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writes: I like this boy and I can never get him out of my head. I think I really like him. But I think he likes my friend and I asked him out and he said no. I feel so depressed and what's worse, everyone is rubbing it in that I got rejected. I want to tell him how I feel but I don't know if I should. I am also very unpopular and have no one to turn to. I feel like killing myself sometimes. Please help me before I do something bad. thanks
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reader, lala moon +, writes (7 March 2006):
lala moon is verified as being by the original poster of the question thank u sooo much ur info has bin takin to heart and im gonna tell him how a feel 2 morra
oncew again thank u soooo much
xxxLaraxxx
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reader, xmiseryx +, writes (11 February 2006):
I know how you feel, because I like this boy who it seems like is taking forever to like me the way I like him. But what I try to do is not focus on that and just try to keep myself busy with other things I like so I don't think about it. As far as being unpopular, sometimes people might not be even viewing you the way you think they are. I thought I was unpopular, and when I went to high school I decided to just try to be nice to everyone, from the cool to the not so cool and it was really weird, because I ended up getting friendly with a lot of the people that I thought hated me. So my advice to you is to act confident (even if you don't feel like you are, act like you are!, trust me it makes a difference), smile and be nice to everyone and I bet you will be surprised. As far as the kid you like, I think you should just try to be his friend and not worry about if he likes you or not. If he sees you as a nice friend, eventually he may see you as more. Besides if he doesn't like you, its his loss, not yours. Hope this helps you.
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reader, chrissymarie +, writes (11 February 2006):
 hey its ok, dont hurt yourself.....i can remb. when i was in school i was not popular at all and this prepy boy asked me out and i had the biggiest crush on him and i said yes and hes like not!!!! and everyone knew about this i felt so dumb, and cryed.......
for about a month it was goin on with everyone saying stuff but then it stoped.....
my point to you is dont let a rejection or anything make you want to kill yourself you will be fine, dont let them get to you, in about a month they will forget about it and find other people to say stuff about......
and about you really liken him and the feelings, let them go for him u may not belive it but there will be a guy that really likes you just give it time!
if you feel that you need to tell him how you feel then you should that will get that off your chest the heart ache has already happend what can go worse he wont listen to you oh well then you dont need him give it a try and see how it works, do what ever it takes to get it off your chest....pLease whatever you do dont hurt yourself ive been there tryed it and it just makes things worse.....good luck
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