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i like helping people out as much as i can because at age 10 i was raped by age 13 i was in 2 mental hospitals by age 14 i was in rehab, so i pretty much know alot about getting help and being able to help other people....i live in pa with my mom and stepdad...i am in a relationship with a special boy we have ups and downs but we always work it out,and i dont want everything perfect anyways...thats a little about me

Divorcing my husband because of his drug use. Did I do the right thing?

Q.   I recently found out my husband is on meth. I'm in the process of divorcing him. We have a child together, so he gets supervised visitation, at which time he often tells me he misses me and still loves me. Even though I have no intentions of ...

A.   13 February 2006: you did the right thing......drugs and family dont go together, he could of hurt u our ur child u did the right thing!... (read in full...)

Is sex with an ex ever a good idea?

Q.   Is sex with an ex ever a good idea?...

A.   13 February 2006: it depends really, u didnt state why that person was an ex? its all on you if you want to get back with this ex of yours then no!!!! because that person wont want to b e back with you when x knows that you are giving it up with out being together... (read in full...)

Should I tell my parents that I think I might be bisexual?

Q.   hiya, I'm 15 and a lil confused. I'm not really sure, but I think I maybe bi-curious. It may just be a phase I'm going through? Should I tell my parents or keep it to myself until I'm totally sure? Thank you x...

A.   12 February 2006: hey i am 16 and i am bi sexual, ive been bi since i was 11 years old, ive keep it from my parents for 3 years, i didnt tell them that i was intil i was sure about it.... if you want to tell them go ahead, just put it stright at them and be like i t... (read in full...)

My girlfriend doesn't thrill me like she used to. What's more, I'm attracted to someone else, and would never want to hurt her!

Q.   Hey all, I'm an 18 year old male in a rather deep relationship. It's been a couple years, and we've managed to get along pretty well. We share a lot of interests and really connect on a lot of levels. We've used the L word with each other and for ...

A.   12 February 2006: i dont know how to start off.... so i'm just start off like this, either way you will hurt the girl you are with, and the reason for that is, if you break up with her she will be hurt and when you are feelin this other girl she is gonna know ... (read in full...)

Need some answers about sex the first time, please!

Q.   Everytime I get a boyfriend they always want sex. I do want to do it but I'm really scared of getting pregnant. What would be the best type of contraception? Would the pill and condom be good together? Is sex sore the first time and can anyone give ...

A.   11 February 2006: to me it dont sound like you are scared of getting pregnet it sounds like you are not ready to... and if the boy is only with you to have sex dump him, befor you have sex with a guy you need to know he is with you because he loves you and if he s... (read in full...)

Two weeks after he said he didn't want to ask me out, he's still flirty with me. What's going on?

Q.   Ok, I already asked this question, but I'm wondering if I can get some further advice. So I'm 16 and my friend asked this guy that's been flirting and friendly with me if he liked me. He basically said I kinda do, but not enough to ask out and I ...

A.   11 February 2006: you shouldnt push him to like you, he has been hurt in the past and he is scared from that, just keep being friends with him for a while longer and then think about writting him and letting him know how you feel, but intil then just continue being ... (read in full...)

We broke up after 5 years! Is it possible to get over someone you really love?

Q.   Is it possible to get over someone you really love? My ex broke up with me after 5 years together, saying that because I was his first ever girlfriend, even though he loved me and our relationship was great, the timing was wrong and he needed to be ...

A.   11 February 2006: i was with A guy 3 and a half years and things was kinda going bad towards the end then i broke up with him after he stabed me, but i still loved him i would hangout with him all da time and it was about a year later when i lost feelings for ... (read in full...)

Feel so embarrassed and depressed about the rejection. Now, everyone's rubbing it in too!

Q.   I like this boy and I can never get him out of my head. I think I really like him. But I think he likes my friend and I asked him out and he said no. I feel so depressed and what's worse, everyone is rubbing it in that I got rejected. I want to ...

A.   11 February 2006: hey its ok, dont hurt yourself.....i can remb. when i was in school i was not popular at all and this prepy boy asked me out and i had the biggiest crush on him and i said yes and hes like not!!!! and everyone knew about this i felt so dumb, and ... (read in full...)

What can I do to get him and keep him?

Q.   there is this guy that i am totally in love withbut i cant tell him . he knows i have feelings and so does he but he dont want to get hurt or hurt me .we have done things that you do in a relationship like being intamate but he doesnt want it to go ...

A.   10 February 2006: dont belive that he doesnt want to hurt you thats a bunch of lies, if you two are having sex then that means that he knows that he doesnt have to be with you to get what he wants...... when he tells you he dont want to hurt you thats just some... (read in full...)

How do I chill out about all these pretty blonde girls?

Q.   Everytime I see my boyfriend, I feel happy and at ease but... there are a few girls that make me feel really uneasy around him. When these girls are around i feel like hes going to leave me for them. Because to me they are alot prettier than I and ...

A.   10 February 2006: hunnie i am the same way with my boyfriend except one thing he likes the bigger hipped gurls and i am a size 0-3, and i talked to him about it and he said if i wanted to be with them i would have never asked you out..... dont worry about them blon... (read in full...)

He's depressed and he says he's not scared to die..how do I help him?

Q.   hiya, im really worried about my friend, he just doesn't care anymore. for past few months he says he has been depressed and he has gone though a million mood swings. he says no one cares about him even though loads of people do, he just can't see ...

A.   10 February 2006: hi i am a 16 year old female, and i maybe able to help you on this, first of all ive been in so many mental hospitals, and placements because i was the same way i tryed to kill myself all the time..... now about your friend, heres some ques... (read in full...)

In love with my best friend...

