why i really want to stop liking his best friend but how d...
A. 15 December 2009: this could be your age when you may have all these mixed feelings. you may wait for an answer from yourself to find out with whom you have to be. please always remember not to give pain to your friends. deal without pain. from here i am unable to ... (read in full...)
I want to encourage my wife to have more sex!
Q. i am very interested in sex, talking about sex, trying different things .... my wife too enjoys it a lot. but not always. she gets into mood only once in a while. actually there were occasions where she was over powering me, this happens only som...
A. 13 December 2009: absolute thanks for all. relatively the best suggestion i feel is from "Angzw". this give some ways to think.
between, she did not have complete sex with my younger brother. they used to play around. kind of much more than flirting. they used to s... (read in full...)
I feel like I am cheating my ex when I am interested in other boys
Q. So my last boyfriend and i broke up about 2 months ago and now him and i are really good friends. we get along and were still kindof flirty but its all fun. him me and my other girl friend are really close and we always hang out. the problem is that ...
A. 13 December 2009: you are going thru an age where you may feel all these things. let things go on or think of having anyone at a time.
or if you are interested in multiple boys tell it to your bf otherwise it will be cheating.... (read in full...)
Could this be incest? or our imagination?
Q. >my wife told that she saw some thing at her home some times back. once she stayed at her maternal aunt's house, and she observed that her aunt and aunt's son are very close that mother changes in front of son and some times son enters moms ...
A. 7 December 2009: thanks for all suggestions!
i for got to mention one thing, that she had parted with her husband and raising her kids alone.
actually in the big family there is a talk that she is misguiding her son.... (read in full...)
My sister sent him naked photos, how do I get over this and him?
Q. A year ago my bf lied about being home one evening. Something told me he was lying I went to his apartment stood in the middle of it and called him. I asked what we was doing he said cleaning his apartment. Needless to say I got back with him. I ...
A. 26 November 2009: interestingly my comments got attention.
i cannot argue. and there is nothing to argue and win.
but still want to say some points.
a. does breaking up solves everything?
b. if the woman who suffered is a brave character is brave and intelligent ... (read in full...)
How do I give him directions?
Q. I recently had sex with my boyfriend. He's kind of on the smaller side. I know I can't really change his size (unfortunately). So I was wondering how I can increase the pleasure I get and what type of things would help him hit the spot better. ...
A. 25 November 2009: i think you are telling about the his sex organ's size!
if so, if it is too small that you are not getting it to the pleasure point then ask him for oral/fingering.
verify with a doctor about his size.... (read in full...)
My sister sent him naked photos, how do I get over this and him?
Q. A year ago my bf lied about being home one evening. Something told me he was lying I went to his apartment stood in the middle of it and called him. I asked what we was doing he said cleaning his apartment. Needless to say I got back with him. I ...
A. 25 November 2009: there must be something tricky here. but use your good woman in you and get your bf back. know your womanly powers, he may be laking something from your attention. or may be he is an kind if person who want to feel sex in new/different passions. any ... (read in full...)
Am I in love with my uncle's wife or is this just an obsession?
Q. dear cupid I'm 20 years old and I have a big crush on my uncle's wife she is 32, their marriage is not that great and I hear them argue on the phone a lot ,they have one child together, she has a doughter from a past relationship, my aunt and I ...
A. 24 November 2009: honestly, cann't you take it just as a fun and leave.
looks like you are wishing for a love life and taking your uncle's wife for yourself.
this may not end up good. playing around is not much a problem. your age is a consideration. she may also... (read in full...)
Would his erection problem be okay, if he was with someone else?
Q. Is it possible,that my husband can cure his erectile dysfunction with a new relationship? I mean is there any chance if someone can't have a normal erection and losing it when inside, but has no medical reasons for 5 years. My husband and me are ...
A. 24 November 2009: there is one good way. you be a new woman and try.
i just mean to make your life a brand new style.
change your bedroom, change the place, and every possible way you try it out. sometimes you can try it in your kitchen.
make t spicy... n spicy... (read in full...)
Buying a bikini in India - advice wanted!
Q. can any body please help me with some doubts. this is not about relationship. but this can help energizing a relationship. my wife would prefer to buy a bikini. basically we want to go for a swim on a beach. we don't know what how to select an...
A. 24 November 2009: hi that was a nice one. but no reply.... (read in full...)
Could this be incest? or our imagination?
Q. >my wife told that she saw some thing at her home some times back. once she stayed at her maternal aunt's house, and she observed that her aunt and aunt's son are very close that mother changes in front of son and some times son enters moms ...
A. 24 November 2009: we wish to think in marie's line. thanks.
we felt a little embarrassed when somebody else mentioned it. that is why all the concern. basically we have to leave them to live their life, that's correct.
and personally i do not feel incest in a bod th... (read in full...)
Buying a bikini in India - advice wanted!
Q. can any body please help me with some doubts. this is not about relationship. but this can help energizing a relationship. my wife would prefer to buy a bikini. basically we want to go for a swim on a beach. we don't know what how to select an...
A. 23 November 2009: what exactly we are looking at is what are the types and varieties that we can go for.... (read in full...)
