A
male
age
41-50,
*oolAndCoolest
writes:I have lot of fantasies, many wild fantasies, but I enjoy it. I tell this to my wife too and she does not complain.Some of my fantasies involve me with some of my close female relatives. Having a threesome or foursome including me and my wife with one of our friends.... and it goes. I don't know what exactly she feels when I tell this to her, though she does not show any problem I don't understand how the female mind goes about the kind of guy I am??? Can female friends suggest, directly, what will you think about this kind of a guy as a husband??
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reader, CoolAndCoolest +, writes (18 April 2010):
CoolAndCoolest is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni am grateful to you all.
nobody did blame me. what i was looking for what women feel about my kind of guy. the suggestions are fantastic.
i put my question in the right place.
i love my wife and sorry for the pain that i caused her.
at this moment i pray for you all. and everybody in the world.
it is my duty for me , to be my wife's own only possession and i will control my thoughts and behavior in that line.
now i understand the pain that she might have had all these time, though she does not show any problem.
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reader, Roadster73  +, writes (17 April 2010):
 I have to agree...I would agree to most things with my husband sexually...but I would think he was a real nut job if he started saying about relatives...sorry maybe you need sexual counselling???
good luck
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reader, Tisha-1  +, writes (17 April 2010):
 If my husband told me he was fantasizing about his female relatives, I would freak out. I would think there is something wrong with him, and would wonder if he had the potential for being an abuser. There's a strong taboo against incest and I'm no different than your average person at finding it repugnant.
He can tell me that he finds a particular woman friend attractive, as long as he doesn't go into any detail as to what he's fantasized about. That is none of my business and I honestly don't need or want to know.
Fantasies like that are best kept as secrets shared with no one. Keep it inside your head.
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reader, rambini +, writes (17 April 2010):
 would your wife tell you if she didnt like them? i would hate it personally, fantasies about relatives is disgusting, and fantasies about other women would just make me feel i wasnt good enough. so in conclusion, i wouldnt really think of a guy like you as a husband at all, maybe as an ex-husband at best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 April 2010): On one hand they are only fantasies and as long as you do not act them out then its fine.
On the other hand, they are rather incestuous so I would feel very uncomfortable hearing that my husband thinks about relatives in this way. Also, I'm not that inclined towards group sex so that will disgust me even more.
Over all, I would be thinking about what kind of man I married.
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female
reader, jaime90  +, writes (17 April 2010):
 honestly, i would be disgusted if my husband was having sexual thoughts about relatives.
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