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writes: Dear Agony Aunts,I am falling in love with my best friend. We are both girls. Every time she looks at me my heart goes fast and i blush. I love her as a m8 and i wish she were my girlfriend as well. Rumours went round that she was a lesbian so i stuck to her a bit more. She makes me things and stares at me alot and i hope this is a sign she likes me too, although she denied all the lesbian stuff. I don't want to like her like its driving me crazy and all i want is for her to be mine and i won't tell her how i feel i wont tell her anything. I can't ignore her, she's one of me best friends!! PLEASE HELP ME!!!!! I.N needofhelp
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reader, chrissymarie +, writes (10 February 2006):
 hi i am a 16 year old bi sexual.....at first i was scared to let people know that i liked the same sex cause they would always pick on people like that but then i started likin my bestfriend who was a girl and she was stright, so i didnt know how to tell her but then one day i wrote her a note and told her how i felt about her and she started liken me to......
my point to your question is write her a note or just talk to her about it if she is a true best friend then things will work out just fine, if you dont let her know how u feel about her then your friendship will be diffrent so just tell her what can it hurt.....well good luck
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reader, Dazzerg  +, writes (4 February 2006):
 I have to largely concur with the other writer here. Of course its possible she isn't a lesbian but is bi-sexual. Internal conflicts and fears over admitting sexual orientation can in cases like this make things harder, they are an extra pressure to consider however you seem comfortable with yours which is good. Its possible shes scared of admitting she feels attracted to girls.
Like the other writer said I would tell her how you feel. She is your best friend, she will understand and hopefully share your feelings. Good luck.
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reader, diddo +, writes (4 February 2006):
well, everyone goes through crushes in their teens. Your body is just experimenting with different sexualities. im 15 also and i have been through them with friends and teachers. i think you should tell the girl how you feel and see if she feels the same way. good luck xox
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