How can I stop having these wrong feelings for my sister?
Q. i have a serious problem. In the last 5 months or so, i dont know how... but i always accidentally end up watching my 15 year old sister naked. many a times its changing clothes, or her coming out of bathroom. we have adjacent rooms, so it inc...
A. 23 November 2009: nothing to worry about. that is your sister and nothing wrong in seeing her naked or half naked. it is just normal.
and your age just adds to it to have sexual feelings.
if you leave things without much notice you will get immune to those feelings... (read in full...)
I like my sister in law in a sexual way! Please help!
Q. this is about my sister in law. we are quite friendly. we used to talk many things and are free to talk anything. first place i love her as my sister and i have respect for her. she is elder to my wife and me. many times i saw that she kind of expos...
A. 23 November 2009: tisha's comment seems valid. working on it. results are relaxing. the prime fact is that, i have some people, here, to speak.... (read in full...)
Could this be incest? or our imagination?
Q. >my wife told that she saw some thing at her home some times back. once she stayed at her maternal aunt's house, and she observed that her aunt and aunt's son are very close that mother changes in front of son and some times son enters moms ...
A. 23 November 2009: marieclaire,
you seem to be correct. but i am not clear about the under arm hair part.
do you mean to say that it is not a sexual behavior to get such help from son. this is just reading thru the lines. i did not get it.
these were some of the... (read in full...)
Could this be incest? or our imagination?
Q. >my wife told that she saw some thing at her home some times back. once she stayed at her maternal aunt's house, and she observed that her aunt and aunt's son are very close that mother changes in front of son and some times son enters moms ...
A. 23 November 2009: what we thought of is, whether we have to point to her aunt about this as inappropriate.
but your points also seems good. and we cannot quite judge by all these signs. may be they are very open and in correct relations.
but there are several ... (read in full...)
I had a one night stand with my cousin!
Q. hello, there is no one else i can talk to about what im going to tell. what ive done is illegal and could get me into alot of trouble, here is my story. okay so my cousin moved in with me my brother and my mom at the be...
A. 22 November 2009: hmmmm, i think you feel guilty, which could be normal.
i don't know which part of the world you are from. think about the possibility to get married with him.
i don't know about the law in your country.
for me, it was love. and you both feel co... (read in full...)
Buying a bikini in India - advice wanted!
Q. can any body please help me with some doubts. this is not about relationship. but this can help energizing a relationship. my wife would prefer to buy a bikini. basically we want to go for a swim on a beach. we don't know what how to select an...
A. 21 November 2009: hi katyayni,
we will go to the shop. i was not asking about fitting but the variety and availability.
these are things that we saw only in movies or in channels. so to start with we required advices....
and we are bit ashamed of speaking in t... (read in full...)
Buying a bikini in India - advice wanted!
Q. can any body please help me with some doubts. this is not about relationship. but this can help energizing a relationship. my wife would prefer to buy a bikini. basically we want to go for a swim on a beach. we don't know what how to select an...
A. 21 November 2009: thanks for all who helped. first point i was not sure where to look for. my wife has suggested it.
we live in delhi and planning to go to goa. I believe visiting shoppers stop could help.
we actually are looking for a different style.. a sort of ... (read in full...)
Foreskin always retracted, is this normal?
Q. I am not circumcised. I am bit curious to know my condition. My penis' foreskin is always retracted regardless of erect or not. From articles and friends i know that foreskin retracts only when it is erect. Mine was normal i think till i was 17. Is ...
A. 6 November 2009: is there no other opinion on this.....
i wonder why? but i cannot demand for it....
anyhow thanks for all... (read in full...)
I had sexual experiances with my aunt!
Q. it is long time back when i was a teen i used to get lot of sexual urges to ,my aunt. she was not a super beauty. we used to stay in the same house. i remember it started after when i noticed that she, when such a situation occurred, kept her brea...
A. 26 October 2009: start ligths,
i was lil pained to hearing the suggestion - 'How do you know your aunt has not done the same technique with other nephews/ men?'. sorry.
i understand what starlights told. but if she enjoyed, i am readt to accept it.
i now want to ... (read in full...)
My cousin wants to have sex again! What should I do?
Q. I whent to see my cousain yesterday me and her realy like each other and we've had sex before safe sex ofcouse but she won'ts us to have it again and I don't no what to say should I or should I not plzz help me ...
A. 22 October 2009: you both speak each other and try to understand things. there are complications involved in sex inside family members. and if possible keep away.... (read in full...)
I had sexual experiances with my aunt!
Q. it is long time back when i was a teen i used to get lot of sexual urges to ,my aunt. she was not a super beauty. we used to stay in the same house. i remember it started after when i noticed that she, when such a situation occurred, kept her brea...
A. 22 October 2009: hi all who delivered good advices,
i didnot know that she was misusing me. in my perspective i was bad. i believe i misbehaved to my fathers sister.
i never used to think from her sexual feel perspective.
as suggested i have serious doubts about... (read in full...)
Is this relationship between cousins wrong and how do I tell my parents?
