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writes:i have a serious problem. In the last 5 months or so, i dont know how... but i always accidentally end up watching my 15 year old sister naked.many a times its changing clothes, or her coming out of bathroom. we have adjacent rooms, so it increases the probability. so many times i have seen her STARK NAKED, or just in her underwear..... i have started having sexual feelings for her.please tell me what to do (she doesnt know anything about this)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 December 2009): If I were you I would ask her to consider not being naked around you because it makes you feel "awkward". You can tell her that you think she is very pretty but she should not flaunt herself in front of you because it is sending the wrong message.
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reader, CoolAndCoolest  +, writes (23 November 2009):
nothing to worry about. that is your sister and nothing wrong in seeing her naked or half naked. it is just normal.
and your age just adds to it to have sexual feelings.
if you leave things without much notice you will get immune to those feelings. and you can be more mature.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you guys for your suggestions.
and by the way she doesnt intentionally go undressed around the house all the time. its always in her room that i see her.
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reader, duce00  +, writes (14 November 2009):
 1-She shouldn't be prancing about naked
2-You should be closing your door
3-Get an issue of Victoria's Secret and point your fantasies elsewhere like young men have done for eons.
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reader, pancakes rule  +, writes (14 November 2009):
 some people get feelings for people they were close to during puberty. don't tell her, it can just make things awkward and it's too much of a taboo.You can ask her to cover up, get dressed before she comes out of her room or the bathroom and simply use an excuse like 'your my sister, i dont want to see you naked, thats gross'.If there is no lock on the bathroom door, get one, your parents should understand that you're both old enough to need privacy.good luckxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2009): This Is Disturbing.! Thats Abnormal To Get Sexual Feelings Over Your Own Sister .. You Need Help :|
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2009): I think its your hormones doing the thinking for you... Just because you get arroused when you see her naked, doesnt mean you want to have sex with your sister, just a natural reflex for a female body. I think that if you saw any other hot young lady naked you would feel the same right? So dont take it personally on your sister, she only happens to be around. Maybe you are in that phase so sexual that you cant separate the body from the fact that she is your sister.Dont feel guilty, just try to focus on some one elses body.But if it is in fact personally w your sister, than you have a problem. I dont mean mental problem or anything, i mean that our culture doest see it as acceptable...
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2009): I think you need to tell your sister that you can't handle seeing her naked and would she please (out of respect for you) be more private. She probably doesn't think anything of it as you have been naked around each other since childhood.You might have to explain to her that your penis seems to have a mind of it's own and you are just learning to control him :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2009): I think you need to tell your sister that you can't handle seeing her naked and would she please (out of respect for you) be more private. She probably doesn't think anything of it as you have been naked around each other since childhood.You might have to explain to her that your penis seems to have a mind of it's own and you are just learning to control him :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2009): Tell her to stop walking around naked or in her underwear because it causes you to become sexually aroused. Hopefully, she will understand and will start covering up. If she says you're a pervert, tell her the site of a girl's naked body will generally get a man at least a little sexually aroused, and you are no exception. So talk to her about it and ask her to be more careful. Post back here and let us know what she said after you tell her.
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