Q.   Dear Agony Aunts, I am falling in love with my best friend. We are both girls. Every time she looks at me my heart goes fast and i blush. I love her as a m8 and i wish she were my girlfriend as well. Rumours went round that she was a lesbian ...

A.   10 February 2006: hi i am a 16 year old bi sexual.....at first i was scared to let people know that i liked the same sex cause they would always pick on people like that but then i started likin my bestfriend who was a girl and she was stright, so i didnt know how to ... (read in full...)

Lost two boyfriends because I wouldn't let them feel my breasts. What should I do?

Q.   I am 15 and I go out with boys, but I admit I get frightened when I am kissing my boyfriend and he tries to feel my breasts so I stop him. I have lost two boys because of this. Should I let him do this and if I do, will he want more?...

A.   10 February 2006: i am a 16 yr old female.....any ways about your question if you dont feel right when a guy touches you and they break up with you for that, dont worry about it you are still young guys come and go.....they need to respect your wishes and if they ... (read in full...)

What does she mean, she "needs space"?

Q.   my girlfriend about 1 week ago became very quite and was acting strange. We have been dating for almost 1 year. When confronted she said she did not know what was wrong and she may be in a different space than i am. After talking last night we ...

A.   9 February 2006: it can mean so many things, and i dont want to get you upset even more but i will tell you to be perpared for what ever comes out of this, she may tell you she dont want to break up and she just needs some space but she may be breakin up with you ... (read in full...)

Needed someone I trusted to talk to, but when I confided in my friend, I was suddenly a "bringdown"...

Q.   My ex-best friend decided a couple weeks ago that I was whoring her attention and ignoring her. I had just started talking to her about my rape experience and needed someone I trusted to help me through the sad and suicidal times. But then she ...

A.   8 February 2006: sorry to hear about what happend to you i had the same thing happen to me but it was even worse my mom called me a lil slut, but anyways not to get off track about you, there are a few things that you can do, in class maybe you could ask the teac... (read in full...)

How can I discuss things with my boyfriend without making him mad?

Q.   I am a 16 year old girl. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 months and things was going really good, until recently we have been falling apart. We barely talk to each other any more or even hang out. We fight about the littlest things. I try ...

A.   8 February 2006: i want to thank the ladies who gave me advice on my sit..... today at work my boyfriend came in when i was ready to leave, and i go over to where he was working and im like we need to talk and hes like about what and i told him that he needs to work ... (read in full...)

How can I discuss things with my boyfriend without making him mad?

Q.   I am a 16 year old girl. I've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 months and things was going really good, until recently we have been falling apart. We barely talk to each other any more or even hang out. We fight about the littlest things. I try ...

A.   8 February 2006: today when i seen my boyfriend at work i had to go over and talk to him about what has been going on and how i feel....and i told him stright out if he doesnt want to listen to me then i will have to break it off with him and then we talked for a ... (read in full...)

I love him but all he wants is a sex partner! What should I do?

Q.   I really really need some advice! I posted a question on this situation a while ago. I got some advice off a few of the agony aunts which i am truly grateful for! It's about my ex boyfriend, who i am still madly in love with after 3 years. The ...

A.   8 February 2006: ive kind of had this experience except he told me that we was dating and to come to find out he said that we wasnt, but i can try to give you good advice on what to do.... first of all i dont think you should keep in contact with him anymore and ... (read in full...)

If I find out she really likes me...how should I ask her out? Any tips?

Q.   Dear Cupid, I am 13 years old and go to High School in the UK, for a while now i have gotten on very well with this girl, we are always talking and have become friends. I love spending time with her and she enjoys my company(i hope), all my frien...

A.   8 February 2006: hey....i think i maybeable to help you on this, if you want to get with her on val. day then maybe you can buy her a teddy bear and a card and in the card ask her if she will go out with you, listen dont be affraid of a no or a maybe, if she truns ... (read in full...)

My ex made me feel ashamed of my body-I'm scared to be nude in front of my new bf.

Q.   I am self-conscious about my body, and my boyfriend says he doesn't care, but my old ex (who I was physical with) was very critical about my body and said I was too fat and basically made me feel ugly. Things are completely different with my new guy ...

A.   8 February 2006: ive been down that road befor and it is a hard thing to get over when your ex tells you those things, but this is what i did and i hope it can help you. i sat my new boyfriend down and explained to him that i dont like my body, and i explained to h... (read in full...)

She wanted a break...will we get back together again?

Q.   My Girlfriend likes another guy, but i still like her, what do i do? My girlfriend of over 9 months broke up with me 2 weeks ago. We had the perfect relationship and we were always happy around each other. Then one day out of the blue she says...

A.   7 February 2006: these kind of things happen often, to be honest with you i do think she is two young to stay with one guy for a long period of time, when seeing each other all the time and having every thing perfect gets old so she is going to experince with other ... (read in full...)

We were a great couple for a year, then the little arguments drove us apart!

Q.   Right well I dunno where to start... I was with my girlfiend for 17 months. For the first year we was fine. Nothing could faze us. It was us against the world, so to speak. Everyone that knew us thought we were a great couple and we could go the d...

A.   7 February 2006: maybe it would be best if you two dont talk for a while, i know its going to be hard and painful but sometimes people need to go there seprate ways........and then a month or so she will relize that she wants to be with you and then you two could ... (read in full...)

No sex, just sucking... Is this wrong?

Q.   I'm a 15-year-old girl and going out with a guy only a month younger than me. He's a total sweetie and we've been going out for three months. We've made out and he's felt under my bra. But he wants to take my bra off. No sex, but sucking... I'm not ...

A.   7 February 2006: hi i am a 16 year old girl...and to be honest with you dont rush into things, you are still to young too be doing things like that, once you do something with one guy they will all be expecting you to do it to them to, and u will be teased in ... (read in full...)

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