Q. Ok I know this may sound weird but I'm in a relationship with my second cousin twice removed. We only met recently and had no interaction as children and our families aren't very close. I really like him and he likes me. He's told his family about ...
A. 18 September 2009: difficult to answer, but suggestions are there.
1. understand yourself
2.understand you both.
3.about your parents? how are your parents? we dont know whether they will accept.
4. to present the matter to your parents, you may tactically prese... (read in full...)
How can I show her I don't mind sharing her with my brother?
Q. Hi friends, There is some thing happened in our life. Mine and my wife's. My brother came and stayed with us for 3 months. He was 19 and my wife was 22. She once told me that he is playing around and in a tricky way, as if happens accidentally ...
A. 16 September 2009: hi, they had it.
so when in a good mood if she tells we will describe more about it. now i am helping her to feel easy.
thanks... (read in full...)
How can I show her I don't mind sharing her with my brother?
Q. Hi friends, There is some thing happened in our life. Mine and my wife's. My brother came and stayed with us for 3 months. He was 19 and my wife was 22. She once told me that he is playing around and in a tricky way, as if happens accidentally ...
A. 12 September 2009: all,
things are going good at our end also.
she was telling that if things are going like this way she may give up for a penetration also.
it makes me even joyful.
need she sit and talk with my brother about his consent?
as things are ... (read in full...)
How do you give a blowjob and a handjob?
Q. ok so i want to give my boyfriend head but im really nervous like what if i bite him by accident and what if he dont like it and also i want to give him a hand job nut i have no ideal will someone please tell me how to give a bj and hj ?? please...
A. 12 September 2009: hi, "what if i bite him by accident" - is a funny question. it is like can i walk in the town, what if i be hit by a car.... if you never talked about it between you, either you can talk or once when you both get a private time together you can... (read in full...)
I heard Mom and Dad having sex and now I'm disgusted! How can I deal with this?
Q. i need some help on this one well one night i was lying in my bed and I heard my mum and dad having sex i then felt really sick looking at them the next day i felt disgusted with them. is it normal to feel this way towards them Im to scared to talk ...
A. 11 September 2009: you should be happy that they do love each other. on hearing their noise. if you feel it ok, just good. or if you feel not ok, then take measures not to let sound reaching your room.
don't be embarassed. from your side allow them a lot of priv... (read in full...)
I am attracted to my aunt and I want to have sex with her! What do you think?
Q. My aunt is 42 and she's hot and very beautiful. We have a good relationship. We have never been totally alone, but we talk all the time when we see each other. I have noticed 2 times when she looks at me, she looks at me with a sexy-look, and w...
A. 11 September 2009: Bomopu gave a fantasitic idea...... (read in full...)
Is his sex drive normal for a guy who's 20?
Q. Hi I'm in need of a bit of advise and clarification if its needed. Me and my boyfriend have been together for just over 7 months and we have great sex. However he is hardly ever in the mood so we rarely have it and least once every 2 or 3 weeks. I'...
A. 11 September 2009: hi all and especially the one who raised this, to tell i had lots of drive while in between 15-25. but i never had sex till the age of 27. so i am not sure i am enough to guide you. but i can tell you all what goes in my mind. every human ar... (read in full...)
I'm 16 but look 25, does this happen to others?
Q. I look 25 years old but I'm only 16, I'm wondering if this is normal I hear more complains about looking younger than age but not a whole lot of the opposite. and I'm also concerned will I always look older then I am, I would really hat being 35 and ...
A. 10 September 2009: do u have to be worrying about this? age and looks are matters of initial attraction. basic need is you to have a young mind. YES, age happens to mind. if your mind is old ... u r really old. compare with other answers that you get.... (read in full...)
I slept with my husbands brother!! Now I dont know whether to tell my husband ??
Q. About a year ago I cheated on my husband with his brother. A lot of what happened between us was emotional rather than physical, although we did sleep together on 2 occasions. I think I did it because I wanted the excitement and as a reflex reac...
A. 10 September 2009: hey, you had a nice time. in social norms those will be blamed. but still it is up to your wish. it is a double edged question that whether to tell your hus or not. 1. if he knows he may feel very bad. 2. if he knows fro some body else, it wil... (read in full...)
How can I show her I don't mind sharing her with my brother?
Q. Hi friends, There is some thing happened in our life. Mine and my wife's. My brother came and stayed with us for 3 months. He was 19 and my wife was 22. She once told me that he is playing around and in a tricky way, as if happens accidentally ...
A. 10 September 2009: yes lolal,
you reply sees to be valid. even after seeing her worrying, i was also in trouble. she is important, the only important. once i asked her if she and him were involving in a complete love making what will she do and the answer was she will... (read in full...)
How can I show her I don't mind sharing her with my brother?
Q. Hi friends, There is some thing happened in our life. Mine and my wife's. My brother came and stayed with us for 3 months. He was 19 and my wife was 22. She once told me that he is playing around and in a tricky way, as if happens accidentally ...
A. 9 September 2009: thanks for the replies. we are trying for a conclusion. I just wanted to have an understanding about how and what she is feeling about it. i am always in an appreciative mood and enjoys it. i know that we will be together for every thing. she had ... (read in full...)
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